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Paris Mayo convicted of murder (TW)

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Whitakers · 27/06/2023 06:55

NB v distressing content

https://amp.theguardian.com/uk-news/2023/jun/23/teenager-guilty-baby-herefordshire-hide-pregnancy-paris-mayo

The jury was asked to consider an alternative verdict of infanticide but found her guilty of murder. I’m surprised by this- surprised she wasn’t just charged with infanticide in the first place, to be honest. It’s a terrible case.

Teenager guilty of murdering baby in Herefordshire to hide pregnancy | UK news | The Guardian

Paris Mayo, now 19, violently assaulted newborn in 2019 to stop family finding out about the birth

https://amp.theguardian.com/uk-news/2023/jun/23/teenager-guilty-baby-herefordshire-hide-pregnancy-paris-mayo

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AllOfThemWitches · 27/06/2023 08:48

Yes but she wasn't psychotic why have you decided she was?

Because this poster can't handle the idea that a girl/woman can do something evil while in their right mind.

x2boys · 27/06/2023 08:48

AP5Diva · 27/06/2023 08:46

Sorry, but delusions are one of the top 3 symptoms of psychosis
”But in general, 3 main symptoms are associated with a psychotic episode:

hallucinations
delusions
confused and disturbed thoughts” - NHS

And they are subtle because as in this case, Mayo’s delusions are being called lying. People are missing the obvious.

Now you are fabricating ,you have decided she must have been psychotic when she did this despite no evidence to.the contrary

Chocolateship · 27/06/2023 08:49

thecatsthecats · 27/06/2023 08:44

She did murder the baby, and horribly, and for that she needs to face the consequences.

I am quite surprised by the judges remarks about her having people to turn to who would have supported her though.

When I was 15, I think my parents would have supported me. But I absolutely would not have thought that they would have. She says she slept around at 13 to feel good about herself - I don't think that correlates with a girl with the sort of homelife where you think your parents would support you with birth/abortion etc. And her (step?)father was dying too.

I just think it's an odd conclusion to draw that her family would have seemed an obvious form of support to her from the limited information out there.

We obviously weren't subject to all of the detail (rightly), but things like saying she left the bin bag on the front doorstep for her to mum to find as she knew she would suggests she knew her mum would be a support of sorts. She wasn't scared and hid the body as is usually the case, she also brazenly asked her brother to take the bag out and claimed it was full of sick; again, there would be every chance he would find poor Stanley and this was in the immediate aftermath. You could argue this wasn't the actions of someone sane, or you could say it wasn't the actions of someone so terrified of their family's reaction that they had to conceal and hide this child.

AP5Diva · 27/06/2023 08:49

BMW6 · 27/06/2023 08:43

If the killer had been the 15 year old FATHER of the baby would he get the same sympathy from some on here?

FlippyFloppyFlappy?
AP5Diva?
Whitakers?

Well fathers can’t get psychosis from being pregnant/in childbirth, so no.

x2boys · 27/06/2023 08:50

AP5Diva · 27/06/2023 08:48

I think it likely she was based on the evidence I’ve seen.

No.it isn't you have just decided she was .

AllOfThemWitches · 27/06/2023 08:50

Jfc even the murderer hasn't tried to claim psychosis.

AgathaSpencerGregson · 27/06/2023 08:51

AP5Diva · 27/06/2023 08:06

Although she gave birth in the front room, I completely agree with you OP.
There will be no sort of manslaughter defence like infanticide available to girls or women if this conviction stands. It’s unfair. It’s too harsh a punishment.

This man got 5yrs for violently killing his wife because she said “get over it” when he said he was finding lockdown hard.
https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2021/feb/18/anthony-williams-killed-wife-act-of-great-violence-jailed-for-five-years

Yet a CHILD to you for sex gets 12yrs because they found pregnancy and childbirth hard and traumatic?! Something which is well known to psychologists and psychiatrists to be one of the most stressful time of a woman’s life- much less an underage child.

It is emphatically not true that this case means infanticide will no longer be available as an alternative verdict in cases where a mother kills a newborn. Please, don’t spread disinformation.

x2boys · 27/06/2023 08:51

AP5Diva · 27/06/2023 08:49

Well fathers can’t get psychosis from being pregnant/in childbirth, so no.

Again there was no evidence she wss psychotic other than you stating she must of been.

Vitaminbees · 27/06/2023 08:51

So conflicted about this. She’s a similar age to my dd who would probably think and say that we, her parents wouldn’t support her even though we would.
Id like to think she would never do something like that but who knows what a terrified and irrational teenage brain is capable of in times of extreme stress.

But the fact she did 2 different violent things to kill him and he would have died a horrible death-the jury will have their reasons for delivering that verdict. I’m sure it wasn’t easy.

AP5Diva · 27/06/2023 08:53

x2boys · 27/06/2023 08:48

Now you are fabricating ,you have decided she must have been psychotic when she did this despite no evidence to.the contrary

Here’s the link showing delusions are part of psychosis. I’m not fabricating.
https://www.nhs.uk/mental-health/conditions/psychosis/symptoms/

nhs.uk

Symptoms - Psychosis

Someone who develops psychosis will have their own unique set of symptoms and experiences, according to their particular circumstances.

https://www.nhs.uk/mental-health/conditions/psychosis/symptoms/

AP5Diva · 27/06/2023 08:54

x2boys · 27/06/2023 08:51

Again there was no evidence she wss psychotic other than you stating she must of been.

