I think this is a really valid point.
And I do think it's valid to talk about how parents can talk to their older teenagers about good decision making and sensible risk taking.
Parents should have those conversations - and it be in line with what type of teenager they are.
It's normal for teenage lads to want to go adventuring in a group. DH spends his spare time, doing this but making the point about the line between fine and dangerous and the need to understand it.
You don't have to be a 'bad kid' or equally nor do I want to suggest the parents have been bad or negligent. Not remotely.
We can talk about how it's never a bad thing to open up conversations about where and how to drive when you've just passed your test or how it's different with a bunch of mates in the car for example though.
And that's the type of worry and concern posters on this thread are having because they are empathesing with the situation and think it could easily happen to their kids or their friends.
Not because they are passing judgement.