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Your Mandela Effect moment

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StockpotSoup · 18/02/2024 12:38

I posted about mine on here a while back… it was about two celebrities that I distinctly remembered were supposed to have dated, but there’s literally nothing about in online, and no one here remembered either (and even found proof that one half of the supposed couple was married to someone else at the time!)

Have you had a Mandela Effect moment? And, when you realised you’d misremembered something, how did you react? My instinct was to look for logic explanations (e.g. I’d misunderstood a denial of a rumoured relationship). However, when I look at these things online, I’m amazed by how many people will accept literally any other explanation than “I was wrong”.

One that particularly fascinates me is around a film called Shazam. Countless people claim they can remember it, that they used to watch it all the time when they were kids… yet it doesn’t exist. When you read into it, it actually becomes quite obvious how it happened: there was a film called Kazaam that came out around the same time with the exact plot they describe, and Sinbad - the actor/comedian they believe starred as a genie in Shazam - starred in a series of TV ads as a genie around the same time. Yet thousands utterly refuse to believe that there’s no such film.

Anyone got any good examples?

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AleynEivlys · 18/02/2024 21:30

@NorthCliffs Dolly's braces is the only one I've ever experienced and it bothers me so much. I remember being quite freaked out by her mouth full of metal as a child.

Without the braces the whole romance doesn't make any sense!!

Wtf.

BaroqueInterlude · 18/02/2024 21:34

noname846 · 18/02/2024 20:47

There seems to be a bit of a misunderstanding on this thread (leaving aside all mention of crisps). A Mandela Effect is a false memory shared by a large number of people. An individual misremembering something doesn't count - that's just a false memory.

The question posed in the OP was:

Have you had a Mandela Effect moment? And, when you realised you’d misremembered something, how did you react?

OP was asking for 'Your Mandela Effect Moment' - not for general examples of the Mandela Effect.

Richard1985 · 18/02/2024 21:40

ChessieFL · 18/02/2024 20:49

Cross post noname846!

I have a distinct memory of being a child (say between 3 and 5) and regularly jumping all the way down the stairs of my parents house. And landing perfectly on my feet every time. It was a bog standard terrace house with a dozen or so steps

My adult brain is 99% sure this is a false memory (obviously)

I’ve read recently that it is a common false memory to have. Particularly people mentioning ‘floating’ down stairs

just wondering if this counts as a Mandela effect as it’s a memory which is specific to me but also a false memory that is common among a lot people

StockpotSoup · 18/02/2024 21:42

Lovewineandchocolate · 18/02/2024 20:15

For years, the song 'Stay another day' by East 19 has made me reminisce as I can clearly remember it playing during our sixth form pre Christmas pub crawls in 1988. So I was really shocked to have found out recently that it wasn't released until 1994?

I think you’re thinking of “Keeping the Dream Alive” by Freheit:

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=56scx2Cdpyw&pp=ygUga2VlcGluZyB0aGUgZHJlYW0gYWxpdmUgZnJlaWhlaXQ%3D

Freiheit - Keeping The Dream Alive

Still blocked on YT...so video reversed

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=56scx2Cdpyw&pp=ygUga2VlcGluZyB0aGUgZHJlYW0gYWxpdmUgZnJlaWhlaXQ%3D

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GandTeaForMe · 18/02/2024 21:42

GorgeousLadyofWrestling · 18/02/2024 13:12

The kids 80s tv show Dungeons and Dragons. I have a very specific memory of an episode where the kids (who were sent through a portal to another world whilst on a fairground ride) somehow got home. They later discover that another set of kids go on the same ride and disappear through the portal. The original group decide the second group will never survive in the other world and go back to help them. They end up sending the second group of kids back but get stuck there after the portal closes forever.

Given every episode was about the kids trying to get home, this was especially traumatic to eight year old me. Me and my brother went to school the next day and all the kids were talking about it.

