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What's one thing you do in your adult home that your parents didnt in your childhood home ?

200 replies

BrickPoet · 02/04/2024 22:43

have shoes in a room rather than the stairs

OP posts:
Sunnnybunny72 · 03/04/2024 10:54

Shower every day.

CactusMactus · 03/04/2024 11:09

Watch TV
Eat additives and shop bought bread

ClonedSquare · 03/04/2024 11:09

Nannyfannybanny · 03/04/2024 10:50

My late parents brought me up properly, I was told people who resort to swearing have a poor command of the English Language.

My parents brought me up properly too, I was told people who resort to judging people based on how they speak are snobs and not worth bothering with 🙂

Nannyfannybanny · 03/04/2024 11:20

My late parents were not snobs. I grew up in a rural area,in a council house. F was disabled,DM cleaned private houses. Add to the central heating etc,we had neither a telephone,car,or television

fieldsofbutterflies · 03/04/2024 11:20

Nannyfannybanny · 03/04/2024 10:50

My late parents brought me up properly, I was told people who resort to swearing have a poor command of the English Language.

My parents brought me up not to judge other people for how they speak.

ClawdeenWolf · 03/04/2024 11:21

Nannyfannybanny · 03/04/2024 10:50

My late parents brought me up properly, I was told people who resort to swearing have a poor command of the English Language.

I always love it when this nonsense is trotted out. 😅

Blackcats7 · 03/04/2024 11:21

Feel safe
Be warm
Have feelings

FrenchandSaunders · 03/04/2024 11:26

Ring people before 6pm 😂

SparrowFeet · 03/04/2024 11:27

Dust more than once a month..

IKnowYouBetterThanThat · 03/04/2024 11:33

Lie around in bed with my phone and a cup of tea until late in the day and sometimes don't get dressed at all!

Willmafrockfit · 03/04/2024 11:38

Topseyt123 · 03/04/2024 10:03

I've just thought of another one, just to add to the angst of @Nannyfannybanny. 🤣

I've always had bins in both my bathroom and my downstairs toilet. When I was growing up there was no bathroom bin so we had to wrap our used sanitary towels and carry them through the kitchen to the bin there, no matter who else was in there at the time. For teenagers that was very cringeworthy and embarrassing but my parents didn't see the issue.

Edited

i had to put my sanitary towels in the boiler in the kitchen, the dog got hold of it once and ran up the garden

SlipperyFish11 · 03/04/2024 12:29

Have carpets and wallpaper. Always have food & not worry about where the next meal is coming from.
There's a lot more, but those are obviously basic and important. Not to be taken for granted.

AdoraBell · 03/04/2024 12:32

Tumble drying and dishwasher here too. I grew up in the 70’s and my parents never had them.

Squidlette · 03/04/2024 12:52

Stay in together. My dad was either itching to go to the pub, getting ready to go to the pub, or in the pub.
Work as a team to do things to the house, instead of moaning about it.
Make the kids help out from an early age. My mum didn't, but then moaned the whole of our teenage years about how unhelpful we were.

Humphriescushion · 03/04/2024 13:03

We didn’t have.
telephone.
inside toilet! And bathroom ( ok was only for a while maybe a year)
washing machine

shower ( even when we got a bathroom.

Was a happy childhood though, despite a tin bath in kitchen for a while!

thing47 · 03/04/2024 13:24

Welcome the DC's friends, all of them, at any time.

Fully understand that some people hate this, but I loved it. It meant that our house was often the meeting point (still is!), and we got to know their friends well – now they're all grown up and some of them pop in to see us even if they know the DCs aren't here. There were several occasions when as teenagers they stayed here when they needed a 'safe space' or to get away from a chaotic and/or violent home briefly.

This was obviously a direct result of my friends not being very welcome at home when I was growing up.

IvorTheEngineDriver · 03/04/2024 13:38

Go upstairs to bed (I was brought up in a flat).

Citrusandginger · 03/04/2024 13:40

Put my feet up on my sofa.
Wash my hair more than once a week.
Wash my hair in the shower. For anyone confused by this, allegedly it blocks the drain so hair can only be washed in the kitchen sink with a mug.
Eat when I'm hungry, drink when I'm thirsty, even it's not the prescribed, correct time.
Encourage my DC to do their homework, not insist they wash up first.
Replace clothes and shoes when they are worn out. I had one pair of school shoes a year, yet we were a two car household and went on foreign holidays every summer (1970's).

isitbananatimealready · 03/04/2024 13:46

Allow cats on the bed.

Citrusandginger · 03/04/2024 13:48

Nannyfannybanny · 03/04/2024 10:50

My late parents brought me up properly, I was told people who resort to swearing have a poor command of the English Language.

Grin intelligent people are more likely to swear though.

www.independent.co.uk/life-style/health-and-families/swearing-study-intelligent-intelligence-university-of-rochester-a7916516.html

JMSA · 03/04/2024 13:49

Allow my kids to eat what they want, when they want (within reason and they're teens/young adults anyway).
I don't want them to feel restricted as I did. And guess what, I'm overweight as an adult anyway!

JMSA · 03/04/2024 13:51

Stay in on a sunny day, shock horror!! Shock

Willmafrockfit · 03/04/2024 13:53

go to the cinema on a sunny day! dreadful !

JMSA · 03/04/2024 13:53

Shufflebumnessie · 02/04/2024 23:11

Listen to my children and not immediately dismiss everything they say/feel just because they're children!

Absolutely this.
I reckon any negative feeling I ever had was suppressed!

Purpletractor · 03/04/2024 13:54

Swear
drink alcohol
have a shoes off inside rule.