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BBC Presenter and yet more allegations

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friendlycat · 11/07/2023 23:28

It would appear that the front page of tomorrow’s The Sun has further allegations about messages with a new 17 year old. Creepy hearts etc

Scrolling through Sky news and seeing front pages of the papers. This appears bottom right on The Sun front page.

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treneton · 12/07/2023 09:41

DogInATent · 12/07/2023 09:36

It's not so clear cut in UK law. Depending which statute applies it could be:
<18 = child
<16 = child and <18 = young person
<14 = child and <18 = young person

You can join the army at 16 and make your application when you are 15 and 7 months - so flashing your arse to an old perv online at 17 doesn't seem so terrible. https://jobs.army.mod.uk/how-to-join/can-i-apply/age/

fromdownwest · 12/07/2023 09:42

Blossomtoes · 12/07/2023 09:39

Make up your mind. This person is a vulnerable young person when it suits, then a drug addict who lacks veracity when that suits the argument. Why wouldn’t Child and Child work pro bono?

Can one not be a vulnerable young person AND an drug addict.

I would have thought the two go hand in hand?

IAmSalmaFuckingHayek · 12/07/2023 09:43

treneton · 12/07/2023 09:41

You can join the army at 16 and make your application when you are 15 and 7 months - so flashing your arse to an old perv online at 17 doesn't seem so terrible. https://jobs.army.mod.uk/how-to-join/can-i-apply/age/

Yet having sexual images of an under 18 yr old is illegal, joining the army is not. There lies the difference.

Lalgarh · 12/07/2023 09:44

Here's a theory, courtesy of a user on Another Board (JTT) on how this might have started.

Presenter and young person (YP) hook up online with YP claiming to be 18+.
‘Racy’ materials exchanged. YP then confesses to being U18 and threatens to go public unless cash is paid.
Presenter pays up £35k over three years. YP’s drug habit worsens, asks for more money, Presenter says “No”.
YP tells parents who go to the BBC with tale of exploitation.
Presenter gives account to BBC which amounts to a victim of sextortion defence. BBC now ???

fromdownwest · 12/07/2023 09:45

I have a genuine question.

If you were to find picutres of a married man, naked , 3 times the age of your 17 year old daughter on her phone, would you just shrug it off?

It is not illegal, so just crack on with your day?

LaffTaff · 12/07/2023 09:46

AuntieJune · 12/07/2023 09:37

Meanwhile we're not talking about George Osborne allegedly shagging teenagers while his now wife was pregnant.

Or Boris Johnson failing to comply with a court order to turn over his phone with all his pandemic whatsapps - which almost certainly show a cavalier attitude to the needless mass death of citizens.

Newspapers must have a storecupboard full of sex scandals like these they're sitting on until one of their mates needs the papers to be full of speculation about something else for a while.

Meanwhile we're not talking about George Osborne allegedly shagging teenagers while his now wife was pregnant.

Except you are. Along with several others who're repeatedly mentioning it. And on the basis of nothing more than an anonymous email!
So, just to be clear... incredibly damaging accusations, that are entirely baseless, are fine - so long as you dislike the person in question? And all the while, claiming the moral high ground?

Whatonearth2021 · 12/07/2023 09:46

Blossomtoes · 12/07/2023 09:34

Excellent summary @Whatonearth2021. You forgot the statement via lawyers from the first alleged victim saying the allegations their parents made are rubbish.

Yes I remembered that after! And then equally there are questions around how the young person retained the lawyer etc. However I would like someone with legal expertise to say if such an unequivocal denial would be published if the law firm in question didn’t believe it to be true.

Lalgarh · 12/07/2023 09:47

Incidentally, you might have noticed the media carefully not gendering the Young Person now.

The representative from Hacked Off on the radio this morning was referring to the 1st person as a He/him

conkerspider · 12/07/2023 09:48

Meadowfly · 11/07/2023 23:45

Yes, miss poldark, it sounds grim and tacky but not horrific. Went to the police - who said there was no crime, so went to the sun, because of course that’s how you protect your child 🤔

Agree

IAmSalmaFuckingHayek · 12/07/2023 09:48

Time and time again men get away with behaving badly, people make excuses for them over and over again.
My personal stance is to be a conscientious objector. I have no interest in propping up any organisation that covers up this behaviour.

fromdownwest · 12/07/2023 09:48

LaffTaff · 12/07/2023 09:46

Meanwhile we're not talking about George Osborne allegedly shagging teenagers while his now wife was pregnant.