As an adult, one night I was talking to DH about it and he didn’t remember that episode. We went down a rabbit hole looking for it and ended up reading descriptions of every single episode ever made and couldn’t find it 🤷🏻‍♀️

Ok so the spooky thing is that I was thinking about this very episode this week! Because as I remember it, it was the only ever “to be continued” episode and I was gutted that somehow I missed the follow up and never found out what happened. A couple of years later the same episode was on and I was like “I’ll be fucked if I miss part two of this again - I need to know what happens!” and it was never shown! They went from D&D to mysterious cities of gold or something the following week.

so for bloody years I’ve wondered what ever happened in part 2 of this episode, given they had spent forever trying to get home!!

I can’t remember what made me think of it the other day though…

Sellingbedtime · 18/02/2024 21:44

@StockpotSoup maybe the way I wrote my initial post was wrong?

" .... I'm sure of it" is me questioning myself, sort of like this emoji 🤔

Its not me accusing walkers of lying. It's me questioning my own misremembered event as that is my Mandela effect.

Greenshrub · 18/02/2024 21:45

Bit annoying all the comments saying “no the crisp colours never swapped over.” That’s not the point! Okay, so YOU don’t remember it happening. The point is, a very large number of people vividly do. So why is that? Is it a sign they’ve slipped in from a parallel universe, one that’s very close to ours but not exact?

For me personally, it’s the Fruit of the Loom cornucopia. I can picture that logo being on shirt labels when I was a child in the 90s. Horrible scratchy labels.

DappledThings · 18/02/2024 21:46

The point is, a very large number of people vividly do. So why is that?
Because different brands had the colours the other way round and a lot of people were confused by that. As has been explained multiple times.

Greenshrub · 18/02/2024 21:47

Richard1985 · 18/02/2024 21:40

I have a distinct memory of being a child (say between 3 and 5) and regularly jumping all the way down the stairs of my parents house. And landing perfectly on my feet every time. It was a bog standard terrace house with a dozen or so steps

My adult brain is 99% sure this is a false memory (obviously)

I’ve read recently that it is a common false memory to have. Particularly people mentioning ‘floating’ down stairs

just wondering if this counts as a Mandela effect as it’s a memory which is specific to me but also a false memory that is common among a lot people

😮I have this one, too! Also jumping over the banister on the landing to the hallway below (and being unharmed). Must have never happened though.

Greenshrub · 18/02/2024 21:48

DappledThings · 18/02/2024 21:46

The point is, a very large number of people vividly do. So why is that?
Because different brands had the colours the other way round and a lot of people were confused by that. As has been explained multiple times.

🙄

ThinkingAgainAndAgain · 18/02/2024 21:49

I swear that I read in the newspaper Steffi Graf had married herself, in the late 1980s/early 1990s. But I cannot find anything at all about this, so it can’t be true. I’ve thought it for years and years.

DappledThings · 18/02/2024 21:50

Greenshrub · 18/02/2024 21:48

🙄

I have no idea what that emoji is meant to convey

MadeOfAllWork · 18/02/2024 21:51

Richard1985 · 18/02/2024 21:40

I have a distinct memory of being a child (say between 3 and 5) and regularly jumping all the way down the stairs of my parents house. And landing perfectly on my feet every time. It was a bog standard terrace house with a dozen or so steps

My adult brain is 99% sure this is a false memory (obviously)

I’ve read recently that it is a common false memory to have. Particularly people mentioning ‘floating’ down stairs

just wondering if this counts as a Mandela effect as it’s a memory which is specific to me but also a false memory that is common among a lot people

I’ve heard it said that the common floating down the stairs memory is actually a memory of being carried by a parent.

Think about it, how often have you carried your children, yet how much do you remember being carried?

StockpotSoup · 18/02/2024 21:52

Greenshrub · 18/02/2024 21:45

Bit annoying all the comments saying “no the crisp colours never swapped over.” That’s not the point! Okay, so YOU don’t remember it happening. The point is, a very large number of people vividly do. So why is that? Is it a sign they’ve slipped in from a parallel universe, one that’s very close to ours but not exact?