Yes there is. I have listed the evidence-—

pregnancy denial- delusion.
psychiatrist noted false memories- trauma plus delusion

These are common in women who develop psychosis during pregnancy

ApplesInTheSunshine · 27/06/2023 08:55

I can’t believe anyone could find any sympathy for her.

She should be locked away for life. That punishment isn’t harsh enough.

AP5Diva · 27/06/2023 08:55

AgathaSpencerGregson · 27/06/2023 08:51

It is emphatically not true that this case means infanticide will no longer be available as an alternative verdict in cases where a mother kills a newborn. Please, don’t spread disinformation.

How do you know? You cannot know the future. It is quite possible given the miscarriage of justice that has occurred with Mayo.

Chocolateship · 27/06/2023 08:56

AP5Diva · 27/06/2023 08:54

Yes there is. I have listed the evidence-—

pregnancy denial- delusion.
psychiatrist noted false memories- trauma plus delusion

These are common in women who develop psychosis during pregnancy

Being in denial isn't the same as delusion.

Chocolateship · 27/06/2023 08:57

AP5Diva · 27/06/2023 08:55

How do you know? You cannot know the future. It is quite possible given the miscarriage of justice that has occurred with Mayo.

I actually disagree, I think there's far more risk of it being taken off the table for future cases if its applied where it shouldn't be.

ThisIsACoolUserName · 27/06/2023 08:57

BMW6 · 27/06/2023 08:43

If the killer had been the 15 year old FATHER of the baby would he get the same sympathy from some on here?

FlippyFloppyFlappy?
AP5Diva?
Whitakers?

No. I'd consider a boy/man doing this to be much more calculated in their actions because, let's face it, boys and men can simply walk away from any babies they don't want.

x2boys · 27/06/2023 08:57

AP5Diva · 27/06/2023 08:53

Here’s the link showing delusions are part of psychosis. I’m not fabricating.
https://www.nhs.uk/mental-health/conditions/psychosis/symptoms/

I don't need links thanks im.well aware of what psychosis is and im well.aware new mothers can develop.post partum psychosis
However there is no.evidence that she was psychotic other than you deciding she must have been .

AgathaSpencerGregson · 27/06/2023 08:59

AP5Diva · 27/06/2023 08:55

How do you know? You cannot know the future. It is quite possible given the miscarriage of justice that has occurred with Mayo.

I know because this verdict hasn’t changed the law. The infanticide legislation remains and will until parliament repeals it. Juries do not make law.
I will give you this much credit; I think your ignorance is genuine. But disinformation is damaging whether the person spread it is doing so deliberately or not. Please do stop. It helps no one.

AP5Diva · 27/06/2023 08:59

Chocolateship · 27/06/2023 08:56

Being in denial isn't the same as delusion.

But pregnancy denial is a specific, and well documented delusion.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Denial_of_pregnancy

Denial of pregnancy - Wikipedia

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Denial_of_pregnancy

x2boys · 27/06/2023 08:59

AP5Diva · 27/06/2023 08:54

Yes there is. I have listed the evidence-—

pregnancy denial- delusion.
psychiatrist noted false memories- trauma plus delusion

These are common in women who develop psychosis during pregnancy

Being in denial.about a pregnancy doesn't make it a delusion .

AP5Diva · 27/06/2023 09:00

x2boys · 27/06/2023 08:57

I don't need links thanks im.well aware of what psychosis is and im well.aware new mothers can develop.post partum psychosis
However there is no.evidence that she was psychotic other than you deciding she must have been .

There is evidence. I disagree. I have pointed out the evidence you just can’t see it. You’re not even acknowledging that psychosis can emerge during pregnancy. It’s not always post partum.

AP5Diva · 27/06/2023 09:01

x2boys · 27/06/2023 08:59

Being in denial.about a pregnancy doesn't make it a delusion .

It can be and Mayo exhibited many of the symptoms of pregnancy denial- the well documented delusion that is a type of psychosis that affects most especially pregnant young teens.

Toddlerteaplease · 27/06/2023 09:02

ApplesInTheSunshine · 27/06/2023 08:55

I can’t believe anyone could find any sympathy for her.

She should be locked away for life. That punishment isn’t harsh enough.

I completely agree. She knew what she was doing.

ButterCrackers · 27/06/2023 09:02

How terrible to murder her baby. I hope that she won’t have any more kids in the future. She needs to be kept away from children for ever.

Chocolateship · 27/06/2023 09:03

AP5Diva · 27/06/2023 08:59

But pregnancy denial is a specific, and well documented delusion.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Denial_of_pregnancy

In certain cases yes. I know you're really keen to push your agenda here but it's doing a disservice to those who genuinely suffer with this to suggest that someone who says they didn't know for sure because they didn't take a test was in the same frame of mind as someone genuinely suffering with it. Even PM herself isn't claiming to have been.

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