Have you been in a French supermarket?? Delicious food, but very little ready meals, a small selection of 'crap' food .
Funnily enough, I was in one on Friday. A wonderful large Leclerc in Villaneuve sur Lot. HUGE aisle of crisps and snacks (If you gave my french dad a glass of wine without some salty snacks he’d think there was something wrong with you so my mum spends a lot of time in this aisle). If you wanted biscuits there was an impressive selection. Lovely chocolate aisle with a really great choice of bars. And then the fresh cakes… oh my god. So many tartes, gateaux. Of course lots of ice cream… Then there were the baked goods, croissant, pain au chocolate, pain au raisin, baguettes. Cheese. Fuck me, the cheese is just incredible. Endless rows of lovely fatty cheese. Oh and yes, lots of ready meals, pizzas etc. People of all shapes and sizes and a few super slim, chic ladies that actually stood out for being less the norm than the exception.
The driver for french women (less the men) to stay slim isn’t that the supermarkets lack what you would call “crap food” and what my french dad would just call food. He’s very slim btw. No one knows why as he eats like a horse. His daily breakfast is porridge with milk and honey, two croissants and two slices of toast with jam. My mum has to eat a minuscule amount of what he does just to stay a size 12/14.
Anyway, the only way for two of my menopausal friends to lose weight was to resort to VLC diets. Another of my friends is on Ozempic and another is on Mounjaro. And yet one of my friends is very, very slim and gets hangry if she doesn’t eat every two hours. If I ate like her I’d be severely obese. I eat - by a long way - the least in my family who are all skinny Minnies yet I am fat (and I have an under active thyroid which makes it especially shit trying to lose weight).
We are all very different and if people who struggle with their weight need a helping hand and are willing to pay for it so what? The number of women on mumsnet who feel morally superior for being below a size ten is quite astounding. You know what they say… I can lose the weight but you’ll always be a xxxx (chose your favourite).