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Where do the people from the dinghies go?

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FreyaFromTheFens · 23/01/2024 14:59

When they jump off the boat where do they go? Have they been given prior instructions of the direction to head or do they just run anywhere and what then? Hide out for a while?

No one in authority is there to direct them to processing buildings are they?

I just can't imagine the numbers of them that are getting here each month all having somewhere to go straight away. If you live where this happens what's it like and do you feel safe?

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nandinos · 25/01/2024 19:10

Bookist · 25/01/2024 19:08

I think it's horribly patronising to assert that hospitals in developing countries would allow this nonsense scenario to happen, because their standards are so low.

And in this nonsense scenario why on Earth would the surgeon keep a small child as an unpaid helper? Rather than encouraging and supporting the child into education? The surgeon teaching the child to, you know, read & write, would have been massively more beneficial for the child. They could then have possibly accessed a recognised medical education.

Yeah exactly. We're not a bunch of savages.
PP thinks she was being inclusive and supportive but has actually ended up showing how ignorant she is.
V. insulting quite frankly.

Also wondering how OP knows that these people have, erm, 'incredible knowledge' and a 'detailed understanding of anatomy'. Did she quiz them? Is she even medically qualified herself to be able to tell? Or did they whip out a kit and start performing emergency surgery in front of her?

Baffling.

Bookist · 25/01/2024 19:18

That sort of smug, patronising, sentimentalised waffle drives me up the wall.

DH's cousin married a Nigerian woman, studying medicine in the UK. My MIL virtually patted his new wife on the head, and kept telling her 'Aren't you a clever, little thing. Studying such a hard subject and everything.'

Bookist · 25/01/2024 19:20

nandinos · 25/01/2024 19:10

Yeah exactly. We're not a bunch of savages.
PP thinks she was being inclusive and supportive but has actually ended up showing how ignorant she is.
V. insulting quite frankly.

Also wondering how OP knows that these people have, erm, 'incredible knowledge' and a 'detailed understanding of anatomy'. Did she quiz them? Is she even medically qualified herself to be able to tell? Or did they whip out a kit and start performing emergency surgery in front of her?

Baffling.

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Also, if a ten year old child has this prodigious memory and is smart enough to master incredibly intricate surgery.........why can't they also learn to read and write?

So many questions.

soupfiend · 25/01/2024 19:23

nandinos · 25/01/2024 19:10

Yeah exactly. We're not a bunch of savages.
PP thinks she was being inclusive and supportive but has actually ended up showing how ignorant she is.
V. insulting quite frankly.

Also wondering how OP knows that these people have, erm, 'incredible knowledge' and a 'detailed understanding of anatomy'. Did she quiz them? Is she even medically qualified herself to be able to tell? Or did they whip out a kit and start performing emergency surgery in front of her?

Baffling.

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She used this

Kendodd · 25/01/2024 20:00

notknowledgeable · 25/01/2024 18:05

I am not going to come back onto this thread. I know these people you are sneering at. There are some very insular, very ignorant people posting who know nothing at all except there own tiny little bubble of privileged western existence.

What authority on this planet is there to insist that to be asked to help in an operating theatre you have to be a certain age, or have a certain level of literacy? Just look at the UK 100 years ago, barbar surgeons were just apprenticed, no literacy or age restrictions applied - this is why surgeons are called Mr, not Dr.

There are many many places where the career path into surgery is still similar. Just because it is outside of your experience, does not give you the right to sneer at the lives of other people. It just shows your ignorance, and your personality flaws.

I'll maybe come back onto the thread a few pages down the line, when these unpleasant people have lost interest and gone elsewhere, and see if the thread has reverted back to interesting posts from people with something to say.

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There are many many places where the career path into surgery is still similar.

Where? Name one country in the world were you can legally work as a surgeon after such 'training' ?

Bookist · 25/01/2024 20:10

You know, I was a dab hand at Operation back in the day. Could this be a dazzling new career path for me?

