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This is a man who hates women

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LuluBlakey1 · 25/09/2023 22:24

This man's behaviour is shocking. The rage and hatred he directs at this woman is nothing to do with driving. He must be boiling over with hatred for women to react like this to anything.
Imagine seeing this video and recognising he is actually your husband/son/dad who had just nipped out to the supermarket when he was caught doing this.
He is such a piece of shit. He should be locked up. I really hope he is caught, named and shamed, loses his jib and his marriage (if he has one). I would never speak to DH again if I recognised him in something like this.
Good on the man who challenged him.
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-12558111/Moment-screaming-motorist-bangs-female-drivers-windscreen-hurls-vile-abuse-calling-s-g-road-rage-incident-sparking-massive-traffic-queue-outside-petrol-station.html

Moment man hurls vile abuse and slams on female driver's windscreen

The video, filmed in Bournemouth on August 25, shows an extremely angry motorist snarl and shout at a woman in her car, calling her a 'F***ing s**g' and a 'F***ing bloody annoying woman'.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-12558111/Moment-screaming-motorist-bangs-female-drivers-windscreen-hurls-vile-abuse-calling-s-g-road-rage-incident-sparking-massive-traffic-queue-outside-petrol-station.html

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HowDoYouExpectMeToGrowIfYouWontLetMeBlow · 26/09/2023 18:17

I beeped my horn at a knob that had pulled out on me a few days ago, he slammed his brakes on, stopped traffic, came to my window mouthing abuse and waving his arms around, so I told him to fuck off, his response “is your cunt as big as your mouth”. I mean who speaks to people like that?

Professional man, suit n tie, Jaguar, probably had a wife and daughter.

Some men really really hate women. It’s very clear.

ArcaneWireless · 26/09/2023 18:23

He isn’t alone.

My boss allowed my bully to yell at me like this for some perceived slight.

I let him make a tit of himself for quite some time without interrupting and the spit was flying out of him. As were the screamed insults.

My boss only removed him when someone else might have heard it. By then he was running out of steam. And spit.

I’ll not lie. I wouldn’t have liked to have been alone with him behaving like that.

I wish I’d had the presence of mind to record it but it took me by surprise. I honestly thought my boss would remove him. I was wrong.

Good on her for recording him.

LetMeEnfoldYou · 26/09/2023 18:28

That insane video Russell Brand out out where he compared himself to Jesus...he didn't know he was doing it (I don't think) but towards the end he was baring his teeth like that. Like a chained dog.

The level of aggression and hatred for women seeps out of this type of useless cunt; they don't even know it, they feel so incredibly justified in and convinced of their superiority.

oOiluvfriendsOo · 26/09/2023 19:19

I (female) had a car pulling out on me from a side street so I beeped and flashed to show him I was there and to try and prevent an accident. He pushed out anyway and I nearly hit him. He pulled in a bit further up and signaled for me to pull in.
I kept driving and didn't make eye contact with him again. He followed closely behind me for 15 mins, beeping and flashing trying to get to get me to pull over.
I actually had to drive past my house as I didn't want him knowing where I lived.

What is it with men and their egos.

Why can't they put their hands up and admit they were in the wrong and be done with it. No need for the aggression.

thomasinacat · 26/09/2023 19:49

Oh no these types can't possibly admit they're wrong, I remember these 2 episodes in one week.

I used to work in a building that was next to a railway station, but the short spur part of the road outside our building was for private parking only by employees of the company. People used to double-park as they collected equipment for work. One day this guy using the station had mistakenly parked in front of our building. I pulled up next alongside another car minding my own business to nip in and get my things, and suddenly he opens his window and launches into a complete barny at me for my selfish stupid parking.

I tried to calmly explain he was in the wrong place actually and this was private and people could double park, but he just would not listen and carries on yelling .... 'blah blah oh don't worry about people trying to get past blah blah'.
His wife next to him starts slowly sliding down in her seat in embarrassment.