For me personally, it’s the Fruit of the Loom cornucopia. I can picture that logo being on shirt labels when I was a child in the 90s. Horrible scratchy labels.

But that is virtually the definition of the Mandela Effect! A multitude of people believing something happened when it didn’t!

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Tbry24 · 18/02/2024 21:52

Greensleevevssnotnose · 18/02/2024 14:09

My other half says this did exist. He remembers seeing it to as it was borderline triggering for him.

I’m sure I remember it too.

Needhelp101 · 18/02/2024 21:53

NorthCliffs · 18/02/2024 18:50

In the film Moonraker, the baddie, Jaws bumps into the be-spectacled, pony-tailed, gingham-clad tiny blonde character, Dolly. He smiles, showing her his terrifying metal teeth, and she smiles back, showing him her braces (unlikely romance ensues). I have a memory of it clear as day. Except it's not in the film, and there are no deleted scenes to back it up. I will go to my grave believing it happened.

Doesn't it?! I remember this too!

Needhelp101 · 18/02/2024 21:58

milesmachine · 18/02/2024 19:12

@onawave @NorthCliffs

This explains it fairly well

Oops sorry, just watched this. Interesting.

Ithinkitstimeforbed · 18/02/2024 22:03

Greenshrub · 18/02/2024 21:47

😮I have this one, too! Also jumping over the banister on the landing to the hallway below (and being unharmed). Must have never happened though.

Yes both of these, I remember floating down the stairs, jumping over the banisters and jumping from the middle of the stairs. I’ve sort of rationalised this now I have 2.5 year old- we “fly”
him quite a lot (obv not on the stairs!) and wonder if that’s where we’ve got the sensation from? He gets carried up to bed and down in the mornings, I wonder if those early memories of flying are actually us being carried and we eliminate the adult in the scenario? Having said this my memory of flying down the stairs I’m older, maybe 5/6?

EdithGrantham · 18/02/2024 22:06

StockpotSoup · 18/02/2024 19:32

Have you ever seen the film Anita and Me (based on the Meera Syal novel)? An almost identical scene happens at the end.

Managed to watch it on YouTube, that's definitely the scene I'm remembering! No idea why it got amalgamated into my Vicar of Dibley memories, thanks for solving the mystery for me!

bbq007 · 18/02/2024 22:32

"Sweet dreams are made of these" is apparently incorrect and it's "sweet dreams are made of this" eurythmics

Also, I'm convinced the monopoly man had a monocle

Lastly I'm sure the tv program was "sex in the city" not "sex and the city"

cardibach · 18/02/2024 22:33

bbq007 · 18/02/2024 22:32

"Sweet dreams are made of these" is apparently incorrect and it's "sweet dreams are made of this" eurythmics

Also, I'm convinced the monopoly man had a monocle

Lastly I'm sure the tv program was "sex in the city" not "sex and the city"

‘Sweet dreams are made of these’ makes no sense - why would you think it was that?

Bernadinetta · 18/02/2024 22:36

cardibach · 18/02/2024 22:33

‘Sweet dreams are made of these’ makes no sense - why would you think it was that?

Because lots of song lyrics are nonsensical. May I refer you to Paul McCartney’s Live and Let Die:
“But if this ever changin' world
In which we live in”

Athena51 · 18/02/2024 22:44

Bernadinetta · 18/02/2024 22:36

Because lots of song lyrics are nonsensical. May I refer you to Paul McCartney’s Live and Let Die:
“But if this ever changin' world
In which we live in”

It's "in which we're living" which makes perfect sense.

thenightsky · 18/02/2024 22:46

In remember being on holiday and hearing on the news that Oscar Pistorius had been released from prison. But I'm convinced and sure that heard on the news years prior, that he had died in prison. I still feel like I experienced some sort of time slip with that one.

TwylaSands · 18/02/2024 22:49

The end of the movie 14 going on 30 has the older woman walking into the classroom as a teenager. It was released at a similar time to Big.

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