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This is a man who hates women

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LuluBlakey1 · 25/09/2023 22:24

This man's behaviour is shocking. The rage and hatred he directs at this woman is nothing to do with driving. He must be boiling over with hatred for women to react like this to anything.
Imagine seeing this video and recognising he is actually your husband/son/dad who had just nipped out to the supermarket when he was caught doing this.
He is such a piece of shit. He should be locked up. I really hope he is caught, named and shamed, loses his jib and his marriage (if he has one). I would never speak to DH again if I recognised him in something like this.
Good on the man who challenged him.
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-12558111/Moment-screaming-motorist-bangs-female-drivers-windscreen-hurls-vile-abuse-calling-s-g-road-rage-incident-sparking-massive-traffic-queue-outside-petrol-station.html

Moment man hurls vile abuse and slams on female driver's windscreen

The video, filmed in Bournemouth on August 25, shows an extremely angry motorist snarl and shout at a woman in her car, calling her a 'F***ing s**g' and a 'F***ing bloody annoying woman'.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-12558111/Moment-screaming-motorist-bangs-female-drivers-windscreen-hurls-vile-abuse-calling-s-g-road-rage-incident-sparking-massive-traffic-queue-outside-petrol-station.html

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LuluBlakey1 · 07/05/2024 08:16

Update- he has been found guilty and is now awaiting sentencing. Judge warned he is likely to face a custodial sentence. He remains unapologetic and thinks he is not guilty.

I really hope he is locked up for at least 3 or 4 years.

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greasypolemonkeyman · 07/05/2024 08:29

Thank god the judges through his lies

TheWeeDonkeyFella · 07/05/2024 08:36

Interesting to read that even after his unhinged rant he then repeatedly stopped his car once they were driving off, continuing trying to intimidate her. Awful 'man'.

LakeTiticaca · 07/05/2024 08:37

Nasty piece of work.
The one shining light in all of this is that everyone in his town will know what a total arse wipe he is . Although if this is how he behaves regularly they will probably already know 😅

MsMuffinWalloper · 07/05/2024 08:40

LuluBlakey1 · 07/05/2024 08:16

Update- he has been found guilty and is now awaiting sentencing. Judge warned he is likely to face a custodial sentence. He remains unapologetic and thinks he is not guilty.

I really hope he is locked up for at least 3 or 4 years.

I think the Judge needs to appreciate that if she hadn't been in her car this man would have physically attacked her, no doubt. I bet he gets a suspended sentence or something rubbish so men will say "see, it wasn't that bad" and just keep doing it.

I think most women have had men shouting c*nt and similar at them, but thankfully not had them get out and hit the car like this. A clear message needs to be sent by this Judge.

pickledandpuzzled · 07/05/2024 08:45

Daily mail comments are good. Barely an apologist in sight.

bolderthan · 07/05/2024 08:49

few weeks back, a guy got out of his car to come round to shout and swear at me because he thought I'd pushed ahead of him
in a drive thru queue. I hadn't. Two queues. I was ahead of him. He beeped the horn and then got out of the car to
come round when I was at the payment window to shout and tell the checkout operator I'd
pushed in. I guarantee he only did this because I'm a woman. If my husband
had been in the car,
or driving, he wouldn't have done this.

MsMuffinWalloper · 07/05/2024 08:58

@bolderthan it's scary when it happens. When dd was small a man literally drove into the side of us in a local car park. On her side and all the marks were at the back of her front door, so you could see he should have seen a big bloody car in his way. He got out of the car and was going crazy, shouting abuse about how I had driven into him....clearly marks on the front of his car and side of mine. He's taken my details, still calling me a whore etc, thankfully other people have stopped, we've both taken photos. He then FOLLOWS US HOME and drives past our house slowly 4 times scowling up the driveway at us! It took him 5 years to go through the Courts with Covid etc (resetting dates, them not being kept because no Judges - what a waste of time for them!) and thankfully I was found not at fault, but the drama of it, his insistence he hadn't done anything wrong, the rage!

Roundandroundthegard3n · 07/05/2024 08:59

Good on the judge and good on the lady in the video taking it all the way to court. That's very brave of her.

dontletsaskforthemoon · 07/05/2024 09:16

I never knew he'd pursued her along the main road outside of the Tesco and stopped the car. At the time, all my local FB pages were FULL of his face and the video but I've since forgotten all about it. Horrible individual. clearly has anger issues that need to be dealt with but clearly he still feels he wasn't at fault! That poor woman but good for her for taking it to court. He'd never have done that to a man.