Except you are. Along with several others who're repeatedly mentioning it. And on the basis of nothing more than an anonymous email!
So, just to be clear... incredibly damaging accusations, that are entirely baseless, are fine - so long as you dislike the person in question? And all the while, claiming the moral high ground?

Tories -Bad
BBC - Good

Put in simple terms.

The George Osborne comparison is pathetic, on that basis, can we not hold public figures to account, because someone else has done something bad?

StefanosHill · 12/07/2023 09:49

fromdownwest · 12/07/2023 09:48

Tories -Bad
BBC - Good

Put in simple terms.

The George Osborne comparison is pathetic, on that basis, can we not hold public figures to account, because someone else has done something bad?

Not if they’re the BBC

Juanmartinez · 12/07/2023 09:49

Whatonearth2021 · 12/07/2023 09:46

Yes I remembered that after! And then equally there are questions around how the young person retained the lawyer etc. However I would like someone with legal expertise to say if such an unequivocal denial would be published if the law firm in question didn’t believe it to be true.

Weren't the lawyers just quoting what the young person had said ? So they weren't actually stating a fact, just repeating what they'd been told.

Endlesssummerof76 · 12/07/2023 09:50

Plenty more to come that's for sure..............

IAmSalmaFuckingHayek · 12/07/2023 09:51

Lalgarh · 12/07/2023 09:44

Here's a theory, courtesy of a user on Another Board (JTT) on how this might have started.

Presenter and young person (YP) hook up online with YP claiming to be 18+.
‘Racy’ materials exchanged. YP then confesses to being U18 and threatens to go public unless cash is paid.
Presenter pays up £35k over three years. YP’s drug habit worsens, asks for more money, Presenter says “No”.
YP tells parents who go to the BBC with tale of exploitation.
Presenter gives account to BBC which amounts to a victim of sextortion defence. BBC now ???

It’s never the man’s fault is it?
Always with these scenarios to take the blame away from a disgusting man, yet again, who prioritises his dick above decent behaviour.

Aaron95 · 12/07/2023 09:51

AlwaysWantingIceLollies · 12/07/2023 09:29

Well I'm ever so pleased that I haven't paid my TV license in a number of years. Its absolutely disgraceful that the BBC didn't take this seriously in the beginning and for people to say, "the police have said no crime was committed" unfortunately who trusts the police these days? I certainly don't.

When you say the BBC didn;t take it seriously, what do you think they could have done differently? Someone walked into their office and made a complaint. They then passed it to the relevant people to investigate who then tried to contact the complainant twice. They got no response. On that basis what do you think they should have done differently? Hired a PI to track down the complainant?

An organisation of that size is going to get all sorts of bonkers complaints and messages every single day.

MrsRobinsonsHandprints · 12/07/2023 09:53

Sweetashunni · 12/07/2023 09:07

And you seem unable to grasp they’re not children! I know saying ‘children’ heightens the drama and makes it all seem much more disturbing, but it simply isn’t true. Do we let children leave home and set up by themselves? Buy a scratch card or lottery ticket? Learn to drive? No, because 17 year olds aren’t children. Uncomfortably young yes, but not children.

17 years olds are considered too young to buy a scratch card or lottery ticket, or a tattoo or alcohol for that matter. Also too young for benefits, especially housing benefit which doesn't become available until 25. Also too young for prision and too young to share sexual images
Also by law have to be in education.

So no 17 year olds are not classed as adults.

IClaudine · 12/07/2023 09:54

What the presenter did if true was really predatory and creepy and they need to lose their job. The issue of whether anything illegal happened needs to be settled. The young people involved need to be supported and protected from the predatory gutter press.

I use the word predatory advisedly as that is how the Scum are behaving now. The hounding of this person and the press exploitation of young people is now disgusting. Leave the police and BBC to do their job. If we all stop commenting and speculating online the story will die down and the proper organisations can be left to establish the facts. I am going to stop commenting now.

MrsRobinsonsHandprints · 12/07/2023 09:55

DeliciouslyDecadent · 12/07/2023 09:29

But not where sexual relations are concerned.
Age of consent is 16.

You might find it morally wrong but legally, a 16 year old can have sex with a 60 year old man.

Consenting adults by law.

