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Have you ever been greatly saddened by the passing of a celebrity/well known person?

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Goldenbrowntexturelikesun · 09/02/2024 08:00

As sad as it is with anyone passing away I can’t recall many celebrity deaths ever having any lasting impact on me, except for two.

For me, it was the death of Terry Wogan.

I suppose it was mainly because I grew up with him as a constant in the background, mum always had him playing and when I became an adult I automatically carried that on. He had me in stitches and he had the most perfect voice and personality for radio.

I bawled my eyes out when he passed away and I still miss his shows.

As I say, I really don’t get sentimental over such things but the passing of Terry Wogan and my first love, George Michael really did hit me hard when they went.

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baileybrosbuildingandloan · 09/02/2024 13:10

BlindurErBóklausMaður · 09/02/2024 08:04

People like Terry Wogan and Victoria Wood because I grew up with them, and I guess their deaths reminded me a lot of my mum, who would have been sad to hear about the deaths, so it's all tied up to our own backgrounds I think. Terry had breakfast with me and my mum every day for decades after all.

The people on here though (and there are lots!) who are still rending their garments and not sleeping and "can't stop thinking about George Michael/Amy Winehouse/Michael Jackson etc" need help. Nobody should be that affected by the death of someone they never knew.

Who are you to tell people how they feel?

ColleenDonaghy · 09/02/2024 13:11

I don't know that I've ever cried but some hit harder than others.

Matthew Perry

Stephen Gately - I didn't even like Boyzone but I'd just lost by own best friend and I really felt for the rest of the group. Got the impression they put themselves out there a little so the media would leave the family in peace.

Gay Byrne - as others have said, he was just always there.

Naya Rivera as someone said upthread, the way she died was so tragic. Her poor little boy.

Not a death, but the realisation of the seriousness of Michael Schumacher's injury was awful.

baileybrosbuildingandloan · 09/02/2024 13:12

PermanentTemporary · 09/02/2024 08:45

I did shed tears when Eric Morecambe died. I was only about 11 and hadn't lost anyone in real life except a grandfather when I was 2 so I was a bit shocked at the idea of someone dying suddenly. I'd seen him so often and he made me smile and laugh so much, also he looked a bit like my dad.

Otherwise I do feel sadness, but I don't think I've cried.

Just posted the same thing.

TheBlueAndAmber · 09/02/2024 13:12

Rick Parfitt from Status Quo… not a massive surprise as he’d had poor health for a fair while, but he always bounced back.
When it was announced (Christmas Eve) it was a shock. We had followed the Quo for many years, many gigs… and now it was over. Such a shame, nice guy, always stopped to chat.
RIP Rick 🎸

GiveMyHeadPeaceffs · 09/02/2024 13:13

Maybe seems strange but anytime I hear Whitney Houston on the radio I always feel so sad about her daughter dying. Just seems like a double tragedy. She was only 22.

RedDuffle · 09/02/2024 13:13

Caroline Flack hit me hard - I think because I was a big Love Island fan so felt very familiar with her, her voice, her personality. She was always so bubbly so to see she had ended her own life was difficult to comprehend.

I was also very sad about Paul O'Grady, I felt genuinely sad that we wouldn't be seeing him on TV anymore as I really enjoyed his work.

useitorlose · 09/02/2024 13:14

Often I think, 'Oh, I thought he/she was dead already'

The one that got to me was David Cameron's son Ivan, but I was going through a rough patch and was emotional already.

Vicliz24 · 09/02/2024 13:15

Freddie Mercury. So tragically close to not needing to die and such a huge loss to music.
Ayrton Senna. 1 was devastated by his loss .
Rik Mayall . The beautiful bastard.

EnterFunnyNameHere · 09/02/2024 13:21

I'm not usually really that affected to be honest, beyond feeling that it's a shame when people die too young. The only one that really got to me was Terry Pratchett because he was such an amazing author, seemed such a solid person, and his books had been massive in my life from about age 10. Just rhe feeling that ill never ever get to read a new discworld book made me feel very flat. Reading his latter books I can almost sense him tying off loose ends as he goes knowing there's not much time left to do so. My DH (also a big fan) refuses to read the last book as then there is no more TP books for him either. Just very very sad!

Tessisme · 09/02/2024 13:27

DillDanding · 09/02/2024 08:22

Bawling your eyes out? Seems a tad de trop.

I thought, ‘oh shame’, when Terry Wogan died. But that’s about as sad as I’d likely get.

Maybe try to understand experiences outside your own scope. Sometimes the death of a famous person strikes a chord with someone at a difficult time in their life. Or all the media focus on the work of the person who has died reminds them of someone or something. Princess Diana's death affected me (even though I had zero interest in her) because I was still grieving for my sister. Just the fact that she was young and female and it was sudden was enough to make me react in a way I wasn't expecting.

