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If you earn over £100k

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polonnnn · 17/06/2023 17:37

What do you do? How long have you been doing it? What qualifications do you have/how did you get into it?

Working in the NHS and considering leaving to peruse a career with higher earning potential.

OP posts:
Stripedbag101 · 18/06/2023 00:30

MrsSkylerWhite · 18/06/2023 00:26

Striped bag

Why have you taken a very straightforward question, what career can I look into to command a higher salary with less stress and tried to turn it into a male versus female issue (and been very rude to people who answered that question in good faith along the way).
You’ve completely hijacked this thread with your agenda.

I suppose I continued a conversation from above where a number of people commented on how people were quoting their husbands experiences and not there own:

i have clealry got caught up in a conversation and I will be honest I got passionate.

I am sorry if I have have been rude - I should not have been. I will bow out now.

musixa · 18/06/2023 00:33

MrsSkylerWhite · 18/06/2023 00:26

Striped bag

Why have you taken a very straightforward question, what career can I look into to command a higher salary with less stress and tried to turn it into a male versus female issue (and been very rude to people who answered that question in good faith along the way).
You’ve completely hijacked this thread with your agenda.

No, she hasn't. The question was, what do you do. You - the person replying - the one who has actual experience.

There's no point in people responding with what their OH/uncle/nephew/line manager/company CEO/Member of Parliament/King Charles III/Elon Musk earns. If we are going down that line, the OP might as well simply have googled a list of careers with an earning potential of over £100k

musixa · 18/06/2023 00:35

Stripedbag101 · 18/06/2023 00:30

I suppose I continued a conversation from above where a number of people commented on how people were quoting their husbands experiences and not there own:

i have clealry got caught up in a conversation and I will be honest I got passionate.

I am sorry if I have have been rude - I should not have been. I will bow out now.

You've been perfectly reasonable, Striped.

Interested in this thread?

Then you might like threads about this subject:

MrsSkylerWhite · 18/06/2023 00:44

Stripedbag101 · Today 00:30
MrsSkylerWhite · Today 00:26

Striped bag

Why have you taken a very straightforward question, what career can I look into to command a higher salary with less stress and tried to turn it into a male versus female issue (and been very rude to people who answered that question in good faith along the way).
You’ve completely hijacked this thread with your agenda.
I suppose I continued a conversation from above where a number of people commented on how people were quoting their husbands experiences and not there own:

i have clealry got caught up in a conversation and I will be honest I got passionate.

I am sorry if I have have been rude - I should not have been. I will bow out now.”

I’m sorry too. I feel passionate on behalf of my husband because he really is one of the - very few - good guys. He gave up a private sector role where had he continued we would have been sitting pretty for the rest of our lives because he is one of those very few people that really does believe in the greater good. Tbh, it still pisses me off a bit which is probably why I responded so angrily.

He has helped so many thousands of people with his knowledge and expertise. He’s secured their pensions. None of them know it because he’s a faceless and nameless public sector worker and yes I am incredibly proud of him. I wish I was so honourable.

EbonyRaven · 18/06/2023 00:45

Actress.

musixa · 18/06/2023 00:46

I wish I was so honourable.

What is stopping you from being equally honourable?

Dorrmouse · 18/06/2023 00:49

If your motivation is money, it seems to mostly be in finance, cyber security (still a new industry), legislation and some HR functions. It's certainly not in professions like some areas of healthcare, medicine (with some private practice exceptions), education and other predominantly female dominated professions that contribute directly to the wellbeing of humanity...

MrsSkylerWhite · 18/06/2023 00:50

musixa · Today 00:46
I wish I was so honourable.

What is stopping you from being equally honourable?

I feel sorry for you.

musixa · 18/06/2023 00:52

MrsSkylerWhite · 18/06/2023 00:50

musixa · Today 00:46
I wish I was so honourable.

What is stopping you from being equally honourable?

I feel sorry for you.

Why?

MrsSkylerWhite · 18/06/2023 00:54

Because you can’t seem to acknowledge that some people are just good.

musixa · 18/06/2023 00:57

What? How is asking what's stopping you being as 'honourable' as your husband not acknowledging that some people are 'just good'?