Butfirstcoffee3 · 25/01/2024 20:24

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 25/01/2024 13:59

Sorry @zonic, I was looking for proper evidence from a reliable, well researched source - not a YouTube video or an instruction to Google it.

Yes, there was a specific problem with Albanian migrants which has largely been addressed. But what's the evidence to back up your statement that most of the arrivals now are economic migrants?

@zonic literally said ‘I think…..’ so clearly just an opinion, why would they need to back that up with reliable evidence on your say so? It’s not presented as a statement of fact, clearly an opinion so I’m not sure why you’re being so difficult

Pollyannamex · 25/01/2024 20:47

Kendodd · 25/01/2024 20:00

There are many many places where the career path into surgery is still similar.

Where? Name one country in the world were you can legally work as a surgeon after such 'training' ?

I don’t think she is going to come back to clarify unfortunately

Bookist · 25/01/2024 20:53

But I need answers so I can start drafting the screen play!

nandinos · 25/01/2024 21:59

Bookist · 25/01/2024 20:53

But I need answers so I can start drafting the screen play!

Can I have a role, maybe female lead? Might not be able to keep a straight face but I'll try my best.
And I'm brown too (mostly!) , not from a refugee country, but I don't think it matters cuz Hollywood thinks we're all the same anyway

Hummusandstuff · 25/01/2024 22:36

Notknowledgeable appears to be one of those who thinks that being kind is acting as some kind of a saviour of victims.
Wiser people can be perfectly understanding and respectful of those who make difficult journeys to try and improve their lot in life BUT at the same time recognise that the overwhelming majority are economic migrants making use of criminal trafficking gangs.
The fleeing to the airport thing is just baloney. Where did the passports and visas come from? You can’t board a plane without them and they’re very hard to forge these days.

Kendodd · 25/01/2024 22:42

I actually believe Notknowledgeable. In that I believe people told her these stories, I don't think she just made them up. The surprising bit is that she believed them.

penjil · 25/01/2024 22:55

notknowledgeable · 25/01/2024 09:36

because the alternative is death in many cases. We have had people who have literally run, under fire, in whatever they were wearing, with no warning, arriving in teeshirts and shorts with bullet wounds. They often had no choice about how they got out, take what was available, or die on the spot.

For example, a group of tradesmen, I won't say what trade to stay anonymous, 6 of them working together employed in a building for a few days. 3 of them were Christian. The person employing them realised some of them were Christian from their conversation. Reported them. This is in a country where Christianity is against the law, but quite common and largely ignored. However, this man was very influential and decided to have them shot. A servant of the house gave them something like 60 seconds warning, and they ran for their lives - literally in only shorts and teeshirts and trainers. One of them happened to be holding an example of their craftsmanship which made it to the UK and helped secure them skilled jobs.

They ran straight towards the airport, without any sort of plan, were picked up by the people smugglers who hang around outside the airport for this exact eventuality, and were taken on by them. Parents were rung who immediately put up all the money they had to get their sons out.

Two of these young men were shot and fell on route to the airport, presumed dead. one further died on route to the UK, 3 made it here by boat, with their precious example of their craftsmanship, and several serious injuries, including bullet wounds. One is permanently disabled

But why didn't they stay in Greece, or Hungary? Or Austria? Or Germany? Or France?

Bookist · 25/01/2024 23:12

Kendodd · 25/01/2024 22:42

I actually believe Notknowledgeable. In that I believe people told her these stories, I don't think she just made them up. The surprising bit is that she believed them.

I agree. I believe that she totally believed what she was told. But I find it astounding that anyone could be so credulous.

Bookist · 25/01/2024 23:19

nandinos · 25/01/2024 21:59

Can I have a role, maybe female lead? Might not be able to keep a straight face but I'll try my best.
And I'm brown too (mostly!) , not from a refugee country, but I don't think it matters cuz Hollywood thinks we're all the same anyway

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But of course. Only done a rough draft so far. But you'll be playing a gifted nurse who, against all odds, managed to qualify by watching numerous episodes of ER.