He went on and on, really rude telling me I thought I could do whatever I wanted in my fancy car, and would be ashamed to have a daughter like me. So I gave up trying to explain and went in to get security guard. Guard comes out and tries talking to him, shows him security card. The guy actually sits and sulks. By this point I had all my things, so drove off with a big wave and said a prayer for his poor wife. This guy has probably never in his entire life admitted he was wrong. What an arsehole.

Second one, I used to live in a house on country road where you couldn't see the house from lane, but still it was a residential area. I was putting out bin bags for Monday bin collection, when some random guy waiting in traffic suddenly starts shouting 'oh don't worry, just dump your rubbish anywhere, someone else will come and pick it up, you selfish xxxx'. Completely startled I look up and stammered, oh..but....bin....men.. day. I saw realisation dawn on his face, as at same time he clocks that I'm wearing a business suit, can see the cog cranking, 'hm why would some random woman in business suit be putting bag of rubbish out on lane in morning traffic...oh..yes....' wait....for...it- genius has figured it out. Clamps mouth shut and just sits there as if he never said anything. How about 'sorry, my mistake', nah course not.

SilentHedges · 26/09/2023 20:04

I had an "incident" 6 months ago. BMW male driver (with standard embarrassed female in passenger seat) drives straight at me, when it's my right of way. Cars parked on his side of the road, my side clear, so he should wait, but instead drives up to my bumper and dismisses me with his hand to reverse. Menopausal woman vs aggressive male, and I'm not moving. Traffic forms behind us, people try to mediate and I'm told "he won't move, he's aggressive, don't make eye contact, no gestures". I follow that advice. Eventually he reverses, and as I drive past he shouts "Fcking slg" the same as this horrible specimen in the news. I was shaken by the ordeal but he did make me laugh, as I've not heard "Fcking slg" since a Danny Dyer film.

On reflection it would have been safer and more sensible for me to reverse and let him "win", but I hoped I would make him think twice before doing this to someone else. Sadly, I'm probably wrong.

VenusClapTrap · 26/09/2023 20:14

I was walking across Sainsbury’s car park from my car to the shop entrance when a man rolled down his window and yelled abuse at me for walking too slowly past the space he wanted to pull in to, and holding him up. I was eight months pregnant (hence moving slowly) and burst into tears. I still can’t quite believe anyone would do that. He had a child in the car with him too.

BlastedPimples · 26/09/2023 20:15

This has happened to me before.

The male driver was in the wrong lane at the traffic lights. He got out of his car and started screaming abuse at me because I had driven as per my lane directed. It was scary. Nasty bullying asshole who was shit at driving so screams at everyone else.

TooOldForThisNonsense · 26/09/2023 20:29

What a scum bag

even if he is named and shamed there will probably be people saying it was still the woman’s fault, that he’s a “lovely man” and she must have driven him to it. Twats

spookehtooth · 27/09/2023 13:21

Jbrown76 · 27/09/2023 13:15

Proper Jekyll and Hyde there, seamlessly switching being a bit irritable and really aggressive as he switches between interaction with the woman and presumably the man out of sight. The people who mentioned how he likely treats women and men differently is spot on

Saucery · 27/09/2023 13:31

All sadly familiar. I had right of way in a clear lane, van pulls out from behind a stationary bus (just picking up passengers, they never stay there long) trying to force me in my little Mum Car out of the way. I was a fucking silly bitch who couldn’t see he was trying to get past the bus, apparently. I still refused to move, which surprised and incensed him. Wanker.

TheaBrandt · 27/09/2023 13:33

I was trying to park in a very small post office car park. Angry little man swearing and ranting in his car. I gave up in the end and let him have the space. He couldn’t park it in either 😁😁 no apology he roared off in his car in a huff. Again embarrassed looking woman in the passenger seat. Why are they even with them? I would rather be alone forever than shackled to a dick like that.

PosyPrettyToes · 27/09/2023 13:49

I had the most satisfying moment of my life the other week when a prick like this came up and started screaming at me in the supermarket carpark. I was about to pull out of the disabled space and drive off, for which I have a valid blue badge, and had my profoundly disabled DS in the back seat, when this man shot towards my car out of nowhere and started screaming about me being a stupid c**t taking a disabled space and that he'd fucking teach me a lesson etc....