ReallyUAreAnElegantChap · 07/05/2024 09:24

MsMuffinWalloper · 07/05/2024 08:58

@bolderthan it's scary when it happens. When dd was small a man literally drove into the side of us in a local car park. On her side and all the marks were at the back of her front door, so you could see he should have seen a big bloody car in his way. He got out of the car and was going crazy, shouting abuse about how I had driven into him....clearly marks on the front of his car and side of mine. He's taken my details, still calling me a whore etc, thankfully other people have stopped, we've both taken photos. He then FOLLOWS US HOME and drives past our house slowly 4 times scowling up the driveway at us! It took him 5 years to go through the Courts with Covid etc (resetting dates, them not being kept because no Judges - what a waste of time for them!) and thankfully I was found not at fault, but the drama of it, his insistence he hadn't done anything wrong, the rage!

How scary - thank goodness they saw the reality of the situation. However, in future if you are being followed, do not go home....

SerafinasGoose · 07/05/2024 09:25

I haven't been so happy to read a news story in quite a while as I was to hear that this woman-hating, abusive thug has been convicted. The video footage must have stayed with me.

If this had been my DH I could never view him in the same way again. That any man who behaved this way could then double-down and believe himself in the right is the clincher.

So pleased he's about to be handed down a custodial sentence.

MsMuffinWalloper · 07/05/2024 09:51

ReallyUAreAnElegantChap · 07/05/2024 09:24

How scary - thank goodness they saw the reality of the situation. However, in future if you are being followed, do not go home....

I realise that now, but I hadn't seen him until we were getting out of the car.

Insurance paid out straight away thankfully as they could see just from the photos it wasn't my fault. I've no idea why he thought a Judge would think otherwise.

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 07/05/2024 10:02

A friend of mine had some road-rage maniac behave like this. Unbeknownst to him, though, she had the biggest (11 stone) of her big black Newfoundland dogs lying down asleep in the back of her estate car.

The noise woke him up - he was called Hero and very protective of my friend.
He sat straight up and a few massive baritone Woofs! immediately had the idiot bloke scared shitless and running for cover!

LuluBlakey1 · 07/05/2024 11:41

MsMuffinWalloper · 07/05/2024 08:40

I think the Judge needs to appreciate that if she hadn't been in her car this man would have physically attacked her, no doubt. I bet he gets a suspended sentence or something rubbish so men will say "see, it wasn't that bad" and just keep doing it.

I think most women have had men shouting c*nt and similar at them, but thankfully not had them get out and hit the car like this. A clear message needs to be sent by this Judge.

I think he will plead stress issues and mental health issues - but as he has shown no remorse, I'd hope a judge would ignore that.

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Peacelily001 · 07/05/2024 11:58

I had a case similar where a car cut me up going too fast on a slip road so I beeped at him. He then slammed his brakes on, causing me to emergency stop, then he and his foul mouthed girlfriend got out and screamed abuse at me.
DS aged 5 at the time was in the back terrified.
There were other cars around and people watching, but no one intervened.
I locked the doors and told them to go away, I had a child in the car. Totally terrifying.

MsMuffinWalloper · 07/05/2024 12:10

@Peacelily001 yes, my dd was about 5 at the time too - he had no shame in calling me a whore and raging at me in front of her, no care he crashed into her side of the car. Didn't even ask if we were OK, when that was the first thing I asked. I stupidly assumed he had had a heart attack or something!It's a real shock and really sticks in your mind.

Vinorosso74 · 07/05/2024 12:13

Horrible individual. So pleased this went to court and he was found guilty. Too many bullies get away with their disgusting behaviour.
Shame he still doesn't show any remorse but people like that never believe they are in the wrong.

Peacelily001 · 07/05/2024 12:14

MsMuffinWalloper · 07/05/2024 12:10

@Peacelily001 yes, my dd was about 5 at the time too - he had no shame in calling me a whore and raging at me in front of her, no care he crashed into her side of the car. Didn't even ask if we were OK, when that was the first thing I asked. I stupidly assumed he had had a heart attack or something!It's a real shock and really sticks in your mind.

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Absolutely awful. You must have been in shock afterwards - and that it just comes out of nowhere too.
Thank goodness you were both ok x

InATimeOfChimpanzeesIWasAMonkee · 07/05/2024 12:15

There's no way the first time he did this happened to be the only time he was caught. It's more likely to be the first time someone got it on camera.

Roundandroundthegard3n · 07/05/2024 14:46

I was chased once by a man in a van - i have absolutely no idea whether i did anything to upset him, but I'm a careful driver so i doubt i did anything that bad - i just became aware that he was driving dangerously behind me, swerving out to overtake, flashing his lights and tailgating. He harassed me in his van for 15 miles - i didn't feel safe to pull over as it was a pretty remote road.

After that i got front and rear dashcam.

TooBigForMyBoots · 07/05/2024 16:50

Great update @LuluBlakey1.Thanks

exiledfromcornwall · 07/05/2024 16:54

Apart from anything else, if that's his level of self-control he shouldn't be driving.

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