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The Roman Catholic Church

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Orfuln · 27/07/2023 00:02

Following the death of Sinead O'Connor.

Obviously the acts and crimes of this church are vast and can't be contained to one place. But in honour of a great woman, if you find it in yourself, give your testimony here.

Mine : my father was institutionalised, brutalised and brainwashed in childhood by the Catholic organisation who schooled him following the death of his father. He was an unhappy and violent man who didn't understand family relationships and consequently my own childhood was blighted with violence and misery. I did however learn my catechism very well. I now absolutely reject it.

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Ferona · 30/07/2023 18:10

Mustardseed86 · 30/07/2023 18:07

I thought you were referring to something deleted. I was just curious about what was said.

I can't say, apparently. But I'm not going to get a straight answer out of that particular poster anyway.

Tenttime · 30/07/2023 18:21

They are not ‘well-placed’ to influence.

Many politicians with far less power are often berated for not being representative of the population. Old, white, males, with no money concerns, who don’t have employment as most experience it, who have never run a household, been in a partnership, or had families of their own etc. should not even be commenting on female reproductive issues let alone issuing edicts about it.

As someone raised Catholic I always remember “go in peace to love and serve the Lord” at the end of mass. Yet, I’m often amazed at the frankly venomous replies of some posters who would have you believe they are good Christians; I guess it’s just an hour a week and then being mean the rest of the time that qualifies someone as that.

Chickenkeev · 30/07/2023 18:35

So many 'good christians' are venomous, vicious pigs. There are of course lots of good actually christian people but as long as the others are tolerated, people will be alienated from the church.

Interested in this thread?

Then you might like threads about this subject:

Thelastwaltz · 30/07/2023 18:42

Chickenkeev · 30/07/2023 18:35

So many 'good christians' are venomous, vicious pigs. There are of course lots of good actually christian people but as long as the others are tolerated, people will be alienated from the church.

I'm sorry to burst your bubble but the Church (and I use that word loosely to encompass all Christian denominations) is a hospital for sinners not a church for saints.

There are no 'good Christians' -we are all flawed.

The idea of being Christian is to grow into the best person you can be - not to be a perfect person. So the question to ask is - has a person's belief made them better than they would have been without it?

Mustardseed86 · 30/07/2023 18:47

Goodness, someone is very zealous with the report button. I guess I'm not allowed to post clarifying that the Archbishop of Canterbury is not the C of E equivalent of the Pope!

Chickenkeev · 30/07/2023 18:52

Thelastwaltz · 30/07/2023 18:42

I'm sorry to burst your bubble but the Church (and I use that word loosely to encompass all Christian denominations) is a hospital for sinners not a church for saints.

There are no 'good Christians' -we are all flawed.

The idea of being Christian is to grow into the best person you can be - not to be a perfect person. So the question to ask is - has a person's belief made them better than they would have been without it?

I don't agree with that tbh. There are lots of very nice people who are christian. Lots don't agree with the hideous actions of the church. Not bad people. But still won't dissassociate from the church despite the scandals. It's as if they're hostages.

Mustardseed86 · 30/07/2023 19:01

I would say, you will know them by their fruits.

AnorLondo · 30/07/2023 19:10

Thelastwaltz · 30/07/2023 18:09

I never said that the RCC should have 'political clout' at all - where did I say that ??
I said they are well-placed to influence some spheres of life.

Okay fine. You're advocating for the church to be "well placed to influence" policy that affects everyone including non Catholics. So 'don't like don't join' doesn't really work.

AnorLondo · 30/07/2023 19:12

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Message withdrawn as it quotes a deleted post.

Thelastwaltz · 30/07/2023 19:12

@Chickenkeev I don't agree with that tbh

Your prerogative.

So do you think that Christians should be perfect people?

Thelastwaltz · 30/07/2023 19:17

AnorLondo · 30/07/2023 19:10

Okay fine. You're advocating for the church to be "well placed to influence" policy that affects everyone including non Catholics. So 'don't like don't join' doesn't really work.

You misunderstand,

We live in a democracy. So while there may be a different opinion being voiced, by many different groups, at the end of the day it comes to a majority vote by politicians.

Shayisgreat · 30/07/2023 19:19

My great uncle was a priest. He molested my auntie and many of her female cousins. My granny refused to contemplate it was happening, my granda ended up in a mental asylum getting shock therapy for suggesting it was happening. The rest of the family stopped talking to one of the aunties for believing her child who said she was abused by him. The priest was moved around to various different parishes in Ireland until he was moved to Japan and remained there for the last 15 years of his life. My dad didn't know or understand until my auntie told him about 20 years ago what had happened and then it all fell into place for him. He hasn't been back to mass since and it cemented my certainty that I was nothing to do with this institution.

