Of course there's going to be speculation and judgement. A small baby had a short, pretty miserable existence, ending in an unpleasant death, unnecessarily, and I don't mean because she wasn't handed into SS care.
They are of an age were they can still do it all again to another child and the defense being mounted is 'we did very little wrong, it was caused by others, and this could have happened to anyone.' It inevitably invites speculation and judgement.
I do actually have some frustrated sympathy for her and her paranoia, and sympathy for everyone having to deal with the fallout. But the biggest part of the tragedy is the babies suffering and lost life, and the other children for whom all of this is their family birth story for the rest of their lives, including when/if they become parents.