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How is Huw Edwards different to Philip Schofield

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user6482952 · 13/07/2023 08:57

Heard this question raised on LBC this morning and was wondering the same thing.

How are the two any different? Both older men engaged with younger men, both cheating on their wives, and both claiming mental health issues post revelation.

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IncompleteSenten · 13/07/2023 09:50

He's not.

They're both sleezy bastards.

However, there's no law against being a sleezy bastard and it appears Huw Edwards has commited no crime.

I'm not sure about Schofield, isn't there speculation that he groomed an underage boy?

JohnPrescottsPyjamas · 13/07/2023 09:54

And what short memories the media have.

Remember this? Mandy Smith subsequently confirmed that their relationship was actually consummated when she was 14.

‘Wyman wrote in his 1990 autobiography: "She took my breath away...she was a woman at thirteen.’ 🤢

https://www.smoothradio.com/news/music/bill-wyman-mandy-smith-marriage-wedding/

Bill Wyman's controversial marriage to teenager Mandy Smith explained

A film festival has cancelled an appearance from ex-Rolling Stones member Bill Wyman, after complaints regarding his relationship with a teenage girl back in the 1980s. Where is Mandy Smith now and what happened after their marriage?

https://www.smoothradio.com/news/music/bill-wyman-mandy-smith-marriage-wedding/

PTSDBarbiegirl · 13/07/2023 09:57

TimesRwo · 13/07/2023 09:40

To be fair, HE has had issues with his mental health for years and has suffered with depression. It’s now new news so it’s not surprising this event has been a trigger for a relapse.

These events were possibly part of a MH episode or ongoing symptoms in the first place. Mania can have depressive aspects and dangerous, highly risky behaviour. If there's no criminality then it's behaviour others disapprove of, end of.

KeepyUppy122 · 13/07/2023 09:58

Differences to me are that PS had physical sexual contact with the young man. Who was working with him in a junior position at the time of the sexual contact.

And AFAIK hadn't mentioned MH difficulties before? Whereas Huw spoke openly about having severe depression before all this happened.

Those seem to be factual differences that are relevant.

There are also many similarities.

Frogmila · 13/07/2023 09:59

If HE did indeed meet the young person on OnlyFans or similar then I don't know why there isn't an outcry for such sites to do more due diligence and safeguarding with their performers. I'm not sure what shape this would take as there are presumably so many people on there but at least mandatory ID checks if they don't already.

Tahitiansummer · 13/07/2023 10:00

Meadowfly · 13/07/2023 09:10

Did HE ever actually meet any of these people? If he found them on onlyfans had they said they were 18? PS knew the boy from a young age and got him a job + lied about it - and did have a ‘physical relationship’ with him. PS actions seem considerably worse imo.

Some of the allegations are from his junior colleagues.

Comefromaway · 13/07/2023 10:00

For me the big difference is that PS first started grooming the young man aged 14 and was also in a position of power/responsibility over him.

HE went through a website where it assumed everyone is over 18, and the young person was 17 anyway.

Nearlybackatschool · 13/07/2023 10:02

I guess it is different if there was engagement with the other party before they were 18. Also if you worked with them, lied about it and were generally a sanctimonious prat to others as a career.

That said both were unable to be out in the eighties and nineties as it would have been career suicicde from a societal point of view perhaps we should address why that even now why tv and film actors and actresses still have to hide their sexuality.

We dont know what went on in either of their marriages, obviously the age gap is worrying, but noone gave the same ick factor faux offence to likes of barbara Windsor. For now he is generally poorly having had his private life paraded in front of us to hide boris's text messages.

Allow the bbc to investigate and move on...

Comefromaway · 13/07/2023 10:03

Allthegoodnamesarechosen · 13/07/2023 09:38

Maybe you should all be campaigning to raise the age of consent, and to shut down OnlyFans and other such sites, rather than rushing to condemn someone who availed themselves of the climate of approval.

