How can I switch off tonight? 12 week bleed 💔

[Kate3150]

I have posted on pregnancy but looking for more of a virtual hug and I love the chat thread.

I’m 12 weeks pregnant tomorrow, but this afternoon I had some bloody discharge. It’s calmed down a bit but still there.

Havent got a scan til later in the week.

How do I carry on with things day to day and try to “switch off” from it all. I can’t help think the worse.

Bless you its awful the worst bit is not knowing. Handhold here. I've had 3 miscarriages, 2 were 'Missed' and had no symptoms but I just knew something wasn't right and couldn't shake the feeling. My first born child I poured with bright red blood from 7-17 weeks and shes now a happy healthy 4 year old. Thinking of you x

Oh and had massive clots too! I thought it was all over the fiest time so sat in the shower with some wine crying my eyes out only to find out she was fine, little tinker. I never had any pain though, they told me if I got pain it could be a bad sign but no cramps were generally good x

Sending love OP, have been there and the waiting is so very hard. Wishing you lots of luck ❤️

Oh no so sorry to hear the blood is increasing! Thinking of you and sending good vibes for this morning.

Best of luck OP will be thinking of you today

Not good news unfortunately, stopped growing weeks ago 💔 just working out next steps.

Oh love, I’m so sorry. Having been there myself, I know how heartbreaking it is. Take care of yourself and a big unmumsnetty hug x

So sorry op. Ttc is an absolute minefield of emotions... Accept support irl.

So sorry it's bad news. Look after yourself x

So sorry to see your last update, be kind to yourself x

@Kate3150 I'm so sorry op ,this happened to me and I had a evap procedure 2 days later so I know how you feel x

Sorry this is your result today OP, take care

This happened to me at 12 weeks-it was called a blighted ovum. 3 months later I was pregnant and my son is now 21.
Sending kind thoughts to you at this difficult time.

I'm so sorry, OP.

Oh OP, my heart breaks for you and I know how tough it can be. I really do think people should be cautious when posting things like “my bleed ended up being a stroppy 17 year old or my bleed is now asleep in the next room” i just find it so insensitive and grim.

What I also meant to say OP is don't give up hope. I was devastated when I miscarried and just thought I'd never have a successful pregnancy.
Maybe too early for you to think about this at the moment but there's every chance all will be well next time.

I’m so sorry op. It’s a devastating feeling. Sending lots of love your way and take it easy ❤️❤️

So sad to read this update, was really hoping for a positive outcome 💐

So sorry to hear this OP, it's such a hard time. Wishing you lots of love, and be very gentle to yourself 🩷