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Amanda and Giovanni

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CombatLingerie · 08/01/2024 16:20

Apologies if there is already a thread but I couldn’t find one. What on earth has gone on between Amanda Abbington and Giovanni Pernice during Strictly?AA is apparently taking legal action against the BBC claiming she has PTSD.

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WriterOfWrongs · 10/01/2024 18:15

pickledandpuzzled · 10/01/2024 10:36

I think it’s awful people are forming opinions and taking sides based on no evidence at all.

We have no idea what her concern is. We have no idea what happened and who was involved.

No idea if there was an incident, an environment or a situation that caused problems.

All we know is that AA had a tough time and is suing the Beeb for failing to provide duty of care.

That’s not enough to to even speculate let alone com to conclusions.
Just trashing people’s reputation with no justification whatsoever.

Good post, except... we do NOT know that AA "is suing the Beeb for failing to provide duty of care".

What we know is that she has sought legal action and asked for the training footage.

It could be that her lawyer looks at the training tapes and decides that there isn't a strong case to make and it's not worth doing.

Asking for the tapes and 'threatening' legal action could also be a move to try and intimidate the BBC into paying AA more than they're willing to.

AA left early. The celebs get paid according to how many batches of weeks they stayed. She left before week 4 and they get paid more after that.

AA didn't attend the final. Maybe the BBC are saying she's in breach of contract for that and are refusing to pay her the full amount she was contractually entitled to.

Lots to speculate on, but we do know for a fact that she is not currently suing the BBC. She may well in the near future though!

pickledandpuzzled · 10/01/2024 18:35

I misspoke in haste and frustration @WriterOfWrongs

martinisforeveryone · 10/01/2024 18:35

@PaperClips007
In my post I used the word rumor, at no point did I state anything as fact only my pennies worth

But it's a specific problem that mud sticks, as per a PP's experience. Unfounded rumours keep on circulating and can also become so-called Chinese whispers, particularly in the days of the internet. Just as you said you heard it from an unnamed somewhere, someone else will pick it up from posts here and all of a sudden stuff takes on another life of its own.

What you were speculating about is very serious indeed.

Interested in this thread?

Then you might like threads about this subject:

pickledandpuzzled · 10/01/2024 18:41

Paperclips you’ve effectively accused someone of coercive rape and bullying.

You’ve also said the women who danced with him all slept with him. How would you feel if people said similar about you?

MeinKraft · 10/01/2024 18:43

PaperClips007 · 10/01/2024 16:53

My thinking, if there's one complaint that's one to many, if there's 3 then there's a pattern to the behavior. People who abuse their positions tend to pick and prey on the people that they feel they can get away with it.

Rose, in this instance if she raised a complaint I well imagine the BBC would have acted quickly as this would have cost the show greatly because of her disability.

That doesn't mean that because GP was nice to one person he wasn't vile to another.

Three people have spoken out, how many more is needed?

Well let's look at the 3:

Laura Whitmore didn't want to be partnered with him because he'd just broken up with her friend. She criticised the bbc and the show for doing that.

Ranvir said they fell out for twenty minutes when she had a meltdown in training. Not exactly damning evidence that he's an awful bully.

Not sure what the problem was with Richie - seems to be media rumours that they didn't get on but they posted in nice terms about each other online as far as I can see?

MeinKraft · 10/01/2024 18:46

Camarthen67912 · 10/01/2024 17:23

Yes but Rose is DEAF! He’d soon realise there’s not much point shouting at her.
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Really?????????????!!!!!!!

I know imagine being that fucking stupid

WriterOfWrongs · 10/01/2024 18:48

Fair enough @pickledandpuzzled

I thought it'd be helpful for others to see that there might be potential contractual issues at play from both sides (AA and the Beeb). Because we really don't know.

And I totally agree with you and others that @PaperClips007 is out of order with the narrative they're pushing.

WatchOutMissMarpleIsAbout · 10/01/2024 18:50

Shame on you @PaperClips007 for your allegations against Giovanni & for MN allowing it to stand.

Maireas · 10/01/2024 18:52

pickledandpuzzled · 10/01/2024 18:41

Paperclips you’ve effectively accused someone of coercive rape and bullying.

You’ve also said the women who danced with him all slept with him. How would you feel if people said similar about you?

This 💯

SoupDragon · 10/01/2024 20:01

In my post I used the word rumor, at no point did I state anything as fact only my pennies worth.

You specifically stated that Giovanni had demonstrated "vile behaviour".
You specifically stated that Amanda had suffered abuse during strictly.