I had the window half down, but the door was locked as DS tends to try and open them if not. I had just given DS a few sips of his fruit shoot before turning on the engine, then popped it in the cup holder in front of me, so I saw red and squirted the rest of it through the window gap into his face, then drove off. It was a purple one, as well, so extra red and sticky.

Illegallyblonder · 27/09/2023 13:54

I've been spoken to like this in my car too. Men really feel they're entitled to tell women what to do, even when they're complete strangers.

SecondClassReturnToDottinghamPlease · 27/09/2023 13:55

PosyPrettyToes · 27/09/2023 13:49

I had the most satisfying moment of my life the other week when a prick like this came up and started screaming at me in the supermarket carpark. I was about to pull out of the disabled space and drive off, for which I have a valid blue badge, and had my profoundly disabled DS in the back seat, when this man shot towards my car out of nowhere and started screaming about me being a stupid c**t taking a disabled space and that he'd fucking teach me a lesson etc....

I had the window half down, but the door was locked as DS tends to try and open them if not. I had just given DS a few sips of his fruit shoot before turning on the engine, then popped it in the cup holder in front of me, so I saw red and squirted the rest of it through the window gap into his face, then drove off. It was a purple one, as well, so extra red and sticky.

My shero ❤

bemorebernard · 27/09/2023 14:01

It's. Even reported to police and my guess is someone will recognise him as the footage is very good

He's committed a public order offence and so I expect will be dealt with , but hopefully the very public shaming will be far better punishment.

I'd be so embarrassed if that were someone I knew

This happened to me and my dd on a beach at 5am , bloke screaming g and shouting so hard couldn't even make out what he was saying

Sorrytomoan · 27/09/2023 14:08

I had something similar recently but not as bad.
I'd been doing my tyre pressures so was parked in the tyre pressure bit, had gone into garage to use the loo.
Came out and some bloke with his shirt undone (yuk) muttered to himself "oh its you is it." I went right over to him and asked him to repeat himself, said I'm sorry what several times cos he just kept muttering about me under his breath.
Replied yes its me, whats the issue.
He patronisingly told me that was only for people doing tyre pressures. Told him that's what I'd been doing.
He then moaned that I should have moved just moaned on and on, shaking his head. I loudly called him a cunt then went and sat in my car for ages and didnt move. At least ten minutes. He was so rude. Reversed out really slowly, it was very satisfying!

If I'd been a man he wouldn't have said a word. He really thought I'd just randomly parked there.

RosaMoline · 27/09/2023 14:09

Ugh. He reminds me so
much of my abusive, alcoholic ex BF. He had a tendency to behave like that. He even looks like that man (ex is only early 50s but looks much older due to lifestyle - excessive drinking, smoking etc)

Pocodaku · 28/09/2023 02:01

@SecondClassReturnToDottinghamPlease It may help. Unfortunately lots of people think there are a few rotten apples, that’s all; that this type of misogynistic viciousness is rare, etc.

TheWeeDonkeyFella · 01/10/2023 21:21

The papers have tracked him down, apparently he also did his swearing at the car window trick to the female reporter too - bit of pattern emerging, wonder how many other times he's tried this way of intimidating women? Not much info yet, but he's only 59! Hope he's feeling as anxious about the attention coming his way as he left the woman driver feeling.
Screaming motorist who banged on terrified woman driver's windscreen and called her a 's**g' in 'road rage' incident is unmasked | Daily Mail Online

FormerlyPathologicallyHappy · 01/10/2023 21:33

Bloody hell. He looks so much older than that.

RudsyFarmer · 01/10/2023 21:42

I bet his is embroiled in a neighbour dispute over an inch of land and holds HUGE resentment over it.

IncognitoMam · 01/10/2023 23:26

I was going to post about his age. Shocking. All that bitterness obviously has caused him to look a lot older. Vile specimen.

omgsally · 01/10/2023 23:31

This is what lies beneath the facade of many men. I've seen it over and over again. I remember an ex bf getting in a rage at a woman in a car and calling her a stupid split. Most men will immediately resort to saying things like, learn to drive love and whilst this isn't screaming insults, it most certainly gives you a little peek in to what lurks beneath.