MummyFliesAeroplanes · 18/06/2023 01:03

£120k part-time (I work 75%)
Airline Captain
25 years of experience
However the training costs £100k

musixa · 18/06/2023 01:07

MummyFliesAeroplanes · 18/06/2023 01:03

£120k part-time (I work 75%)
Airline Captain
25 years of experience
However the training costs £100k

Very stressful job, I should think!

wankerseverywhere · 18/06/2023 01:07

In-house Corporate paralegal (in the US). Also ICSA qualified in the UK. I work approx. 35 hours a week.

wankerseverywhere · 18/06/2023 01:08

Forgot to say, around 17 year's experience.

tobee · 18/06/2023 01:29

MummyFliesAeroplanes · 18/06/2023 01:03

£120k part-time (I work 75%)
Airline Captain
25 years of experience
However the training costs £100k

Why does the training cost that amount?

Restee · 18/06/2023 01:41

@musixa ahem, a man entered the discussion; pray, show some deference while he explains the numerical stuff to us, please!

musixa · 18/06/2023 01:51

Restee · 18/06/2023 01:41

@musixa ahem, a man entered the discussion; pray, show some deference while he explains the numerical stuff to us, please!

😁

BasicDad · 18/06/2023 01:57

Executive in tech consulting. I know 100s of women that are over £100k and way beyond.

Consulting (management, tech, tax/finance) has probably the biggest concentration of high women earners.

blueshoes · 18/06/2023 02:29

MrsSkylerWhite I am a little bored of hearing about how wonderful and high earning your husband is. Can we all agree he is a god and you a goddess for bagging him. Well done both of you and all that.

Namechanger355 · 18/06/2023 02:32

blueshoes · 18/06/2023 02:29

MrsSkylerWhite I am a little bored of hearing about how wonderful and high earning your husband is. Can we all agree he is a god and you a goddess for bagging him. Well done both of you and all that.

I agree @MrsSkylerWhite please talk about how wonderful you are rather than your DH - your posts come across as very OtT

DuvetCoverNightmare · 18/06/2023 07:10

I earned just under that as middle management in the construction industry. Doing a ‘back room’ job as such that a lot of people don’t understand.

Took me 13 years to do it. No qualifications except reasonable A levels.

FawnFrenchieMum · 18/06/2023 07:23

Stripedbag101 · 17/06/2023 22:52

It’s nothing to do with hating men or rich husbands.

it’s about wanting to hear real experiences from women succeed in what is still a male dominated workplace. Not from women who watch their husbands succeed in a system which is already set up to benefit them.

of course women can do the roles the husbands do. But it is harder to get there. Fewer women get there. We are treated differently once we do get there. I am the only female director - five others all male. My experience is different to theirs.

I don’t hate my male colleagues - some are amazing, some have become life long friends. But I know it will be harder for me to make the next step. And I don’t have their inbuilt confidence and contacts (and old school friends) - and I don’t play golf (yes it’s still a thing!!!).

a lot of the comments are I assume from
women who haven’t sat in the boardroom as the only female.

women only make up 25% of higher tax rate payers in the uk. That proportion gets smaller above £100k.

I guess I’m very lucky that my current and last company have been female heavy on the board.
Last company at one point was all female except one (financial services), was more 50/50 by the time I moved on.
Todays company has gone the other way, was male heavy when I joined, now 50/50 split (small household electricals).
I do have to say that prior to these two that company was definitely still uses ‘the old boys club’ for recruitment.

Coldandhotandcold · 18/06/2023 07:59

I’ll add to my original comment, I am the only woman in my role in my company. The men all have wives who either don’t worK or work part time.

it’s definitely rare for a woman to reach my role.

7Worfs · 18/06/2023 08:31

musixa · 17/06/2023 23:50

Place-marking to analyse posts forensically, in a paranoid attempt to work out whether the high earners are more or less intelligent than I am.

This is a very good point worth discussing further.
Certain types of intelligence are very helpful and can make it easy reaching a certain level, but that alone can’t carry you to the top.
I thought a lot about that, as I was trying to figure out why I won’t reach my potential.

The foundational attributes to success I think are:

  • Entry level - hard work, initiative, “hunger”
  • Junior-mid - relationships and political savvy, confidence (but not perceived as arrogance - a precarious thin line for women), ambition/grit/dogged determination to climb the ladder. Intelligence and/or hard work very helpful
  • Mid-senior - without hard work and strong relationships, this is where only relying on intelligence maxes out
  • Senior and C-level - no idea, I’m in the previous group - I am not great at the savvy relationships and I am not willing to work hard 😞