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Young woman imprisoned for murder - is the sentence harsh?

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mids2019 · 03/02/2024 05:57

I was reading this case of the very rare occurrence of a woman killing a man. The murder occurred using a car as a weapon essentially and though the sentence fits guidelines for this crime are you in effect removing the woman's right to hear children in her lifetime (or making it a lot more difficult)? Is the socially enforced infertility a by product of the sentence that is quite just or does this discriminate against women in that a man may not suffer in huge the same way (because of extended fertility).

I suppose the law is the law but is the removal of the right to seek a family ever taken into account with sentencing?

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-stoke-staffordshire-68180241

Alice Wood - police mugshot

Alice Wood jailed for running over and killing Ryan Watson

Alice Wood, 24, "used her car as a weapon" on Ryan Watson after the pair rowed at a party.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-stoke-staffordshire-68180241

OP posts:
placemats · 03/02/2024 10:51

Bubble2024 · 03/02/2024 10:20

Maybe someone like that shouldn’t be reproducing?

But what's to stop them from reproducing? Take for example Oscar Pretorius. He's currently out on parole under very strict conditions, which last until 2029. After that he's a free man in his early 40s.

The murder highlighted by the op is horrific. Hopefully the murderer will never have a family. But there'll be nothing to stop her say from being a step mother.

FuckYouJanuary · 03/02/2024 10:54

No, her fertility should play no part in sentencing.

ohididntrealise · 03/02/2024 10:54

"you in effect removing the woman's right to hear children in her lifetime"

So?

You lose a lot of rights if you go to prison.

There's nothing special about this right.

MoreDangerousThanAWomanScorned · 03/02/2024 10:59

Greenfinch7 · 03/02/2024 10:43

I also think this is an interesting point, which has to do with whether the law should take biological difference into account in sentencing. I'm surprised that people are so unable to have a discussion a bit more interesting than telling the OP that murder is bad, which she obviously is already aware of.

OP, you could argue that in order to make sentencing equal, men should be sterilised if they go to jail for murder. Of course, this would never happen in this country, as it would be 'cruel and unusual' to quote the American constitution.

But the equivalent of that would be sterilising female prisoners which isn't happening here, of course. No one has taken away her actual physical ability to have a baby, they've taken away her ability to meet and have sex with a partner. Men lose this in prison too. You can't then try and account for the onward consequences. Yes, if she'd been free she might have had children (she might not). Maybe she'd have met the love of her life if she were free, but by the time she's out of prison he's emigrated to Australia and they never meet. She might have had an amazing career. Obviously people have all sorts of options out of prison that they don't have in it, that's why it's a punishment. How could we ever account for that and so try and make imprisonment fair by making sure everyone loses exactly the same?

Growlybear83 · 03/02/2024 11:02

I don't think there should be any difference in the sentencing of men and women. This woman is no different to any other murderer.

sarahc336 · 03/02/2024 11:07

What a ridiculous point, she removed his chance of children by ending his life, life for life surely 😵‍💫

OnGoldenPond · 03/02/2024 11:20

The right to family life doesn't mean a right to have children. It means everyone should have the right to keep in contact with their family, if that family want to keep in contact with them. In prison this means allowing family visits, letters etc. Also being allowed to attend close family funerals if they are considered trustworthy enough. It does NOT mean they are entitled to fully participate in living day to day with their family or there would be no one in prison! The prison sentence has to be served, with reasonable provision made within the constraints of that sentence to maintain contact with family.

OldBeyondMyYears · 03/02/2024 11:21

Oh come on OP!! 🤦‍♀️ You can't seriously think that the law should only be applied to women 'outside of the fertile window' 🤦‍♀️🤣🤦‍♀️

I've read some shite on here, but that is right up there with the best of it!

LuluBlakey1 · 03/02/2024 11:24

PuttingDownRoots · 03/02/2024 06:01

Women should be treated more leniently just because they are women.
Younger people shouldn't be treated more leniently just because they are fertile.