TheThingIsYeah · 25/01/2024 23:29

Kendodd · 25/01/2024 22:42

I actually believe Notknowledgeable. In that I believe people told her these stories, I don't think she just made them up. The surprising bit is that she believed them.

We can laugh about it on here, but it's a worry isn't it that people get taken in by these yarns. The naïve refusal to accept that illegal immigrants are capable of lying is quite dangerous to national security when you think about it.

PrincessFiorimonde · 26/01/2024 01:16

I think @notknowledgeable was referring to a surgeon working in a war (or civil war) zone who roped in a 10yo to help and then (being short of staff) kept him on as an assistant.

She also said that the boy she referred to is now working as an HCP - not as a surgeon - in the NHS.

Doesn't seem impossible to me.

User8646382 · 26/01/2024 02:07

Bookist · 25/01/2024 23:12

I agree. I believe that she totally believed what she was told. But I find it astounding that anyone could be so credulous.

Well that’s why 70% of asylum claims are approved, isn’t it? Gullible people like her make the decisions.

sashh · 26/01/2024 05:29

I remember watching a TV programme about 'the jungle' in Calais (yes it was a few years ago).

They interviewed one man about why he wanted to get to the UK. He said when he got tot he UK he would have a house and a wife.

He also said when he phoned home he lied to his family about where he was living, telling them he had a house and a job.

So sad to believe the lies and of course his family now want to send other family.

On the subject of illiterate surgeons, my GP is German and both his father and grandfather were also Drs.

His grandfather would carry out operations in people's homes, his father, as a child would accompany him and was in charge of topping up the ether. No they were not illiterate but this is in living memory.

The first surgeons in Britain were barbers.

So I can understand people developing skills beyond their education in more remote areas.

I don't think they are learning in modern hospitals in somewhere like Lagos but in a village in the Central African Republic I can.

Kendodd · 26/01/2024 08:18

TheThingIsYeah · 25/01/2024 23:29

We can laugh about it on here, but it's a worry isn't it that people get taken in by these yarns. The naïve refusal to accept that illegal immigrants are capable of lying is quite dangerous to national security when you think about it.

Thing is, that story, or a watered down version of it, isn't impossible. A kid, roped in to help in a hospital in a war zone. I would not be surprised if kids are helping in hospitals right now in Gaza. That does not make someone a gifted surgeon though. I don't believe there is any health authority on earth that accredited surgeon status could be gained in such a way.

Kendodd · 26/01/2024 08:45

sashh · 26/01/2024 05:29

I remember watching a TV programme about 'the jungle' in Calais (yes it was a few years ago).

They interviewed one man about why he wanted to get to the UK. He said when he got tot he UK he would have a house and a wife.

He also said when he phoned home he lied to his family about where he was living, telling them he had a house and a job.

So sad to believe the lies and of course his family now want to send other family.

On the subject of illiterate surgeons, my GP is German and both his father and grandfather were also Drs.

His grandfather would carry out operations in people's homes, his father, as a child would accompany him and was in charge of topping up the ether. No they were not illiterate but this is in living memory.

The first surgeons in Britain were barbers.

So I can understand people developing skills beyond their education in more remote areas.

I don't think they are learning in modern hospitals in somewhere like Lagos but in a village in the Central African Republic I can.

I think shame, and pressure to support family financially is a big driver of immigration. People are sold a pack of lies about the counties they rock up at. I've always wondered where people get the thousands of pounds it costs to make these journeys. I think some of it is family members all clubbing together to send one child (almost always the son) to the west to make their fortune. The poor sod must be under so much pressure, its no wonder they keep the lie going for the next lot.

