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Why do so many people on here now avoid swearing?

53 replies

PriamFarrl · 11/08/2023 23:44

I don’t mean that they use different words but they write stuff like sh1t, f*k and cnt. Why do that? I’m going to read f**k as fuck, you know it means fuck, so just damn well write fuck.

Rant over.

OP posts:
CantThinkOfANameAtAll · 11/08/2023 23:47

Conditioning. I don't particularly like saying or writing it but in some instances you need to get the rage out.

It doesn't bother me reading it in either form. Why does it bother you that much?

WhateverMate · 11/08/2023 23:49

I always assume they're fairly new and don't realise we can swear.

@CantThinkOfANameAtAll what makes you assume it bothers the OP 'that much'?

It's an interesting question 🤷‍♀️

becarefulofyourheart · 11/08/2023 23:51

Puritanism? Class thing? Can’t be an educated motherfucker if you write the actual
word?

PurposefulBear · 11/08/2023 23:52

For fucks sake OP, IYKYK. Sometimes the time it takes to write shit out just kills the moment.

PurposefulBear · 11/08/2023 23:53

Btw I was just testing it out above and writing fucks sake makes me feel much more accountable than ffs

MillicentTrilbyHiggins · 11/08/2023 23:55

I think a lot of other sites don't allow swearing so if you're used to them you automatically type f*ck.

If you're old enough to have been here forever you know you can fucking swear as much as you fucking like.

smilesup · 11/08/2023 23:57

I miss the fucking swearing so much

occa · 11/08/2023 23:58

Yeah I’m with @WhateverMate I always assume it’s new posters who haven’t read many threads.

Surely most people who’ve been here even a little know that we’re sweary fuckers.

SiobhanSharpe · 11/08/2023 23:59

smilesup · 11/08/2023 23:57

I miss the fucking swearing so much

Yes. Sometimes i throw in a fuck or just to avoid letting the side down.

SiobhanSharpe · 11/08/2023 23:59

...fuck or two...

Lookingatthesunset · 12/08/2023 00:00

I fucking love being able to bastarding swear lol!

A lot of other sites don't allow it.

Aquamarine1029 · 12/08/2023 00:03

I fucking love to use the cunting swear words. Fuck fuckity fuck it. I have to be professional all fucking day, I can enjoy some ranting on mn.

Aquamarine1029 · 12/08/2023 00:04

Lookingatthesunset · 12/08/2023 00:00

I fucking love being able to bastarding swear lol!

A lot of other sites don't allow it.

Fuck those sites.

Seagullchippy · 12/08/2023 00:04

Fuck knows. Wankers!

WhateverMate · 12/08/2023 00:09

We don't want to run out of fucks here.

It's my round so who wants what?

I'm having 2 wankers and a shit head.

What's everyone else having?

IveHadItUpToHere · 12/08/2023 00:11

I assume they're cutting and pasting across different forums and some of the other ones don't allow swearing.

CarPour · 12/08/2023 00:13

Is it more prevalent than before? There's always been starrers

Some people don't feel comfortable swearing and that's fine. I find it embarrassing when people feel the need to question people writing f*. Why do you give a shit what others do? It reminds me of being a child and thinking you were so naughty because you were swearing.

WhateverMate · 12/08/2023 00:17

Some people don't feel comfortable swearing and that's fine.

See I totally get that but what I (and it seems the OP too) don't get is if you're not comfortable swearing, why would you then swear?

Typing f**k is actually swearing. We all know they mean fuck and we read it as fuck so if they're comfortable using the word fuck, why not add the extra letters?

If someone didn't feel comfortable swearing, they wouldn't type it at all.

CallieQ · 12/08/2023 00:25

Isn't there a sweary thread

CallieQ · 12/08/2023 00:27

WhateverMate · 12/08/2023 00:09

We don't want to run out of fucks here.

It's my round so who wants what?

I'm having 2 wankers and a shit head.

What's everyone else having?

😂
Fuckity fuck pls

ElizaWinter · 12/08/2023 00:45

IveHadItUpToHere · 12/08/2023 00:11

I assume they're cutting and pasting across different forums and some of the other ones don't allow swearing.

Wow it never occurred to me that people would do that. I'm now imagining a host of screens with different sites open, hands flying round the keyboard like Edward Scissorhands

Fuck me!

WhateverMate · 12/08/2023 00:45

CallieQ · 12/08/2023 00:27

😂
Fuckity fuck pls

Coming right up, with a C bomb chaser 😁

Catsmere · 12/08/2023 04:19

WhateverMate · 12/08/2023 00:17

Some people don't feel comfortable swearing and that's fine.

See I totally get that but what I (and it seems the OP too) don't get is if you're not comfortable swearing, why would you then swear?

Typing f**k is actually swearing. We all know they mean fuck and we read it as fuck so if they're comfortable using the word fuck, why not add the extra letters?

If someone didn't feel comfortable swearing, they wouldn't type it at all.

Reminds me of

“ Dmn!” said Carrot, a difficult linguistic feat.*

(Terry Pratchett, Feet of Clay)

😄

Catsmere · 12/08/2023 04:22

Oh, bloody text! That's meant to be

"D*amn," said Carrot, a difficult linguistic feat.

DavesSpareDeckChair · 12/08/2023 07:52

What annoys me is the asterisks fuck up the formatting, especially when there are multiple words bleeped out, so it randomly goes back and forth between normal and bold.