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Young woman imprisoned for murder - is the sentence harsh?

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mids2019 · 03/02/2024 05:57

I was reading this case of the very rare occurrence of a woman killing a man. The murder occurred using a car as a weapon essentially and though the sentence fits guidelines for this crime are you in effect removing the woman's right to hear children in her lifetime (or making it a lot more difficult)? Is the socially enforced infertility a by product of the sentence that is quite just or does this discriminate against women in that a man may not suffer in huge the same way (because of extended fertility).

I suppose the law is the law but is the removal of the right to seek a family ever taken into account with sentencing?

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-stoke-staffordshire-68180241

Alice Wood - police mugshot

Alice Wood jailed for running over and killing Ryan Watson

Alice Wood, 24, "used her car as a weapon" on Ryan Watson after the pair rowed at a party.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-stoke-staffordshire-68180241

OP posts:
vidflex · 03/02/2024 08:43

Northernsouloldies · 03/02/2024 06:14

Losing your freedom and having to forego everyday things and milestones, marriage, children etc is the punishment of going to prison.

This

JanuarySlog · 03/02/2024 08:43

TarantinoIsAMisogynist · 03/02/2024 08:35

Actually sex differences are sometimes taken into account when sentencing. If the offender is a mother with sole care of young children, it's not uncommon for the sentence be lower with the intention of mitigating the impact on her children.

I think any parent in the sole care of children would have that taken into account if it were possible, male or female. Breastfeeding an infant might be the only truly sex based difference I can think of that would significantly impact sentencing.

It's amazing how many people on here are incapable of applying sociological thought to scenarios. ShEbADLAdYsHeGoToJaIL seems to be the default thought. Well, yes, but she's not a criminal in a vacuum of all other considerations.

RadiatorHead · 03/02/2024 08:44

Are you actually kidding OP??!! She took a man’s life. If it means that she can’t have kids then that’s on her. The dead man also can’t have kids and has lost his life. This is one of the most ridiculous arguments I’ve ever heard to be more lenient on women.

When women fight so hard for equality on pay etc, they have to accept that equality runs through everything and that includes prison sentences. You can’t pick and choose.

LadyKenya · 03/02/2024 08:44

As you say the right isn't taken from men in the same way.

On account of the laws of nature!🙄

burnoutbabe · 03/02/2024 08:46

HereIfYouNeedMe · 03/02/2024 07:42

Is this male vs female murderer's rights? Then yes, women murderers lose their chances of having children more than men do. I don't think it should be a consideration at all, they should all be sterilised/snipped. But it's not surprising a woman would suffer a harsher sentence than a man. That's life isn't it

Men often get lesser sentences for killing. As they can claim more they snapped and get manslaughter.

A woman who kills generally has to plan more (ie do it when he is asleep on in a car) due to the man's greater strength. Therefore easier to prove murder as it was planned - ie intended to kill/cause gbh.

Talkamongstyourselves · 03/02/2024 08:48

So how exactly would that work?

"Defendant A, your defence team have stated you wish to have children in the future, I therefore sentence you to 3 years"

"Defendant B, your defence team have stated that you wish to remain childfree, I therefore sentence you to 20 years"
Defendant "B" then claims she's changed her mind and gets a vastly reduced sentence on appeal.
Men then claim it's discrimination and so appeal their lengthy sentences, which increases the chances of more convicted murders getting out.

That can of worms should never be opened IMO.

dimllaishebiaith · 03/02/2024 08:49

Advocating for treating women like walking incubators is never going to end well for womens rights

puddypud · 03/02/2024 08:51

Oh yea and she was probably just hormonal and being 'hysterical'. What a stupid concept OP. No one has a right to reproduce, just like no one has a right to murder. Fertility has no baring on punishment for murder.

quisensoucie · 03/02/2024 08:53

No one has a 'right' to children
Removal of liberty means removal of things associated with liberty. That is the punishment for committing a crime
So this is not discrimination. It is the consequence of breaking the law

RichardsGear · 03/02/2024 08:56

JanuarySlog · 03/02/2024 08:43

I think any parent in the sole care of children would have that taken into account if it were possible, male or female. Breastfeeding an infant might be the only truly sex based difference I can think of that would significantly impact sentencing.

It's amazing how many people on here are incapable of applying sociological thought to scenarios. ShEbADLAdYsHeGoToJaIL seems to be the default thought. Well, yes, but she's not a criminal in a vacuum of all other considerations.

The other considerations being...?

She wasn't solely caring for children or breastfeeding at the time of sentencing.

Megifer · 03/02/2024 08:59

mids2019 · 03/02/2024 08:34

I think this is really unpalatable understandably for some but I think it comes down to how we view reproductive rights as a society. As I said earlier upon release there is no restriction on sex/reproduction imposed as we view a prisoner as having served their sentence and is hopefully rehabilitated.

It is an interesting question that links in with this discussion about whether rehabilitation should be an aim of our judicial system and if rehabilitation is successful whether an ex prisoner should enjoy full rights in a free society.

We do remove liberty for prisoners but we don't remove the right to free health care, exercise, education etc.and we sit the prospect of rehabilitation to be in scope. I personally think although complex is worth some consideration (in the general sense sense of what rights in reality prisoners should have).

You seem to think you have posed a real conundrum that's very complex, deep and intellectual. However the flaw is this is that it would reduce women to having a sole purpose and desire to reproduce, its backwards, minimises crimes women commit, minimises the impact on the victims family, makes an assumption that's all we're 'made' for, and doesn't count for women who don't want children but would abuse the leniency offered.

It's not unpalatable, it's bloody stupid.

Bouledeneige · 03/02/2024 09:01

No difference between a man or a woman being deprived of their chance to have a family life. We are equal under the eyes of the law and the consequences should be the same. Society needs to be protected from her and she needs to be punished.