NewYearSameMe16 · 10/01/2024 20:28

Amanda could be requesting the footage for any number of reasons; maybe someone else on the production team treated her poorly? Maybe it shows she was injured and was being pushed into continuing? Why people are jumping to the conclusion it absolutely must be Giovanni abusing her is beyond me.

Also she could very well have PTSD but if SCD triggered it, how can she prove that and how would the BBC/GP (obv minus any abusive actions and duty of care followed) be liable? Surely she should take some responsibility for not putting herself in an environment which could exacerbate an existing condition?

Ramalangadingdong · 10/01/2024 22:45

WriterOfWrongs · 10/01/2024 18:15

Good post, except... we do NOT know that AA "is suing the Beeb for failing to provide duty of care".

What we know is that she has sought legal action and asked for the training footage.

It could be that her lawyer looks at the training tapes and decides that there isn't a strong case to make and it's not worth doing.

Asking for the tapes and 'threatening' legal action could also be a move to try and intimidate the BBC into paying AA more than they're willing to.

AA left early. The celebs get paid according to how many batches of weeks they stayed. She left before week 4 and they get paid more after that.

AA didn't attend the final. Maybe the BBC are saying she's in breach of contract for that and are refusing to pay her the full amount she was contractually entitled to.

Lots to speculate on, but we do know for a fact that she is not currently suing the BBC. She may well in the near future though!

This is exactly what crossed my mind - that t might be a pay dispute. We won’t know until AA goes back on Twitter and tells us - as I am sure she will at some point.

evilkeneivel · 10/01/2024 23:16

PaperClips007 · 10/01/2024 16:20

My pennies worth, I bet a number of celebrities have complained, but good ole Aunty likes to protect the male money machines. We all know this, it's all about preserving the brand and to protect it at all costs.

Strictly is one of the BBC's biggest shows, of course they will protect GP and cast the female aside, they've invested to much in the show and money talks.

Just in this case I think Amanda was the last straw that broke the camels back and stood up to his vile behavior.

Does anyone wonder what the Non - Professional dancers have to say about him? As it's those young women who really have no voice.

Anyway, I heard a rumor that GP expects his female partners to sleep with him and is known to make sexual advances and unwelcome remarks, then turns nasty when these advances are turned down.

I also heard that he and Debbie McGee had a thing! Of course, I'm not a fly on the wall and who would want to be with those two. If true, I would take her sparkling endorsement with a pinch of salt.

What I don't get is why so many women on this thread are defending him?
A very brave women has stood up and said No to the abuse she received.
Why do some women feel so righteous to add more abuse to the mix?
I mean what's that about?

Do they need to identify and reconcile their own internalized misogyny?

As for the PTSD, some of you are way off the mark and also may I say ignorant towards people who suffer with this condition.
I have never been to war, nor have I seen anyone killed. I have however been diagnosed with PTSD and I have a condition called Misophonia. My trigger is men chewing gum.

You want to know why? because my ex used to chew gum and pop it as a warning to the abuse that was about to come my way.

They say to be kind when people talk about their mental health struggles, I haven't seen much kindness in the above thread, quite the opposite in fact and that's why I felt the need to post.

In the case of AA, my take is she saw exactly who and what this man is, and decided she's not unseeing his behavior. She's made a stand, and one I imagine will protect future women who have dealings with this chap.

Do you write for popbitch or something?

I'm not buying you as a regular MN poster.

IDontWantToBeInAnyGangThatYoureIn · 10/01/2024 23:57

Camarthen67912 · 10/01/2024 17:23

Yes but Rose is DEAF! He’d soon realise there’s not much point shouting at her.
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Really?????????????!!!!!!!

I'm sure he said on ITT that she turned her back on him when he shouted at her.

Interesting about Rachel Riley saying she had PTSD after being on the show, Pasha supported her apparently so not to do with their pairing. I would like to hear more from her about this. And Nina Wadia said her mental health suffered.

cardibach · 11/01/2024 00:10

GrannyRose15 · 10/01/2024 17:59

I beg to differ. PTSD is a complex condition. Not something you get from someone being nasty to you on a reality TV show.

You have no idea why/how she got it. And as I said she won’t be taking it to court without a solid diagnosis, so you begging to differ is irrelevant unless you are her doctor.

WriterOfWrongs · 11/01/2024 00:29

To be fair, we don’t even actually know if Amanda is diagnosed with PTSD or if ‘the source’ was using the term in a colloquial way.

