A friend got me thinking, we had a day out and she said for the first time in ages she hadn’t passed judgement in her head on anyone at all that day. I was surprised at how often she judges people (and definitely a trait she’s got from her mother and trying to do it less).
Today in a playpark my toddler said no to me (in toddler fashion) and another mum raised her eyebrows at me.
I honestly don’t really think about other people and what they are doing or not doing. Very occasionally I have passed judgement in my head but normally when someone is doing some thing really unsafe or being rude / obnoxious. I think I’m more happy go lucky in my personality.
How often do you judge other people? If this more common than I think? Doesn’t it take up a lot of mental space?