I've never come close to murdering someone in an argument. She drove over him several times.

Resilience · 03/02/2024 09:03

I think it's ethically unjustifiable but raises an interesting point.

In a perfect justice system we'd have the ability to look deeply into the lives of those involved and the circumstances of what happened. We'd make sentencing decisions that took this into account and balanced justice for the victim with punishment for the offender, the risk to the public and the likelihood of genuine rehabilitation.

Many wormen have trauma as a contributing factor to their offending. Meaning some don't have the same impulse control as those without due to impact on the physical brain and cognition. The prison reform trust says this:

Many women in prison have been victims of much more serious offences than those they are accused of committing. Over half the women in prison report having suffered domestic violence with 53% of women reporting having experienced emotional, physical or sexual abuse as a child.

There is an argument that in a patriarchal society that places women at this higher risk, it is only right that sentencing considers it as a mitigation. Far better to tackle DV and SA of course.

However, women are just as capable of committing cold-blooded murder as men. Where there is no evidence that these factors come into play, they should be treated just as harshly.

I don't think anyone has the right to have children and I'd actually argue that anyone who has behaved in a way that results in them being put in prison for a long time (it's very much a last resort these days) probably shouldn't be having children anyway. Even if fully rehabilitated on re-entry into society there will be compounded trauma from being in prison and difficulties in reestablishing life outside etc that makes it highly unlikely they will have the skills and support to provide a stable upbringing for a child.

Petrine · 03/02/2024 09:04

Reproductive rights aren’t about the right to have a family they are the legal right to contraception, abortion, fertility treatment, reproductive health, and access to information regarding same.

If you are sentenced to imprisonment you loose the right to most things in life. You’ll be fed and your medical needs met but you forfeit the right to choose.

Messyhair321 · 03/02/2024 09:04

Eh? God no, a crime is a crime no matter what the gender & having children, or the possibility of it, shouldn't come into it. It's not something that a judge will consider & quite rightly, when considering a case

tchotchke · 03/02/2024 09:06

Why would we want her genes being passed down? She’s a convicted murderer, she lost her chance of having kids and so did her victim.

RichardsGear · 03/02/2024 09:13

Megifer · 03/02/2024 08:59

You seem to think you have posed a real conundrum that's very complex, deep and intellectual. However the flaw is this is that it would reduce women to having a sole purpose and desire to reproduce, its backwards, minimises crimes women commit, minimises the impact on the victims family, makes an assumption that's all we're 'made' for, and doesn't count for women who don't want children but would abuse the leniency offered.

It's not unpalatable, it's bloody stupid.

You've said everything I wanted to say, including the pseudo intellectual/academic slant. It's actually very reductionist as in women = babies, and also ripe for abuse.

LonginesPrime · 03/02/2024 09:15

we do not prevent make prisoners from going on to have families (despite the nature of the crime) on release on the basis of human rights so should consideration of reproductive rights be a consideration when sentencing females to custodial sesntences?

But it's not the custodial system preventing women from going on to have families - it's nature.

A young man who is on track to have a career as a professional athlete when he is jailed for decades would also be unable to do what he was planning to do with his life when he eventually gets released - not because the courts made that choice but because that's how nature works and bodies deteriorate over time.

Like a PP, I am also very uneasy about the implication that women have some sort of purpose or duty to have children. It's a choice people make, but obviously not an option that's on the table if you've committed a crime and are serving your sentence in prison. There are lots of things people in prison for murder will miss out on - that's the consequence of committing the crime.

Ducky48 · 03/02/2024 09:23

what If it was your son she killed? Of course she shouldn’t be out playing happy families because she’s fertile and young. Get your head screwed on, OP

mooncloud1 · 03/02/2024 09:27

Wadermellone · 03/02/2024 06:17

Something about this makes me really uncomfortable.

Though I can’t quite articulate it. Suggesting that women of a certain age should be allowed to avoid the correct sentence for a crime so they have the have to have children doesn’t sit right with me. It’s almost like some people think if a woman wants a child that some come before everything in society and society must accommodate it. Regardless of the situation.

Would you be ok with this sentence if she was infertile? Or had been through menopause? Or has never wanted kids

You believe women or child bearing age and women who can have children, should be held in higher regard? Or women that want children should be treated differently? They should be exempt From times that others are not. Based on the ability or want to reproduce?

It feels like so derogatory to women. Especially to women who can’t have or don’t want children. They aren’t part of this special group that should have special allowances all based on their reproduction ability.

This. You took what I couldn't articulate and put it into words.

Norahsbooks · 03/02/2024 09:27

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TinyGingerCat · 03/02/2024 09:39

I am about as lefty liberal as you can get and involved with a charity that works on prison reform and I think the OPs suggestion is crazy. The woman deliberately ran her boyfriend over and then lied about it. Her possession of functioning ovaries has nothing to do with her sentencing. If could be proved she had fertility issues would you be happy for her to be banged up longer?

Ottersmith · 03/02/2024 09:40

Everyone has a right to fertility, ie they shouldn't be sterilized by the state, but not everyone has a right to children. Her choices made her not able to have babies for a while, just like someone who doesn't have a partner might end up childless.

I do think though that a woman's existing children should be taken into account though, assuming they are capable of looking after their child and it's a non violent crime. Imagine coming home from school and your Mum is gone because she is suddenly in jail. Horrible and punishing the child for their Mother's crimes / mistakes.

Notchangingnameagain · 03/02/2024 09:43

Regardless of gender, you commit a crime, you go to prison.

This woman took a life.

The side consequences of her or anyone else is what comes with being a killer.

Longma · 03/02/2024 09:44

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