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What’s a reasonable time to knock on their door?

92 replies

MinnieMountain · 28/05/2024 06:27

We’re staying in a holiday let. It’s a middle terrace with a right of way over next door’s garden.

I’ve just noticed that they have blocked our gate with bicycles. We need to use it to put the bins back.

What’s a reasonable time to knock on their door to ask them to move them? I suspect it’s an attempt to stop us using it as they were in when we came that way yesterday.

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AGodawfulsmallaffair · 28/05/2024 06:29

I’d message the letting agent and tell them, but otherwise about 9.30 / 10, or pop a note in the door.

FridayForever · 28/05/2024 06:30

9? When you hear movement and know they're awake?

Why did you come in through their garden if its a right of way for the bins primarily - that sounds anti social and must be horrid for people with a holiday let next door.

MinnieMountain · 28/05/2024 06:34

We came through the back yesterday so we could take our sandy shoes off in the garden rather than getting sand in the house. Perfectly reasonable to my mind.

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MinnieMountain · 28/05/2024 06:35

And I didn’t say it’s primarily a right of way for the bins. Neither did the information from the people we’re renting it from,

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Saucery · 28/05/2024 06:37

They are probably just used to using that area to put their bikes etc. can the bins be left where they are for now, just catch the neighbours later today?

MinnieMountain · 28/05/2024 06:38

It’s definitely another holiday let @Saucery . We’ve been here since Friday and saw the cleaners come first thing yesterday.

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Saucery · 28/05/2024 06:40

Oh, in that case I’d knock on about 9am and ask them to move the bikes! They might be going out earlier than that, on the bikes, so problem solved for you.

EmpressaurusDeiGatti · 28/05/2024 06:43

If it’s another holiday let, maybe they don’t know about the right of way.

FridayForever · 28/05/2024 06:44

If its another holiday let then that changes my sympathy!

9 I reckon.

BusyCM · 28/05/2024 06:47

It will be for access, for things like bins that can't come through the front door. Not people traipsing past with sandy shoes.... you're not giving them quiet enjoyment of their holiday let.

Ineffable23 · 28/05/2024 07:00

I probably would minimise my use of the right of way more than you are, though I recognise you have a right to use it as you are.

I have a right of way across the back of my house. I'm lucky enough that my neighbours only use it for things that would be highly inconvenient to do any other way (bins, lawnmowers, bikes) rather than just moderately (like the shoe thing you mentioned). Obviously it's a risk I took buying this house, and I would have to live with the consequences if I did get someone who wanted to use the RoW all the time, but it does make life easier for me that they don't.

Given it's another holiday let I do think that makes life easier. Do you know what time the bins need to be out by? If it's not super early I would probably go and knock around 10 but if it's anything like where I am it would need to be earlier than that (but where I am the bin men have been and gone by now!).

MinnieMountain · 28/05/2024 07:08

@BusyCM I’m a residential property solicitor. I’ll bet my practicing certificate on it being a right of way on foot at all times and for all purposes. I don’t think once a day when we come back is excessive. And we don’t have a contract of any sort with next door, so “quiet enjoyment” is bollocks.

Bins have been collected. I need to bring them back in so they don’t block the pavement.

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festivallove · 28/05/2024 07:10

I have a right of way across the back of my house. I'm lucky enough that my neighbours only use it for things that would be highly inconvenient to do any other way (bins, lawnmowers, bikes) rather than just moderately (like the shoe thing you mentioned). Obviously it's a risk I took buying this house, and I would have to live with the consequences if I did get someone who wanted to use the RoW all the time, but it does make life easier for me that they don't.
Me too, house next door is an HMO, I'm so so glad they have all been lovely and respectful and use it to put bins out only. I live with dread that the house may one day be sold to people who use it it just because ( sandy shoes etc) again risk I took when buying the house but it could be awful with the puppy and GC

BusyCM · 28/05/2024 07:17

MinnieMountain · 28/05/2024 07:08

@BusyCM I’m a residential property solicitor. I’ll bet my practicing certificate on it being a right of way on foot at all times and for all purposes. I don’t think once a day when we come back is excessive. And we don’t have a contract of any sort with next door, so “quiet enjoyment” is bollocks.

Bins have been collected. I need to bring them back in so they don’t block the pavement.

Ah that explains why you've been acting as you have! Spoiling their holiday out of principle, nice!

MinnieMountain · 28/05/2024 07:31

I haven’t been “spoiling their holiday” @BusyCM . We’ve been that way ONCE since they arrived. We’ll have to use it again for the bins and to put the keys in the keysafe when we leave.

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HeddaGarbled · 28/05/2024 07:45

Ah, a solicitor. I bet you could start an argument in an empty garden.

EasilyDefined · 28/05/2024 09:19

Around 9 seems reasonable. I'm in the same position, we have a right of way across ours, but like @Ineffable23 we have considerate neighbours who only use it for the bins etc. I would have thought it easy enough to take your shoes off at the front door.

Lemevoir · 28/05/2024 09:31

Can you not move the bikes out of the way yourself, bring the bins in, and then put the bikes back where they were? Why do you need to knock on the their door at all? And if they "catch" you moving the bikes, surely it'll be obvious why you're doing it when you start to bring the bins in. And aren't the neighbours' bins also on the pavement??

Preparetoturnright · 28/05/2024 10:19

Lemevoir · 28/05/2024 09:31

Can you not move the bikes out of the way yourself, bring the bins in, and then put the bikes back where they were? Why do you need to knock on the their door at all? And if they "catch" you moving the bikes, surely it'll be obvious why you're doing it when you start to bring the bins in. And aren't the neighbours' bins also on the pavement??

Yes, this.

Just move the bikes.

Womblealongwithme · 28/05/2024 10:28

BusyCM · 28/05/2024 06:47

It will be for access, for things like bins that can't come through the front door. Not people traipsing past with sandy shoes.... you're not giving them quiet enjoyment of their holiday let.

Access means just that. Unless they were dancing the cha cha and singing loudly on their way through the garden, I doubt they spoiled their holiday.

Delatron · 28/05/2024 10:39

I’m a bit confused. Why the urgency with the bins? Why can’t you just move their bikes if you are so worried about said bins.

If the access is only for bins then I really wouldn’t be using it that much. You’re on holiday. If you knock to wake them about bin moving then that’s a bit annoying.

SpringerFall · 28/05/2024 10:42

MinnieMountain · 28/05/2024 07:08

@BusyCM I’m a residential property solicitor. I’ll bet my practicing certificate on it being a right of way on foot at all times and for all purposes. I don’t think once a day when we come back is excessive. And we don’t have a contract of any sort with next door, so “quiet enjoyment” is bollocks.

Bins have been collected. I need to bring them back in so they don’t block the pavement.

This does explain a lot

MinnieMountain · 28/05/2024 14:11

For those who were bothered: the bikes were locked together, so couldn’t be moved. Only our bins were out, no idea why as ours have been emptied. I knocked at 9:35, was polite, they hadn’t realised, all good.

What do you mean @SpringerFall ?

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Saucery · 28/05/2024 14:28

Glad it worked out amicably @MinnieMountain . I think people who aren’t used to shared access just don't ‘get’ that yes, you might have someone walking past your house with bins/mowers etc.

I always put the bins out on Bin Day in a holiday cottage. I have several glowing reviews from house owners because of it Grin

PinkQuail · 29/05/2024 07:04

Why you even bothered if it's just a holiday let 🙄