I would love a brainstorm of possible threads started by Strike on Mumsnet, and the ensuring rancour that scares him off.
Two weeks after The Running Grave*
Strike: "AIBU to be angry that she hasn't left her boyfriend yet?"
On a separate note, I'm glad JKR didn't go down the easy route this book of having Murphy relapse into alcoholism, be aggressively flirtatious with other women, etc - things that were indicated at the start of the book. I think so far, he's clearly flawed, but decent enough. Matthew was just kind of irredeemable fairly early on, and it got worse, but that's not quite the case with Ryan. Sure, he was obnoxious in the way he dealt with her parents while she was in the cult (riling them up), and there was that comment about missing having a 'hot female detective' on a case, which is just...smarmy. And that aside about her looking good with a baby early on in the book.
Conversely, we're told he's kind and considerate, good in bed, clearly enjoyable company for Robin, he values her job and doesn't niggle about it (too much). Yes, he has Matthew's suspicions towards Strike and deploys subsequent guilt tripping - but when Robin uses Strike as her emotional crutch every. single. time. I don't really blame him here. That's absolutely not fair on him.
Parting from Matthew was a no-brainer - he made it so easy for Robin. I don't want that to be the case here. I want Robin to have to make that hard decision for herself, without Murphy morphing into a villain.