Plus she's 24... she has theoretically had 8 years to have had children. Yesterday a teenager got 22 years... thats more of her fertile years... she should have been treated more leniently too?

Why on earth should women be treated more leniently just because they are women? I completely disagree.

LuluBlakey1 · 03/02/2024 11:24

mids2019 · 03/02/2024 05:57

I was reading this case of the very rare occurrence of a woman killing a man. The murder occurred using a car as a weapon essentially and though the sentence fits guidelines for this crime are you in effect removing the woman's right to hear children in her lifetime (or making it a lot more difficult)? Is the socially enforced infertility a by product of the sentence that is quite just or does this discriminate against women in that a man may not suffer in huge the same way (because of extended fertility).

I suppose the law is the law but is the removal of the right to seek a family ever taken into account with sentencing?

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-stoke-staffordshire-68180241

Well then, the answer is don't murder anyone.

Whatevershallidowithmylife · 03/02/2024 11:32

Heard it all now!

inappropriateraspberry · 03/02/2024 11:41

She should have thought about that before killing someone.

Bubble2024 · 03/02/2024 11:44

placemats · 03/02/2024 10:51

But what's to stop them from reproducing? Take for example Oscar Pretorius. He's currently out on parole under very strict conditions, which last until 2029. After that he's a free man in his early 40s.

The murder highlighted by the op is horrific. Hopefully the murderer will never have a family. But there'll be nothing to stop her say from being a step mother.

A step mother isn’t reproducing.

RandomPoster456 · 03/02/2024 11:51

Actions have consequences and crimes have punishments, sex is irrelevant in the matter. For her to be discriminated against, it would have to be proven that she was being imprisoned for factors relevant only to her sex and not her crime. The fact is, that she’s chosen to commit murder which carries an automatic life sentence and imprisonment which apply for both sexes. This is why legally it can never be classed as discrimination. The fact she will be unlikely to/ never conceive children due to the length of her sentence is entirely of her own making and a natural consequence. It baffles me that people are even asking such nonsense, illogical questions like this in the first place. Of course it’s not discrimination.

Sothisiit · 03/02/2024 11:52

There should be equality in sentences, why should there be leniency shown to anybody who murders.
If you want the chance to have children and be a mother, don't commit heinous crimes.

GalileoHumpkins · 03/02/2024 11:56

This is the stupidest thing I've read so far today. Well done for that I guess.

Pickles2023 · 03/02/2024 11:56

Well the consequences of murder aren't a secret..murder = prison.

She perhaps should of thought about that before she did it.

avrilovert · 03/02/2024 11:59

Some people don’t need to breed.

dimllaishebiaith · 03/02/2024 12:10

If we put the theoretical life of a potential future baby as more important than the actual life of a person already living (as in not imprisoning a woman for murder because she might have a baby) well that sounds incredibly similar to a pro life argument to me

Strokethefurrywall · 03/02/2024 12:14

dimllaishebiaith · 03/02/2024 12:10

If we put the theoretical life of a potential future baby as more important than the actual life of a person already living (as in not imprisoning a woman for murder because she might have a baby) well that sounds incredibly similar to a pro life argument to me

This.

Castlerock44 · 03/02/2024 12:23

Why on earth would we want someone so unstable and possibly evil to have children? 😳 My sympathies never normally reach as far as the killer.

SeaQuinnSequinSeekWin · 03/02/2024 12:28

Should we cut murderous women slack simply because they're biologically capable of bearing children - no. Children deserve better than murderers for mothers and this woman took someone's son away.

MumPlanQuery · 03/02/2024 12:42

I think I would support enforced sterilisation of any convicted murderer (for men and women).

Why would it ever be desirable for a baby to be at the mercy of a convicted murderer?

Universalsnail · 03/02/2024 12:56

Having children isn't a right.

confusedbythesystem · 03/02/2024 12:59

If you're going to take into account differences between men and women when sentencing; should men receive shorter sentances for the same crime? Due to men having shorter life expectancy than women (generally speaking)?

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