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Your Mandela Effect moment

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StockpotSoup · 18/02/2024 12:38

I posted about mine on here a while back… it was about two celebrities that I distinctly remembered were supposed to have dated, but there’s literally nothing about in online, and no one here remembered either (and even found proof that one half of the supposed couple was married to someone else at the time!)

Have you had a Mandela Effect moment? And, when you realised you’d misremembered something, how did you react? My instinct was to look for logic explanations (e.g. I’d misunderstood a denial of a rumoured relationship). However, when I look at these things online, I’m amazed by how many people will accept literally any other explanation than “I was wrong”.

One that particularly fascinates me is around a film called Shazam. Countless people claim they can remember it, that they used to watch it all the time when they were kids… yet it doesn’t exist. When you read into it, it actually becomes quite obvious how it happened: there was a film called Kazaam that came out around the same time with the exact plot they describe, and Sinbad - the actor/comedian they believe starred as a genie in Shazam - starred in a series of TV ads as a genie around the same time. Yet thousands utterly refuse to believe that there’s no such film.

Anyone got any good examples?

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milesmachine · 18/02/2024 13:38

I remember an alternate ending to the film 'Big' where at the end, Josh is sitting in the classroom and a 'new' girl is introduced to the class. She sits next to Josh and shows him the same card from the arcade machine...it's Elizabeth Perkins character who has made herself 'small' to be with him

I can see lots on the internet about it but nothing suggesting it was ever made!

Hotairblues · 18/02/2024 13:42

@Avocadosandwic same, and I also vividly remember a Gary Linekar ad on the telly making a thing about the switch!

AllPlayedOut · 18/02/2024 13:46

I’m wondering how long it’ll take before someone posts the mockup of Walkers crisps packets that were made on Back To Time as “proof.”

Luddite26 · 18/02/2024 13:47

I remember the only time I had money for a pkt of crisps at school and queuing for salt and vinegar but coming away with cheese and onion.
I can't stand cheese and onion was it smiths crisps that were blue salt and vinegar I think Seabrook's are too.

My Mandela moment is remembering standing in the bedroom in a house I lived in 1997 and looking at my then husband and the song I don't want to miss a thing was on the radio alarm. I thought I don't love you this song is telling me I don't love you.
I have the memory but the song and film didn't come out till July 1998 and we had moved house twice by then different bedroom etc. but the memory is in my head.

ImthatBoleyngirl · 18/02/2024 13:48

GorgeousLadyofWrestling · 18/02/2024 13:12

The kids 80s tv show Dungeons and Dragons. I have a very specific memory of an episode where the kids (who were sent through a portal to another world whilst on a fairground ride) somehow got home. They later discover that another set of kids go on the same ride and disappear through the portal. The original group decide the second group will never survive in the other world and go back to help them. They end up sending the second group of kids back but get stuck there after the portal closes forever.

Given every episode was about the kids trying to get home, this was especially traumatic to eight year old me. Me and my brother went to school the next day and all the kids were talking about it.

As an adult, one night I was talking to DH about it and he didn’t remember that episode. We went down a rabbit hole looking for it and ended up reading descriptions of every single episode ever made and couldn’t find it 🤷🏻‍♀️

I loved that cartoon and don't remember that episode - sorry! 🙈

Avocadosandwic · 18/02/2024 13:51

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IncompleteSenten · 18/02/2024 13:55

Hotairblues · 18/02/2024 13:42

@Avocadosandwic same, and I also vividly remember a Gary Linekar ad on the telly making a thing about the switch!

What year do you think you remember that? His first advert was 1995 and most people who believe walkers are lying about never having changed their packet colours think that change happened in the 80s

StockpotSoup · 18/02/2024 13:55

I’ve just remembered this one…

An online friend of mine, an American, posted on Facebook once about how weird it was that nobody remembered that Donald Trump’s death had been reported in the 90s, was all over the news for days, but then disappeared from the news and every acted like it hadn’t happened. One of his friends had replied, “OMG, how weird! I don’t remember that at all!” I was sat there thinking “Of course you don’t remember it - it never bloody happened!”

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itsfinallyover · 18/02/2024 13:57

Walkers crisps have been blue for cheese and onion and green for salt and vinegar since at least the 80s.

I know this is true because I grew up in the north east where all we ate was tudors crisps and I remember being baffled by walkers being the 'wrong' colour when we visited family down south (south being leciester 🤣)

StockpotSoup · 18/02/2024 13:58

On the crisps topic, I was utterly convinced for years that Walkers used to make a Spring Onion flavour with a light green packet. A bit of Googling has since confirmed that that was also Golden Wonder!

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GellerYeller · 18/02/2024 14:04

Spring onion must have been the rage, I remember Seabrooks doing them, and they used to come in an M and S Multipack with other more standard flavours. Mid to late 80s.

IncompleteSenten · 18/02/2024 14:05

Golden wonder and Smith's were definitely the walkers of the 70s and 80s!

I think walkers ended up buying Smith's didn't they?

AllPlayedOut · 18/02/2024 14:06

Does anyone remember Tudor crisps? They made the best pickled onion crisps ever!