My personal view is that the age of consent should not be raised, no-one wants to prosecute a 16 year old and a 17 year old for having sex.

But there should be a law in place that anyone over the age of 21 (or possibly 23) should not have sexual relations with anyone under the age of 18.

Gettingbysomehow · 13/07/2023 10:03

Did Huw edwards allegedly have dealings with young men or young women? It just says "they" in news updates.

donquixotedelamancha · 13/07/2023 10:03
  1. PS met his victim at a much younger age and was in a position of immense power over him.
  1. The police and the young person dispute the parent's account of what happened. At the moment all that seems certain is that HE has been using Grindr.
  1. ITV ignored (or possibly covered up) the issue for years. The BBC only got agreement from the Sun to pass on the details they have yesterday.
  1. PS was given the chance to put his side across first by the Sun. They sat on far better evidence than they used to attack HE and continued the attacks on HE for days while not disclosing that there were large holes in the parent's story. Doing that hurt a lot of people.

None of that is me defending HE. If any substantive part of this is true then his career should be over.

Tahitiansummer · 13/07/2023 10:05

PTSDBarbiegirl · 13/07/2023 09:57

These events were possibly part of a MH episode or ongoing symptoms in the first place. Mania can have depressive aspects and dangerous, highly risky behaviour. If there's no criminality then it's behaviour others disapprove of, end of.

It's not 'end of' - an older male cannot be left to behave in any way they choose leaving vulnerable junior colleagues feeling unable to speak out in any workplace. Every allegation must be listened to and thoroughly investigated. HE was deemed well enough to work with no recent prolonged periods of sickness absence and some of these allegations are very recent.

WeWereInParis · 13/07/2023 10:06

Gettingbysomehow · 13/07/2023 10:03

Did Huw edwards allegedly have dealings with young men or young women? It just says "they" in news updates.

I think that is due to a reluctance to out him. I think if they were women, they'd have said.

Mrsjayy · 13/07/2023 10:09

We honestly can't assume it was a young man it hasn't been said.

Badbadbunny · 13/07/2023 10:10

At the end of the day, the detail doesn't matter. Most, if not all, employment contracts include a clause "not to bring the employer into disrepute" or similar, and people are sacked on a daily basis for breaching that term. There's no doubt HE has brought his employer (BBC) into disrepute by his actions, which may not be illegal, but that's not the "standard" - the BBC has clearly suffered reputational damage due to HE's conduct, and his job, rightly, is at an end because of it.

Weefreetiffany · 13/07/2023 10:10

Because just now they need a distraction from all the Tory crimes, like Boris Johnson’a phone. But if they plaster this all over the news then they weaken the bbc and distract from Tory corruption in one. Don’t be fooled one is worse than the other.

Classinglass · 13/07/2023 10:11

It’s different because Philip Schofield met his young lover when he was a child. He then arranged for him to get a job working beside him at itv & the boy became his personal runner. When the relationship ended the young lad lost his job on this morning & was moved onto loose women. It reeks of grooming & manipulation & a shocking abuse of power. Everyone at itv knew and did nothing. It is in no way the same as the huw Edwards thing at all.

PTSDBarbiegirl · 13/07/2023 10:11

StellaAndCrow · 13/07/2023 09:48

Yes, I'd say it is misogyny/patriarchal society rather than homophobia.

Same as the sexual abuse of young male footballers by a male coach/trainer was taken much more seriously than all the abuse of women that goes on.

Girls and women are expected to be abused by men & older men. I think there is a toxic masculinity homophobia tinge to the story but mysogyny and patriarchal society are what cause lives and health of girls and women to be so undervalued.

Festoonedflurryfairy · 13/07/2023 10:11

Badger1970 · 13/07/2023 09:38

When Caroline Flack ended her life rather than face the consequences of her actions, poor mental health became a "get out of jail free card" for celebrities. #bekind everyone, no matter what they've done.

Now being used to cover up and excuse much much poorer behaviour.

