What is the physical attribute that makes you go weak at the knees despite all evidence to the contrary?

[Corianderparsley]

Height for me. Over 6ft 2 of man and, although I can objectively see that I don't particularly find him attractive, the height just does something for me. It's a terrible weakness.

Henry Cavill is very nice especially since he has the nerdy element and can build his own computer (I think). Doesn’t get better than that! 🤣

I also love Tom Hardy in Taboo

Big ol’ pointy nose. DP’s is perfect. He hates it. I adore it. Also forearms, ideally fairly slender (or at least not really muscly) but toned and slightly veiny and with a light smattering of blonde or ginger hair. Phwoar. And eyes that go crinkly when they smile.

Tall, not too ripped or skinny. Strong arms and hands, broad chest, hairy chest and stomach, neat beard, kind eyes.

Slim physique but visibly well-toned, average height, hair either long and straight or close-cropped, tattoos and piercings in moderation, motor oil under fingernails optional!

Hmm, I’ve basically just described dh

I don't think i've ever listed after a nose!

lusted!

Big nose/broken nose

Also a deep voice

I can find someone sexy just for their voice

Bushy eyebrows , chunky forearms , hairy pits

Hair (on their head!). I’m in my 50s and so many men have that shaved head thing going on and I can’t stand it. I know it’s because they are probably going bald but I just can’t stand to see someone’s skull. It actually makes me queasy.

So I would take a less than average man with hair over someone objectively more attractive but with a shaved head.

A tall man, not overweight, wearing a well fitting suit and a good aftershave. 🤤

Hahaha!

Lots of people going for the dark hair blue eyes combo I see but I was here first

Tall, broad, beefy, dark hair and light eyes. Hairy muscly forearms. Someone mentioned a fisherman's jumper upthread, I'd add a kilt and boots. And a beard 😍

Love how these are all so different! For me… big and tall with a twinkle in his eye

Nice hands and sexy blue eyes get me every time!

Roman nose is a must, so you can keep Henry Cavill, much too near the button end of the nose spectrum for me.

Does voice count?

6ft plus and big arms

Do you have a celebrity example? I can’t picture that at all!

Doesn't Ricky Gervais have backward slanting teeth?

over 6 ft with nice shoulders, smiley eyes and preferably wearing a kilt and boots. The scottish accent is just a bonus

Arms with sleeves rolled up. Hairy men. Kind eyes with crinkly edges. Big shoulders. Actually a big frame, I like a bigger man. Beard. Ability to reverse.

Watery blue eyes like Aidan Quinn in Legends of the Fall

Dark hair, dark gentle, kind eyes. Basically been in love with Keanu Reeves for 25 years 😍