WriterOfWrongs · 11/01/2024 00:31

And she wouldn’t need a diagnosis of PTSD to claim that the BBC breached their duty of care to her. (She would need evidence they did of course.)

maybejustonemoretime · 11/01/2024 06:14

I get a feeling from the tone of their posts that @PaperClips007 is a man.

SoupDragon · 11/01/2024 07:45

maybejustonemoretime · 11/01/2024 06:14

I get a feeling from the tone of their posts that @PaperClips007 is a man.

I don't think they sound male at all.

WriterOfWrongs · 11/01/2024 07:46

Definitely not male.

Bluffinwithmymuffin · 11/01/2024 08:48

Not male, just a name changer stirring up trouble.

AnonnyMouseDave · 11/01/2024 09:08

NewYearSameMe16 · 10/01/2024 20:28

Amanda could be requesting the footage for any number of reasons; maybe someone else on the production team treated her poorly? Maybe it shows she was injured and was being pushed into continuing? Why people are jumping to the conclusion it absolutely must be Giovanni abusing her is beyond me.

Also she could very well have PTSD but if SCD triggered it, how can she prove that and how would the BBC/GP (obv minus any abusive actions and duty of care followed) be liable? Surely she should take some responsibility for not putting herself in an environment which could exacerbate an existing condition?

Re: your theorizing in Para 2.... I'd imagine that a court might be of the opinion that a celebrity dance show should be capable of being produced without triggering PTSD. [If that's what happened, we don't know]

AnonnyMouseDave · 11/01/2024 09:22

PaperClips007 · 10/01/2024 16:20

My pennies worth, I bet a number of celebrities have complained, but good ole Aunty likes to protect the male money machines. We all know this, it's all about preserving the brand and to protect it at all costs.

Strictly is one of the BBC's biggest shows, of course they will protect GP and cast the female aside, they've invested to much in the show and money talks.

Just in this case I think Amanda was the last straw that broke the camels back and stood up to his vile behavior.

Does anyone wonder what the Non - Professional dancers have to say about him? As it's those young women who really have no voice.

Anyway, I heard a rumor that GP expects his female partners to sleep with him and is known to make sexual advances and unwelcome remarks, then turns nasty when these advances are turned down.

I also heard that he and Debbie McGee had a thing! Of course, I'm not a fly on the wall and who would want to be with those two. If true, I would take her sparkling endorsement with a pinch of salt.

What I don't get is why so many women on this thread are defending him?
A very brave women has stood up and said No to the abuse she received.
Why do some women feel so righteous to add more abuse to the mix?
I mean what's that about?

Do they need to identify and reconcile their own internalized misogyny?

As for the PTSD, some of you are way off the mark and also may I say ignorant towards people who suffer with this condition.
I have never been to war, nor have I seen anyone killed. I have however been diagnosed with PTSD and I have a condition called Misophonia. My trigger is men chewing gum.

You want to know why? because my ex used to chew gum and pop it as a warning to the abuse that was about to come my way.

They say to be kind when people talk about their mental health struggles, I haven't seen much kindness in the above thread, quite the opposite in fact and that's why I felt the need to post.

In the case of AA, my take is she saw exactly who and what this man is, and decided she's not unseeing his behavior. She's made a stand, and one I imagine will protect future women who have dealings with this chap.

Seems to me that the first two paragraphs are an uncontroversial commentary on the way most big organisations work in circumstances like this, and the BBC in particular has a track record.

Paragraph 3 accuses GP of "vile behaviour". I do not know what is being referred to, but I am one of hose people who find it incredibly easy to believe that there is a massive tendency for a driven dancer trying to get another person up to a high level will behave in a vile way. Is it possible to push dancers and gymnasts to the highest level without being very very very tough, and that spilling over to "vile" happens a lot I imagine. It appears, at best, GP attracts more criticism than others.

The rumour... should we repeat rumours? Perhaps not... but then again if that is a widespread rumour in the industry then I believe it is fair to gossip on here that that is the UNVERIFIED, UNPROVEN, QUITE POSSIBLY UNTRUE AND MALICIOUS, but possible true RUMOUR, so long as we're clear it's a rumour.

I don't understand why anyone would defend him. Show a bit of concern for AA, on the assumption that something has happened on SCD, and hope that the truth comes out and justice is done, whether or not that includes GP or not.

SaffronSpice · 11/01/2024 09:27

The most striking thing about this thread is how some posters are so prepared to demonise AA, and some GP, based on absolutely no knowledge of what has happened, or what might happen.

pickledandpuzzled · 11/01/2024 09:35

Yep.