It's appalling in both cases. Both men with wives and families but fuck all thought for them. It's them I feel horribly sorry for today. Not someone sat in a very expensive private hospital having their ego massaged and told there there it's ok.

I don’t think this is quite fair about CF or HE tbh.

CF had had ongoing serious mh difficulties which, according to her mother, centred around abandonment. I’m not defending violence or domestic abuse under any circumstances but her mh condition definitely exacerbated the incident that led to her demise. And a so-called friend sold a photo to the tabloids showing blood in her apartment without it being made clear that the blood was mainly hers (she had cut her wrists in response to her bf’s infidelity). The Met police eventually made a formal apology to Caroline’s mother about the way they had pursued the case, appealing the CPS’s recommendation of just a caution. We know this bc the facts came out at the inquest.

We really don’t know anything about HE’s case as yet because the facts have not been formally established by any reliable source. He has spoken publically about having had long term depression before. We don’t know why he felt unable to come out as gay, if he is indeed gay, but attitudes were very different thirty even twenty years ago to how they are now. His behaviour does not look good and I’m not condoning moral sleaze but we all know that the Sun has its own agenda here.

Surely there is the wider issue at stake as to whether we believe individuals in the public eye are entitled to a private life or not? Obviously exploitative relationships are morally reprehensible but if someone acts within the law should they still be subject to the equivalent of a public flogging in the tabloids, which are morally objectionable themselves?

SirVixofVixHall · 13/07/2023 10:11

SoWhatEh · 13/07/2023 09:20

To me there are big differences. Schofield had a relationship with someone he knew and worked with. There was common ground and years of friendship and shared experience. Whether that was grooming or not, I don't know, but the younger man had a job at a prestigious place. His life was on track. However morally dubious the motives, Schofield was helping this boy's career progress.

Edwards presents himself as a model of probity. A pillar of the church, an earnest presenter, trusted to handle the biggest royal stories. Meanwhile he is paying thousands to a very young sex worker to perform on screen for him over a number of years. It would be evident from the boy's body and behaviour that he is in decline. And the fact he is on Only Fans of a similar platform at a young age suggests his life is on a downward spiral in itself. To not care, to have no compassion about this, but to pour money into it so the boy can fund a crack habit just to let your willy go hard for a few minutes? Repulsive.

Of the two I think one is a weak man and one is a wicked man. If the stories against HE are true. Which they are not yet proven to be.

There has been no suggestion that the young man was on Only Fans at all.

CallieQ · 13/07/2023 10:12

Huw Edwards isn't claiming after the event. He has said before he's had serious depression

Gall10 · 13/07/2023 10:12

dovesong · 13/07/2023 09:04

I think it's partly because Huw Edwards is generally more respected, has always done a wonderful job, while Schofield's popularity took a dip recently due to the queue jumping (🙄)

Huge Edwards gets paid around half a million pounds of licence payers money a year for reading out loud. That’s not what earns respect!

StillWantingADog · 13/07/2023 10:12

On the face of it they both exploited their positions of power for personal gain which is wrong

however wrt HE we still don’t really know what happened. It seems possible that the whole thing was made up. It also seems like a deliberate effort my Murdoch/the Sun to further weaken the BBC and deflect media interest in other very important stories.!

Mrsjayy · 13/07/2023 10:13

Yes that's what it is distraction. We all know if you are watching/ reading news that Boris Johnstone didn't had over his phone for investigation. Its ongoing and to trot out that the huw Edwards story is just distraction is ridiculous!

LolaSmiles · 13/07/2023 10:14

Did HE ever actually meet any of these people? If he found them on onlyfans had they said they were 18? PS knew the boy from a young age and got him a job + lied about it - and did have a ‘physical relationship’ with him. PS actions seem considerably worse imo.
That's the difference to me

Whilst HE's actions are wrong, if he had reason to believe everyone was over 18 then that is very different to PS knowing someone as a child, grooming them, helping them get a job in the industry and abusing his more senior position in the workplace.

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