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This is a man who hates women

134 replies

LuluBlakey1 · 25/09/2023 22:24

This man's behaviour is shocking. The rage and hatred he directs at this woman is nothing to do with driving. He must be boiling over with hatred for women to react like this to anything.
Imagine seeing this video and recognising he is actually your husband/son/dad who had just nipped out to the supermarket when he was caught doing this.
He is such a piece of shit. He should be locked up. I really hope he is caught, named and shamed, loses his jib and his marriage (if he has one). I would never speak to DH again if I recognised him in something like this.
Good on the man who challenged him.
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-12558111/Moment-screaming-motorist-bangs-female-drivers-windscreen-hurls-vile-abuse-calling-s-g-road-rage-incident-sparking-massive-traffic-queue-outside-petrol-station.html

Moment man hurls vile abuse and slams on female driver's windscreen

The video, filmed in Bournemouth on August 25, shows an extremely angry motorist snarl and shout at a woman in her car, calling her a 'F***ing s**g' and a 'F***ing bloody annoying woman'.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-12558111/Moment-screaming-motorist-bangs-female-drivers-windscreen-hurls-vile-abuse-calling-s-g-road-rage-incident-sparking-massive-traffic-queue-outside-petrol-station.html

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NotSuchASmugMarried · 01/10/2023 23:35

IncognitoMam · 01/10/2023 23:26

I was going to post about his age. Shocking. All that bitterness obviously has caused him to look a lot older. Vile specimen.

Funny you should say that. I was thinking today about how being bitter ages you and seems it does!

Efficaciou5 · 02/10/2023 00:24

LuluBlakey1 · 25/09/2023 22:24

This man's behaviour is shocking. The rage and hatred he directs at this woman is nothing to do with driving. He must be boiling over with hatred for women to react like this to anything.
Imagine seeing this video and recognising he is actually your husband/son/dad who had just nipped out to the supermarket when he was caught doing this.
He is such a piece of shit. He should be locked up. I really hope he is caught, named and shamed, loses his jib and his marriage (if he has one). I would never speak to DH again if I recognised him in something like this.
Good on the man who challenged him.
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-12558111/Moment-screaming-motorist-bangs-female-drivers-windscreen-hurls-vile-abuse-calling-s-g-road-rage-incident-sparking-massive-traffic-queue-outside-petrol-station.html

Are you certain that this is a man who hates women OP ? ... Or could it be a man who lost control of his emotions when processing the actions of just one individual who happened to be a woman ?

Original poster
LuluBlakey1 · 02/10/2023 00:40

Efficaciou5 · 02/10/2023 00:24

Are you certain that this is a man who hates women OP ? ... Or could it be a man who lost control of his emotions when processing the actions of just one individual who happened to be a woman ?

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Yes, I'm sure.

He may have a short temper but this was misogynistic abuse and bullying. Interestingly, he has been identified today and has been vile again.

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RandomForest · 02/10/2023 01:21

Are you certain that this is a man who hates women OP ? ... Or could it
be a man who lost control of his emotions when processing the actions of
just one individual who happened to be a woman ?

I bet he doesn't lose control with men so much, self preservation I should imagine ensures that.
He's a bully but picks his victims wisely.

HRTQueen · 02/10/2023 01:30

What an utterly vile man I pleased this has been in the papers

he wouldn’t behave like this towards a man he hasn’t lost it he was in control and wanted to be threatening

I have many times encountered very angry men especially as I have hit middle age 🙄 they make they chose to be aggressive

Underminer · 02/10/2023 01:49

He’s full of hatred. Check his hard drive.

BOOTS52PollyPrissyPants · 02/10/2023 02:30

He looks like he needs to be in a straight jacket and sedated. That poor woman in the car. Wish someone just gave him a big thump into his angry ugly face to shut him up. He needs to be named and shamed and arrested for his vile behavior as it is awful.
His use of language is just vile and he does hate woman. Someone will name him and let's home he spends a few nights in a cell and has to apologize to that woman.

Quirrelsotherface · 02/10/2023 07:34

Oh my god I just watched the video..snarling, spit dripping like a rabid dog.

SerendipityJane · 02/10/2023 08:50

RudsyFarmer · 01/10/2023 21:42

I bet his is embroiled in a neighbour dispute over an inch of land and holds HUGE resentment over it.

Well if God gives you the perfect tool for measuring an inch, you'd be mad not to use it.

SerendipityJane · 02/10/2023 09:02

If you had the stomach for it, and read the Mail Online comments on the original article and their speculations as to certain characteristics of the then anonymous perpetrator, it's interesting to now be able compare with the actual person.

Let's put it this way; there was a lot of projecting going on ....

SidekickSylvia · 02/10/2023 09:03

The way he switches his anger on/off depending on who he's talking to is bizarre. That poor woman.

SerendipityJane · 02/10/2023 09:20

SidekickSylvia · 02/10/2023 09:03

The way he switches his anger on/off depending on who he's talking to is bizarre. That poor woman.

It's a masterclass in how to be a cowardly bully. Gawd knows how his kids have been bought up.

