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Washing the whole team kit

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PurpleBirch · 24/09/2023 22:30

DS has joined a new rugby team and they have a very organised WhatsApp including a rota of all the parents’ jobs. Fair enough, I’m very happy to participate mannjngbyhe car park, cooking food for after etc. This includes taking turns to wash the whole team shirts. Is it just me or does it seem a bit silly to take home 20 dirty teenage size shirts to wash and dry instead of each taking their own and wearing them to the match the following week?

There are more than enough shirts per player. It’s our turn in a couple of weeks and I’m already hoping for good weather!

I want to question the logic but DH thinks just do it and don’t rock the boat.

Do any of your DC teams do this?

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AffableApple · 25/09/2023 18:06

Husband takes to laundrette. Sorted.

Harperhan · 25/09/2023 18:39

This is a way of making sure they don’t go walk abouts and also means players can switch positions and have the correct number. At our club you buy and wash your own shirt but we don’t have numbers on them.

HappyMe6 · 25/09/2023 18:44

I used to do this on a regular basis never had a problem with doing it,

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Mumof3children · 25/09/2023 18:47

One of the reasons is to ensure the jerseys maintain the same colour.

Lavenderfowl · 25/09/2023 18:55

I remember my Nan doing the football team strip for my Uncle’s team back in the 70s…in a twin tub that took up most of the kitchen and filled the rest of it with steam and bubbles 😁… a lovely memory 💙

Spudlet · 25/09/2023 19:11

I think I’d be tapping my lovely washing lady up for a couple of extra loads that week 😂 Would be £30 well spent!

queenofthewild · 25/09/2023 19:14

I wish this happened in football. The amount of kids who drop out part way through a season but refuse to hand back their kit. I can only dream of a team all dressed in matching kit rather than cobbled together odds and ends.

blacksax · 26/09/2023 15:49

Ericaequites · 25/09/2023 16:28

@blacksax I just spit milk on my tablet screen. In my experience, men who can take apart and reassemble a internal combustion engine can’t even put a new roll of bathroom tissue on the spindle.

They can manage to do it when there isn't a woman in the building. Well, they'll probably put the new roll on the floor, but they're halfway there.

Iwasafool · 26/09/2023 15:53

blacksax · 26/09/2023 15:49

They can manage to do it when there isn't a woman in the building. Well, they'll probably put the new roll on the floor, but they're halfway there.

But can they get rid of the cardboard roll from the old one?

clarehhh · 26/09/2023 18:19

We did that it was great, I always used double dose of powder and tried not to breathe when loading it in!

Heidi75 · 26/09/2023 18:26

So all 3 of my children have played team sports and we have never been involved in teams that do this - always just take and wash your own kit

Bugbabe1970 · 26/09/2023 18:51

This has been done by millions of parents for many many years! It’s part of the routine! It’ll only be once a season probably! Don’t be that parent!

Keeper11 · 26/09/2023 19:05

I think the main reason, apart from individuals forgetting etc, is to keep the kit the same colour. You only need a couple of Mums who use a particularly non bio washing powder, with a tad too much bleach, and the kits will vary a lot in colour. The kits have washing instructions, it’s not difficult, most kits dry easily.
Why make a song and dance over who puts the kit in the machine, and presses a button? Lifting the clean kit out and pegging it on the line is hardly arduous! This chore is nothing compared to the work put in by the rugby trainers, who organise the games, the training sessions, and sometimes the rugby tours.

1mabon · 26/09/2023 19:08

It goes with the territory, just get on with it, it's only once in a while.

TheLuckyOnes · 26/09/2023 19:09

You only need a couple of Mums who use a particularly non bio washing powder, with a tad too much bleach, and the kits will vary a lot in colour.

Maybe ask yourself that's wrong with that statement, @Keeper11, and something might dawn.

Notthisagainpart2 · 26/09/2023 19:16

You can question the logic but looks a bit suss if you only question it when it's your turn.

Beautiful3 · 26/09/2023 19:16

Kits are expensive and too many kids leave. They all have to stay together.

MrsKnows · 26/09/2023 20:04

My husband’s teams did this every week. It simply meant everyone was involved.

it harder to forget a bit of kit when you have 20 kits to remember! 😃

H007 · 26/09/2023 20:27

Both DD’s play football and DH is DD2’s coach I only was their shirts and the goalie shirt for the U7’s team as everyone has a go.

linsey2581 · 26/09/2023 20:53

When my DH played Saturday morning football each guy had to take a turn of washing the kits. It included shirts shorts and socks! The socks were the worst they smelled of ammonia! I have to say I loved when it was my turn and loved it even better when I could hang them on the washing line. I took pride in washing them.

twinmum2007 · 26/09/2023 21:28

ChicoryDip · 24/09/2023 22:36

My guess would be that because the numbered positions are important in rugby it makes sense to keep the full set of shirts together as they don't 'belong' to a particular player and can change depending on the position allocated that week.

Obviously it risks a full set of shirts being MIA because Billy's mum washed them last week and has now gone on holiday and forgot to let Bob have the shirts but it minimises the risk of odd shirts being lost.

This is EXACTLY why clubs do it this way. Though in my team there's invariably an email- of-shame where someone 'fesses up to having taken their shirt home.

Toomuchtrouble4me · 27/09/2023 01:12

Daft idea imo. One muddy kit once a week is far better than an overwhelming amount to wash AND get dry - what about those who live in small flats without gardens? Sod that gif a game of Rugby.

mathanxiety · 27/09/2023 04:21

PurpleBirch · 25/09/2023 07:47

Seems it’s quite normal so I’ll stick to the rota!

It’s only the shirts and so I’ve still got DS’s shorts, socks and base layers each week so not at a total week off!
It’s not a big deal but I was curious about the reasoning.

I thought it was quite an old fashioned idea but I see it makes sense if there is a limit on kit. For what it’s worth we’ve all paid for our own kit and everyone wears the same numbers and there’s enough for substitutions.

I’ve got 4 sporty teens and it’s the first time I’ve come across it but I won’t say anything and I’ll hope it’s a dry windy weekend when it’s our turn!

You need to introduce your four teens to the concept of doing their own team laundry, especially if the teens are boys.

MrsTerryPratchett · 27/09/2023 05:18

Keeper11 · 26/09/2023 19:05

I think the main reason, apart from individuals forgetting etc, is to keep the kit the same colour. You only need a couple of Mums who use a particularly non bio washing powder, with a tad too much bleach, and the kits will vary a lot in colour. The kits have washing instructions, it’s not difficult, most kits dry easily.
Why make a song and dance over who puts the kit in the machine, and presses a button? Lifting the clean kit out and pegging it on the line is hardly arduous! This chore is nothing compared to the work put in by the rugby trainers, who organise the games, the training sessions, and sometimes the rugby tours.

I'd only make a song and dance if the 'people' expected to do this are 'mums'. Because why? Men and boys love machines, right? Zoom zoom digger. Zoom zoom washing machine.

I'm so glad I have a fully functional husband. Knows how all the machines in the house work. Like a boss. He can find his arse with both hands too.

MumMRM · 27/09/2023 09:28

If is not viable for each player to take their own shirts and wash them because they may not be playing the following week, or due to work only playing second half etc. It makes sense for one person to wash the whole bundle.

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