I've written about population pressures and collapsing birth rates before on here, but I have a theory about it. In much of the world people are having very few children (or none) often saying it costs too much/they can't afford them. Yet in many of the very poorest/war torn parts of the world people are still having lots of children (notably Africa). Now in low birth rate countries, money flows down the generations, so each child you have, costs a bloody fortune. There would be embarrassment if adult children were giving parents money to live on. In high birth rate countries this is reversed. There is a culture of children earning money as soon as they are able to give to the parents and a real sense of obligation from the children and pride from the parents if children send money. It's a sign they're doing well. This culture existed in working class communities in the UK until quite recently (and in lots of other countries) funnily enough, we used to have lots of children ourselves then, often born into real poverty. When the direction of money flow flipped, suddenly, we don't want many/any children anymore and this pattern is seen all over the world. My theory anyway.

So the pressure on these young men, rocking up on our shores to provide for their family and bring 'pride' to the parents must be immense. And besides, we are (as a country) richer than their's, they all have smart phones, they can see what (they think) we have, I don't blame them for showing up wanting to know how come we have so much and they have so little, and Where's their share of the worlds wealth.

ContinentalBreakfast · 26/01/2024 08:48

I would like to think they go on to better lives with less fear and more hope.

I’d also like to think that as a humane country, we should be opening up formal routes for this, and not opening up opportunities for bastard people smugglers.

FreyaFromTheFens · 26/01/2024 09:30

ScierraDoll · 25/01/2024 10:13

They are told where to go by the people smugglers. They will have been given the contact details of the bent solicitors who create false asylum stories for them. Very few get sent back. They end up working in the black economy and living in squalid overcrowded accommodation. Yet they still think this is a better option than staying in the country of their birth.
We are witnessing mass migration of young men from North Africa into Europe. Not only does this undermine and destabilise our own communities it means that the countries of origin are losing fit young men of working age who could make a real difference to the economy of those countries.
They must be sent back for the good of everyone including themselves

Good point, by escaping a country with little options for them in their opinion, they in turn make the options even worse for the next generation that remain.

OP posts:
FreyaFromTheFens · 26/01/2024 09:49

Bookist · 25/01/2024 17:49

Why would the surgeon be all alone in the operating theatre anyway? Presumably the operating theatre is in a hospital? If the hospital is fortunate enough to have a qualified surgeon (usually top of the pile) what's happened to the rest of the hospital hierarchy? Surgeons don't operate (excuse the pun) in a bubble. Or are they prepping their own instruments, prepping the theatre, prepping the patient, doing anaesthetics? All by themselves? Literally not another vaguely medically inclined staff member, or just, you know, an adult around to help? Not one.

No. All the surgeon has is a big eyed, ten year old child with fear in their heart, but a surprisingly deft touch with a retractor. And as the child bends earnestly to his task he feels the call of Destiny swelling to a crescendo.........

Yeah, right. Whatever.

Surprisingly deft touch with a retractor 😆

OP posts:
nandinos · 26/01/2024 09:50

@sashh@PrincessFiorimonde It's not the situation that's so unbelievable. As I said in my earlier post, needs must.

The issue here is equating these people to a 'skilled surgeon' that should be valued as such. No matter how many erm operations a child has performed there's no difference between them and someone else their own age without the 'experience'. If they're illiterate they won't be able to qualify unless they get pass all the necessary exams

Unlike programming, interior design, mathematics, music or any number of other professions, medicine is not something we let people into on the basis of 'practical experience' without the requisite qualifications. We don't have people auditioning for med school places by showing off their surgical skills, to say it was done in the past is absurd! Same as things like accountancy and civil engineering, the stakes are high. Someone talented still needs go through the correct channels.

Medicine is as much about accountability and documentation as it is about cutting someone open and putting them back together again. Also, in an environment with such scarcity how do you know even know that ideal outcomes were achieved? For all you know the erm crack child surgeon could've killed half his patients and we'd all be none the wiser.

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