I would say one day he'll do it to the wrong person. But that day has now come - he's suddenly, stupidly, and with no understanding of what he's done made himself the target for anyone with his attitude who takes it upon themselves to sort him out.

And with that as a possible outcome, I can sense this thread disappearing.

It's a shame GB News are having a bad month. Otherwise I could easily have seen Dan Wotton and Lawrence Fox having Peter Abbot on as a guest in their "how to deal with women" postbag segment.

BreakTheChain · 02/10/2023 09:22

What a vile excuse of a man.

Full respect for the other man who challenged his utterly disgusting behaviour. The numpty proved he wouldn't do it to a man when he said he would then laughed and asked if he was being challenged rather than carry on abuse. Utter clown and I hope if he is married/ has daughters they are able to escape this useless sack of shit

maltesermagnet · 02/10/2023 10:10

This has happened to me. I was terrified and broke down in the petrol station afterwards. I was in the car with my 14 year old. It was horrific. He'd never have spoken this way to another man.

IncognitoMam · 02/10/2023 11:17

maltesermagnet · 02/10/2023 10:10

This has happened to me. I was terrified and broke down in the petrol station afterwards. I was in the car with my 14 year old. It was horrific. He'd never have spoken this way to another man.

Hope you got his car reg and reported him?

NotSuchASmugMarried · 02/10/2023 11:21

SidekickSylvia · 02/10/2023 09:03

The way he switches his anger on/off depending on who he's talking to is bizarre. That poor woman.

I think that's because he's not actually really angry he's just screaming at the woman to try to frighten her and intimidate her. Anger is a powerful emotion you can't just switch it on and off.

He's not angry he's just a vile human being.

tellmewhenthespaceshiplandscoz · 02/10/2023 11:59

maltesermagnet · 02/10/2023 10:10

This has happened to me. I was terrified and broke down in the petrol station afterwards. I was in the car with my 14 year old. It was horrific. He'd never have spoken this way to another man.

Similar happened to me at a garage earlier this year. I honestly thought he was going to hit me. I actually hid in the garage shop until he's fuelled up, paid and left. Once he did I just burst into tears and it took me a while to calm down.

Reported it to the police who basically said because he managed to not get directly in CCTV so couldn't clearly be identified as verbally abusing me it would unlikely come to anything so they wouldn't progress.

SecondClassReturnToDottinghamPlease · 02/10/2023 12:06

Efficaciou5 · 02/10/2023 00:24

Are you certain that this is a man who hates women OP ? ... Or could it be a man who lost control of his emotions when processing the actions of just one individual who happened to be a woman ?

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He literally changes his tone when he's speaking to a man in the video. Yes, he does hate women. Don't be such a male apologist.

maltesermagnet · 02/10/2023 12:17

@IncognitoMam
I'm ashamed to say I was too busy crying. So wish I had. Both myself and daughter were so terrified

RandomForest · 02/10/2023 13:08

NotSuchASmugMarried · 02/10/2023 11:21

I think that's because he's not actually really angry he's just screaming at the woman to try to frighten her and intimidate her. Anger is a powerful emotion you can't just switch it on and off.

He's not angry he's just a vile human being.

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I think he was further angered because the man humiliated him for pointing out he was being a bully to a lone woman.

So what does he do ?

Get's even angrier at the woman.

GCAcademic · 02/10/2023 13:11

Let's hope this man doesn't have a wife or partner. It makes me shudder to think what she may have to put up with.

pickledandpuzzled · 02/10/2023 13:28

Very sex specific insults. I think generally angry people use pretty generic abusive language- as he does when talking to the intervening men.

I’m pretty happy to presume ‘misogynist’ in the absence of any evidence to the contrary.

it’s funny how often the object of these rants just happens to be a woman.

StowOnTheWold · 02/10/2023 13:31

I came out of a cafe in central London and a car screeched to a halt next to a double parked car with its hazards on. A man jumped out of the car screaming at the female parked driver to move her fucking heap of shit, banging on the window. She remonstrated with him, but he was not having it and kicked her wing mirror clean off calling her an ugly bitch.

The timing was perfect. From the doorway of the dry cleaners emerged a 6 foot 4 bloke, royal marine or guardsman type, who hard punched angry man twice, knocking him to the ground. Angry man cowered into the corner simpering "No. No. Please don't. No. Please don't hurt me."

Itsokay2020 · 02/10/2023 13:52

Vile excuse for a human. Reminds me of an incident at the weekend when I visited a local attraction and needed to buy wristbands. There was no queue so walked towards the nearest available kiosk only to be physically blocked by a slightly older male who told me to “fuck off to the back of fucking queue”, I asked him to show me said queue and he launched into a tirade of abuse. Interestingly, he shut up the very second my DH joined my side.

Keen to descalate, particularly in front of his young children, I chose another kiosk. As I left the area, I approached his waiting wife (confirmed that she was indeed his wife first) before saying that I hoped he treated her better than how he treats a female stranger, but added that if she needed to hear it, that I thought she was a beautiful woman who deserved better than to live a life with an angry and aggressive human.

There is so much hatred towards women, pretty much every news story features this narrative, and I am too old to put up with it!