Thelastwaltz · 30/07/2023 19:21

Chickenkeev · 30/07/2023 18:52

I don't agree with that tbh. There are lots of very nice people who are christian. Lots don't agree with the hideous actions of the church. Not bad people. But still won't dissassociate from the church despite the scandals. It's as if they're hostages.

So are people who keep voting for the same political party (despite the scandals) being "held hostage" as well? 🤔

Chickenkeev · 30/07/2023 19:24

Thelastwaltz · 30/07/2023 19:21

So are people who keep voting for the same political party (despite the scandals) being "held hostage" as well? 🤔

Well yes, if they disagree with policies but keep voting for the same then there is some sort of mental thing that is holding them hostage. I'm not saying it's right, but it is what it is.

Chickenkeev · 30/07/2023 19:27

Shayisgreat · 30/07/2023 19:19

My great uncle was a priest. He molested my auntie and many of her female cousins. My granny refused to contemplate it was happening, my granda ended up in a mental asylum getting shock therapy for suggesting it was happening. The rest of the family stopped talking to one of the aunties for believing her child who said she was abused by him. The priest was moved around to various different parishes in Ireland until he was moved to Japan and remained there for the last 15 years of his life. My dad didn't know or understand until my auntie told him about 20 years ago what had happened and then it all fell into place for him. He hasn't been back to mass since and it cemented my certainty that I was nothing to do with this institution.

That's awful. But so Irish sadly. The story is so common.

AnorLondo · 30/07/2023 19:41

Thelastwaltz · 30/07/2023 19:17

You misunderstand,

We live in a democracy. So while there may be a different opinion being voiced, by many different groups, at the end of the day it comes to a majority vote by politicians.

So you don't think the church should have a role in politics?

judyBloom4Ever · 30/07/2023 19:59

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Chickenkeev · 30/07/2023 20:17

AnorLondo · 30/07/2023 19:41

So you don't think the church should have a role in politics?

No. Never. They can have opinions etc which they will no doubt extoll from the pulpit. Fair enough. And their constituents will vote that way should they so decide. They should not be given a platform on national television for their very biased views. That is not right.

Thelastwaltz · 30/07/2023 20:57

AnorLondo · 30/07/2023 19:41

So you don't think the church should have a role in politics?

What do you mean by "a role"?

Thelastwaltz · 30/07/2023 21:00

Chickenkeev · 30/07/2023 19:24

Well yes, if they disagree with policies but keep voting for the same then there is some sort of mental thing that is holding them hostage. I'm not saying it's right, but it is what it is.

What about the scandals, do they turn a blind eye to those as well?

AnorLondo · 30/07/2023 21:04

Thelastwaltz · 30/07/2023 20:57

What do you mean by "a role"?

Whatever you meant when you said "play meaningful roles at all levels of politics: local, national, and global. "

Thelastwaltz · 30/07/2023 21:05

Chickenkeev · 30/07/2023 20:17

No. Never. They can have opinions etc which they will no doubt extoll from the pulpit. Fair enough. And their constituents will vote that way should they so decide. They should not be given a platform on national television for their very biased views. That is not right.

So by the same token the National Secular Society shouldn't be on TV or involved in lobbying either?

Oh and BTW I've never known any priest send a political message from the pulpit.

Thelastwaltz · 30/07/2023 21:16

AnorLondo · 30/07/2023 21:04

Whatever you meant when you said "play meaningful roles at all levels of politics: local, national, and global. "

Historically the Church did (and still does), take a crucial role in the protection of civil society during communist and authoritarian right-wing rule.

In addition it takes an active role in promoting democracy and religious pluralism.

Ferona · 30/07/2023 21:18

Thelastwaltz · 30/07/2023 21:05

So by the same token the National Secular Society shouldn't be on TV or involved in lobbying either?

Oh and BTW I've never known any priest send a political message from the pulpit.

Just because you haven't seen it doesn't mean it doesn't happen.

https://www.theguardian.com/society/2012/aug/26/scottish-catholics-campaign-gay-marriage

Catholic church in Scotland steps up campaign against gay marriage

Letter criticising Scottish government's plans to legalise gay marriage will be read out in all Catholic parishes

https://www.theguardian.com/society/2012/aug/26/scottish-catholics-campaign-gay-marriage

Hoppinggreen · 30/07/2023 21:18

Thelastwaltz · 30/07/2023 21:16

Historically the Church did (and still does), take a crucial role in the protection of civil society during communist and authoritarian right-wing rule.

In addition it takes an active role in promoting democracy and religious pluralism.

The Catholic Church has also taken an active role in genocide