Not if the person is in a position of trust- definition of position of trust is a little woolly so probably wouldn't cover him but it isn't as clear cut as it being legal just because they are 16.

And images are 18.

Nightlystroll · 12/07/2023 09:55

Catpuss66 · 12/07/2023 02:17

So do we not have to prove guilt in this country? Innocent until proven guilty. You have already decided his guilt knowing nothing. Please lots hope you never do jury service.

😂😂😂 No, I haven't. The person I quoted had said we should know all about it now because they believe it's true. I'm saying the police will investigate and if theres a case to answer, we'll here about it then. (If the police can't find any evidence, we shouldn't hear about it at all.)

It's all salacious gossip in my mind. People love to sound shocked about it all and be only concerned about the people involved. When, in truth, they love the opportunity to gossip.

SirVixofVixHall · 12/07/2023 09:55

TheReverendBeeb · 12/07/2023 08:39

@Meadowfly - do you have a 17 yr old DC? Because I do, and as much as they like to think of themselves as grown up they are really not. And it is absolutely disgusting to think of my DC being approached by a man in late middle age for anything vaguely sexual.

I agree with this. I also feel that the age of consent being 16 muddies the waters and allows people to think that a 16 year old is an adult for sexual purposes. A sixteen year old is still a child, quite possibly still growing. For instance I didn’t start my periods until I was 16. The age of consent was set at 16 because marriage at 16 was legal. Age of consent should be raised to 18 now. Then there wouldn’t be this discrepancy where sex is legal but images illegal.

There is surely an area between illegal and unsavoury where social pressure and censure serves a role to check behaviour that is immoral and repugnant to most people in society. The power imbalance and potential for exploitation in this situation and similar ones, is where strong social disapproval should act as a deterrent. So the “nobody’s business, private matter” attitude means that this behaviour has no consequences . I don’t think sexually exploiting teenagers is acceptable behaviour.
Plbrookes · 12/07/2023 09:56

Blossomtoes · 12/07/2023 09:25

And the numerous MPs who are under investigation for sexual offences. Convenient, isn’t it?

"Convenient" = "I am a conspiracy theorist"

MrsRobinsonsHandprints · 12/07/2023 09:57

LaffTaff · 12/07/2023 09:46

Meanwhile we're not talking about George Osborne allegedly shagging teenagers while his now wife was pregnant.

Except you are. Along with several others who're repeatedly mentioning it. And on the basis of nothing more than an anonymous email!
So, just to be clear... incredibly damaging accusations, that are entirely baseless, are fine - so long as you dislike the person in question? And all the while, claiming the moral high ground?

Yes an anonymous email is obviously more believable and carries more veritas than the Sun.

fromdownwest · 12/07/2023 09:57

Aaron95 · 12/07/2023 09:51

When you say the BBC didn;t take it seriously, what do you think they could have done differently? Someone walked into their office and made a complaint. They then passed it to the relevant people to investigate who then tried to contact the complainant twice. They got no response. On that basis what do you think they should have done differently? Hired a PI to track down the complainant?

An organisation of that size is going to get all sorts of bonkers complaints and messages every single day.

OK, so a pulblic funded body, with a dark history of child explotation should have more robust procedures in place, no excuses.

Complaint made on the 18th May via a 29 minute call.
Reviwed the call the next day and the BBC audience services term deeemed it 'very srious'

3 WEEKS later, they attempt on call on the mobile and send an email, no reply, so end there.

Then when the Scum picks it up, they re look into it.

I find it very disturbing, that the possible explotation of a child, and their parents concerns are badged as ' bonkers complaints'.

The BBC has done this time after time, closed ranks, and protected its 'stars'. Saville did his thing for decades, with jokes about his actions on BBC TV being made.

askmenow · 12/07/2023 09:57

twelly · 11/07/2023 23:56

I think the presenter has the right to anominity, we all have a right to privacy, we the public do not know the full facts, and I'm not sure whether I think we have a right to know the full details anyway.

We, THE PUBLIC, pay his f....king wages >£400k p/a !!!

A TV Tax thats forced upon us pays his wages.

We have a right to know if he's prepositioning under 18's for sexual photos online. That's a criminal act.

I'm thoroughly fed up of these entitled people thinking they're above us all and the defenders of these miscreants on here. If you're in the public eye, you're open to scrutiny. And I am a previous employees of the BBC.
So its 4 now....clearly I'm not keeping up.

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