JamieJ93 · 09/02/2024 13:34

Paul O'Grady,
I had just come round from being in a coma for eight weeks, I couldn't sleep without the TV or lights on for fear of dying and I remember the 6am news came on, still coming in and out of consciousness myself - I was quite tearful, but I don't know if that was genuine sadness from all the sedation.
Also - Barbara Windsor - I cannot believe I haven't seen her name crop up yet

BlindurErBóklausMaður · 09/02/2024 13:36

Salacia · 09/02/2024 11:03

Victoria Wood - I absolutely loved her. I used to go to sleep when I was a kid listening to her stand up on cassette tape. I didn’t even understand a lot of it (no idea what the menopause or a hysterectomy was) so I think initially I was just laughing with the audience.

She had a real talent for writing characters that felt on the outside of things which I really related to as a teenager (I wasn’t pretty or slim, I was a bit nerdy, terrified of breaking rules and desperate to be noticed by the popular girls and by boys. My best friend was a gorgeous dancer and I was always in her shadow. I’ve always been told that I’m ‘funny’ or ‘witty’ but that doesn’t tend to be what teenage boys are after…). I saw a play of hers a couple of years ago (Talent) and there was a moment that I 100% related to that took me right back to being an awkward 18 year old at freshers - I’ve never had that sort of intense connection with other authors or characters.

She was also an absolute inspiration that you could be a woman, from a normal background and be funny. If it wasn’t for her I wouldn’t have signed up for a comedy society at uni which changed my life (completely brought me out of my shell, made me realise that a lot of my ‘weaknesses’ were actually strengths, made so many friends and connections).

I was still at university when she died and I sobbed and sobbed. It felt like losing a mentor even though I’d never met her.

❤️

BlindurErBóklausMaður · 09/02/2024 13:38

baileybrosbuildingandloan · 09/02/2024 13:10

Who are you to tell people how they feel?

I didn't.
I said they need help if their feelings about someone they have never met cause those reactions.
Any particular reason why my post has been singled out from all the others on the thread saying exactly the same thing?
Are you one of the people who start those mawkish threads?

BlindurErBóklausMaður · 09/02/2024 13:42

Though a quick AS shows you telling me not to tell people how to feel is a bit glass houses seeing as you seem to be constantly telling people on here how wrong they are.

Telescopichair · 09/02/2024 13:45

I'm normally a 'oh that's sad' type of person but when I woke up to hear Steve Irwin had died it completely knocked me for six. Don't know why, didn't watch his programmes, I'm not australian. Had only recently returned to work full time after illness though.

ended up having the day off work because I couldn't shake the gloom. Fine next day

still don't understand it.

rooftopbird · 09/02/2024 13:50

I was shocked at Peaches Geldof passing because she was so young and it was all so damn tragic.

ChaoticCrumble · 09/02/2024 13:53

Do the people who would never cry at a celeb and can't imagine why people would... has it occurred to you that sometimes the people who do are just big criers generally?

I can be brought to tears by children singing nicely at an assembly. By a sad advert. By an extremely happy moment in a TV show.

I don't think I've done huge sobs at a celeb pass, but I've certainly been moved by some of them. I think that's okay.

SlightlygrumpyBettyswaitress · 09/02/2024 14:03

John Lennon
David Bowie
Victoria Wood

AdditionalCharacter · 09/02/2024 14:15

Matthew Perry.

Friends got me through a truly awful time in my life and at times seemed the only good thing happening in it. I think I'd have felt the same whichever of the 6 died first really.

I've not been able to watch an episode since, and I used to watch it all the time.

SpraggleWaggle · 09/02/2024 14:15

I really didn't understand the deep grief some people seem to feel for people they don't really know. (Unless it's something particularly awful such as the murder of a child). The grief shown for the Queen and Princess Diana was really strange. Princess Diana's death was sad though as it was unexpected but the over the top response from some people seemed strange to me.

I think sometimes the famous person's death becomes a conduit for people's personal grief, a sort of catharsis.

UrsulaBelle · 09/02/2024 14:22

Freddie Mercury and Rik Mayall for me. Maybe because they seemed too young and should have been producing more fab work.

Cantstopthenoise · 09/02/2024 14:36

Yes, I cried when Stephen Gately from Boyzone died as I loved him when I was about 14 and Boyzone were one of my favourite groups when I was a teenager, also Darius from Pop Idol as I met him in 2003 and his fansite was the very first Internet forum I joined and met lifelong friends online

ImpeckableChicken · 09/02/2024 14:43

Chester Bennington and Matthew Perry

EasternStandard · 09/02/2024 14:45

No but David Attenborough might be the sad one for me

(when it happens not yet)

IbizaToTheNorfolkBroads · 09/02/2024 14:48

Rik Mayall and David Bowie