Yozzer87 · 18/02/2024 14:06

I remember a painting I liked as a child that I had seen in the Walker art gallery. An auntie said she looked like me and bought me a print of it for my bedroom wall. Over the years I lost the picture and forgot what the painting was called and hadn't been to the art gallery in years. I googled the painting lots of times and nothing came up. I was convinced it was a girl sitting at a dinner table holding a fork and a knife or spoon with her elbows on the table. I went to the art gallery last week with my kids and I found the painting. It's definitely it, but it's of a girl sat a table with 2 flowers in front of her. It's so weird. I distinctly remember it being a certain way and it wasn't.

KitchenSinkLlama · 18/02/2024 14:08

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Perhaps you are thinking about Golden Winder crisps? They are blue for salt and vinegar etc

StockpotSoup · 18/02/2024 14:08

IncompleteSenten · 18/02/2024 13:27

The crisps thing is insane.

Why on earth would the actual manufacturers deny a change? Walkers have said categorically that they have never changed those packet colours.

What possible reason could Walkers have for lying? That is a ludicrous position to take imo. The people who made the crisps have decided to lie to the world.

And that would be because... ?

There are people who actually argue with Walkers about it! Fucking nuts.

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This is interesting, because another common misconception is that Cadbury’s Crème Eggs used to be a lot bigger. Cadbury has denied this several times, but you can see why people might think this is a false denial - companies don’t generally like to acknowledge that they’re charging you more for less. But as you say, the colour of crisps bags would be a bizarre thing to lie about.

(FYI, I know the Cadbury’s Crème Egg thing is true because I know someone who runs a chocolate website, and he posts pictures of old wrappers he collected over the years. The weight is the same on old crème egg wrappers as it is on the new ones.

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Greensleevevssnotnose · 18/02/2024 14:09

GorgeousLadyofWrestling · 18/02/2024 13:12

The kids 80s tv show Dungeons and Dragons. I have a very specific memory of an episode where the kids (who were sent through a portal to another world whilst on a fairground ride) somehow got home. They later discover that another set of kids go on the same ride and disappear through the portal. The original group decide the second group will never survive in the other world and go back to help them. They end up sending the second group of kids back but get stuck there after the portal closes forever.

Given every episode was about the kids trying to get home, this was especially traumatic to eight year old me. Me and my brother went to school the next day and all the kids were talking about it.

As an adult, one night I was talking to DH about it and he didn’t remember that episode. We went down a rabbit hole looking for it and ended up reading descriptions of every single episode ever made and couldn’t find it 🤷🏻‍♀️

My other half says this did exist. He remembers seeing it to as it was borderline triggering for him.

IncompleteSenten · 18/02/2024 14:12

I thought they got home too.

I'll add that to my long list of childhood stuff I remember wrong 😁

TheTimeIsNowMaybeNow · 18/02/2024 14:18

Hotairblues · 18/02/2024 13:42

@Avocadosandwic same, and I also vividly remember a Gary Linekar ad on the telly making a thing about the switch!

Gary Lineker didn't start working with them until 1995 , I think his first ad was about the new cheese and onion flaver . They just changed the taste

Herbusyness · 18/02/2024 14:19

@milesmachine I totally remember that too! I watched Big some time last year and was perplexed that she didn’t come back as a young girl in his class! Is there another film we are combining our memories with?

My Mandela effect is quite niche but I discovered George Benson’s music when my son was a baby. I was gutted when I learned that he had died…except he didn’t, as he’s still alive!

SerenityNowInsanityLater · 18/02/2024 14:22

Not quite a Mandela effect because the event itself occurred. There was an Aeromexico plane crash/mid-air collision with a piper in 1986. The jet crashed into a neighbourhood across the road (equivalent to a dual carriageway here) from my cousin’s neighborhood. We were both 14 at the time and it was the Labour Day weekend/Bank Holiday, just before going back to school in September.

My memory says I had gone for a sleepover ant my cousins’ and remember seeing the smoke rising from the opposite neighbourhood. My older cousins ran over to see if they could find out what happened/if neighbours were ok. I seem to recall faces and reactions, shock and panic. I feel like I experienced that event but I’m not sure I actually did. I’m not sure if I was just so impacted by my cousins’ experience (I’d spent most of my childhood at their house, so it’s easy for me to think I was there). I should just ask them! I hadn’t thought about this in years… last time I gave it thought was when Breaking Bad came out because Walter White is the name of the air traffic controller who lost Aeromexico on the radar.

LoseLooseLucy · 18/02/2024 14:24

BaroqueInterlude · 18/02/2024 12:42

For some reason I was convinced John Denver had died in the year 1981. He actually died in 1997. It's doubly weird because I was quite a fan of his in the late 1980s - while he was apparently still alive - but I'm sure I remember him being already dead then; and I have no memory of his death in 1997.

Genuine wow from me, I was convinced I’d grown up hearing he had died way before 1997 🤔

MadeOfAllWork · 18/02/2024 14:40

Hotairblues · 18/02/2024 13:42

@Avocadosandwic same, and I also vividly remember a Gary Linekar ad on the telly making a thing about the switch!

You really don’t. Walkers were a smaller brand that became more dominant. This was early 80s, long before Lineker had anything to do with them.

SpikyHatePotato · 18/02/2024 14:41

I have a memory of watching a TV sci-fi/ fictional game show, where contestants collected objects (they were all decorative, eg carved wooden box, silver candlestick). At the end of the game, they placed the collected objects on a table/surface that had outlines for each object with a value written inside, e.g. a circle to fit the baseof a candlestick, with '50'. I've googled and can't find that it exists.

But it definitely wasn't The Adventure Game. Grin

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