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Why is ‘Kind regards’ a bad sign off

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SuperiorM · 24/08/2023 20:42

So, I’ve just heard that ‘Kind Regards’ is considered passive aggressive. Maybe I’m just old and out of touch but it sounds more like a more friendly’Best wishes’ to me. I suppose I’m going to have to stop using it.

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plumtreebroke · 25/08/2023 20:49

Hollyhead · 24/08/2023 21:03

Kind regards is a bit 20 years ago isn’t it? I switched to best wishes a few years ago which I think sounds friendlier.

Best wishes is a Christmas card to a friend/neighbour.

Regards or derivatives is a work person or a reply to a random email from some company you deal with.

Love/kisses etc to family usually. although some people use them a lot, which is fine and sometimes really nice.

Tink1990 · 25/08/2023 21:06

milknbean · 24/08/2023 21:22

I also get incensed by read receipts and never, ever click the permission to show it as read.

Yes! Me and my colleague (shared mailbox) always select 'no'. Just unnecessary, always the same client too when we respond to them within 48 hours without fail everytime anyways (usually even sooner, but never more than)

TheaBrandt · 25/08/2023 21:09

Have an awful feeling the cringey over apologising style is particular to women.

Beesandhoney123 · 25/08/2023 23:08

No matter what sex you are in the field I am in, we are all uber polite and as if in 18 century. It's not apologising.

Quite miss the office face to face where an obnoxious smarny office lothario ( pissed) asked me what my name was, as he was Pete or something and we could be ( wink) close colleagues. I said " you can call me Ms Beesandhoney' in my best haughty voice:)

Can't do that on email. There is trail left for IT..

blacksax · 26/08/2023 11:28

Beenhereforever1978 · 25/08/2023 18:52

@blacksax ooohhhhh. You should definitely start those emails with "OI!" 😁 * *

I'd love to!!

There is one person I contact (who I've been chasing her every week for about 5 years and we do get on really well) where I just email saying "Hi Jane, give me all your money or else!" and she'll often reply with "Ugh, go away", but I always get the money out of her in the end.

cakeorwine · 26/08/2023 11:35

I don't like Kind Regards. It's too fake for me.

I just say "Thanks" at the end of my emails.

Express0 · 26/08/2023 11:37

PinkTonic · 25/08/2023 08:29

Last week it was please don't use Teams for messages of longer than a sentence

That’s so irritating. I am interested in thoughts on Teams etiquette as well now. I hate it when someone messages good morning then waits for a response before saying what they want. If someone does this I generally respond with ‘how can I help’ and ignore the good morning, hope you are well crap.

This infuriates me. I am busy. Put the whole query in your message. I now don’t reply until they have told me what they need.

lljkk · 26/08/2023 11:38

Am I the only one who doesn't read the sign off?
Before I read the msg, I know who sent it. I don't care how they sign off.

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