Meet the Other Phone. Flexible and made to last.

Meet the Other Phone.
Flexible and made to last.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Chat

Join the discussion and chat with other Mumsnetters about everyday life, relationships and parenting.

What’s a reasonable time to knock on their door?

92 replies

MinnieMountain · 28/05/2024 06:27

We’re staying in a holiday let. It’s a middle terrace with a right of way over next door’s garden.

I’ve just noticed that they have blocked our gate with bicycles. We need to use it to put the bins back.

What’s a reasonable time to knock on their door to ask them to move them? I suspect it’s an attempt to stop us using it as they were in when we came that way yesterday.

OP posts:
Bellyblueboy · 29/05/2024 21:57

MinnieMountain · 29/05/2024 21:35

Did you mean to be so rude @Bellyblueboy ? Just because you can be nasty to strangers on the internet, doesn’t mean you should be.

Just reading all your responses together, you seem to be going out of your way to annoy the neoghbours because you are legally right and you ‘know the law’.

you are spending your holiday telling strangers in the internet that you know the law and your holiday let neighbours should not expect quiet enjoyment of their holiday garden because that’s the law.

maybe they don’t know about the right of way. Maybe they thought it was just bins and were annoyed at you cutting through their garden. I couldn’t get worked up about my legal rights to take off my sandy shoes at the back door of a holiday let😂.

it seems OTT for a short break. I wonder what happens when you have a fence dispute or a neighbour with a barking dog. It seems extreme.

anchoviesanchovies · 30/05/2024 07:15

How on earth is she going out of her way to annoy her neighbours? She’s used the path once to not traipse sand through the house which seems completely reasonable and now she needs to get bins in because they’re blocking the path. Presumably annoying people that are using the path. Also completely reasonable! She’s only arguing her right to use the path because so many people are incorrectly telling her what she can and can’t do. It’s utterly ridiculous!

Daisyblue77 · 30/05/2024 18:21

I can believe the comments in this post, dont people know what right of way means. Glad you got it sorted, i dont know why people are being derogatory about you being a solicitor,

Daisyblue77 · 30/05/2024 18:24

Bellyblueboy · 29/05/2024 21:57

Just reading all your responses together, you seem to be going out of your way to annoy the neoghbours because you are legally right and you ‘know the law’.

you are spending your holiday telling strangers in the internet that you know the law and your holiday let neighbours should not expect quiet enjoyment of their holiday garden because that’s the law.

maybe they don’t know about the right of way. Maybe they thought it was just bins and were annoyed at you cutting through their garden. I couldn’t get worked up about my legal rights to take off my sandy shoes at the back door of a holiday let😂.

it seems OTT for a short break. I wonder what happens when you have a fence dispute or a neighbour with a barking dog. It seems extreme.

Your being totally ridiculous. Her comments have only been in response to people. Going on about her being a solicitor makes you seem jealous

Yellowbananasarebetterthangreen · 30/05/2024 18:30

This thread has some wildly OTT responses. @MinnieMountain you seem to me like the sort of person Id probably like living next door to. Ignore the idiotic comments! Putting the bins back is the right thing to do. And taking them through the house obviously isnt. Perfectly reasonable to ask the holiday let next door to move the bikes so you can etc.

Bellyblueboy · 30/05/2024 21:36

Daisyblue77 · 30/05/2024 18:24

Your being totally ridiculous. Her comments have only been in response to people. Going on about her being a solicitor makes you seem jealous

I didn’t once mention that she is a solicitor! Lots of people say they know the law. And most people do have a good grasp of it.

why would I be jealous of a strangers job? And why would I be jealous of a solicitor specifically?

Whosbeeneatingmyporridge · 30/05/2024 22:00

I’m really not sure why the responses on here are so savage. Perfectly reasonable question from OP. My neighbour has right of way across my back garden. She can use it whenever she wants to access her back garden. As she frequently has a muddy dog after her walk she uses it. That would go for sandy shoes too. I wouldn’t expect her to walk through her house. I have put a hot dog wash in the shared passage that I am happy for her to also use on her way through. It’s neighbourly. Be nice people.

eastegg · 30/05/2024 23:20

greengreyblue · 29/05/2024 09:22

Wow some horrible comments on this thread. Obviously some solicitor hate . Didn’t know they were so unpopular. OP your request sounded perfectly reasonable. Glad you got it sorted.

Where have you been hiding ?😀. Solicitors and barristers are despised openly, until they’re needed of course. As soon as anyone on these threads is in any real trouble eg fleeing domestic abuse, then all of a sudden they are the answer.

No-one likes a know-it-all until they need someone who knows it all. We’re like children in the playground really, pathetic.

Bellyblueboy · 31/05/2024 09:23

I honestly don’t think solicitors or barristers are hated in general society. I know there is a running (bad) joke in many American tv shows and movies about lawyers but I have never heard it in the UK or Ireland. I have never heard people expressing any opionions on the profession.

a number of friends and colleagues are solicitors and they have never mentioned this?

Do I live under a rock😂

Humannat · 31/05/2024 10:35

BusyCM · 29/05/2024 08:37

That you intend to act as unneighbourly as you like because you're a solicitor?

Yes, yes you have.

it seems like you’re overly precious and quite dramatic, ‘ruined holiday’ ‘unneighbourly’

I’m sure everyone renting a holiday let is old enough to understand some spaces are communal

Humannat · 31/05/2024 10:37

PinkQuail · 29/05/2024 10:01

Why you even bothered if it's only a holiday let 🙄

Because when you rent someone’s property you take care of it??

The entitlement of people on this site is astounding

LT1982 · 31/05/2024 19:04

MinnieMountain · 28/05/2024 07:08

@BusyCM I’m a residential property solicitor. I’ll bet my practicing certificate on it being a right of way on foot at all times and for all purposes. I don’t think once a day when we come back is excessive. And we don’t have a contract of any sort with next door, so “quiet enjoyment” is bollocks.

Bins have been collected. I need to bring them back in so they don’t block the pavement.

If not time sensitive for putting bins out then 10am. People like to chill/have a lie in on holiday

LT1982 · 31/05/2024 19:07

BusyCM · 28/05/2024 07:17

Ah that explains why you've been acting as you have! Spoiling their holiday out of principle, nice!

How is walking across a garden "spoiling someone's holiday"? Dramatic much?

LT1982 · 31/05/2024 19:13

HeddaGarbled · 28/05/2024 07:45

Ah, a solicitor. I bet you could start an argument in an empty garden.

Says the person posting a sarcastic comment that will probably start arguments 🙄🙄

MinnieMountain · 31/05/2024 19:31

I’m not reading the comments properly because some posters have been unpleasant, but I’m amazed this thread is still running 😆

OP posts:
Spirallingdownwards · 31/05/2024 19:34

BusyCM · 28/05/2024 07:17

Ah that explains why you've been acting as you have! Spoiling their holiday out of principle, nice!

Rights of way are granted to give people access. They are a legal right to cross the land precisely to give access. What a daft response.

Spirallingdownwards · 31/05/2024 19:36

All this venom directed at OP because she was a solicitor and was asking what would be a polite time to knock? Anyone was thinking she was wanting to steal their kids!

New posts on this thread. Refresh page
Swipe left for the next trending thread