What is the physical attribute that makes you go weak at the knees despite all evidence to the contrary?

[Corianderparsley]

Height for me. Over 6ft 2 of man and, although I can objectively see that I don't particularly find him attractive, the height just does something for me. It's a terrible weakness.

I’m genuinely astonished at the number of people saying visible veins give them the fanny gallops - just the thought of wormy, bulging veins on a bloke’s hands and forearms makes me gip. Even worse is the thought of ‘a big neck with thick veins like ropes’ - I’ve never forgotten a mate at college telling me that was her favourite thing. All it makes me think of is 1) a gurning, straining, arse-prolapsing weightlifter and, 2) how horrible it would be if one of the big bulgy veins suddenly burst 🤮.

Anyhow, sorry for the interruption. As you were …

@Jonnycakes me too...

A lopsided smile (this appears to be genetic...)

long slender fingers

pointy features

The weight of their wallet

The underside of the upper arms. So say they're sat with their hands behind their neck, wearing a short-sleeved t-shirt and you see their toned triceps (maybe?). Well, yes, that. <fans self>

Bulging muscles are a no, but nicely toned? Oh yes. I wonder if it's something to do with it being a confident, relaxed pose, plus a burst of armpit pheromones??

I find guys my height attractive. Genuinely go weak at the knees for anyone between 5’5 and 5’8. No ideas if this stems from a decades long obsession with Tom Cruise….

A nice little bum.

A lopsided smile

A big yes to this.

I mentioned starting the series casually to dh, he couldn’t get into it. Now I’m trying to play it cool while saying I’m really enjoying it and going to carry on watching 😂

Combo of height & build; tall & broad but not big muscles. Not interest in tall skinny men or shorter broader men.

@bomanicious me too! Like David Bowie?

Calves like Jack Grealish, strong forearms, big hands

Also white eyebrows.

Surely unless you're casting the net for pensioners this is quite niche?

Oh & they can have the build & the height but unless the face is nice it's a no. I'm a bit fussy!

Short beards/stubble (Prince Harry having a beard took him from 3/10 to a 7 in my opinion...)
On that note I'm occasionally turned by a ginger..
But yes, stubble.. mousy hair not too short, brown eyes.. 5'10 or above ideal but not a deal breaker.. some hair, something about a hairy chest does it for me.. ok I'm going off on a tangent 😂

Lots of vein love which I didn't know was a thing 😆

Italian looking guys, like young Al Pacino. One look and I'm drooling ))

Tall, skinny, big nose. Since I was a teenager. Large hands are a plus.

Big noses, for example ones like Adrian Brody and
Adam Driver.....

This thread is a treat to read. 😁
Long legs, specifically if the legs are looking in proportion to the rest of them, so it's not height, they could be average height as long as they're all legs. 😍
If they look like they could throw you against the wall as soon as look at you but are gentle of mannerism so you know they wouldn't unless I begged it's something to do with power+restraint

For me it is the typical tall dark handsome man but also the intelligent looking type rather than traditional sporty type! So tall, dark, handsome, fit and slightly nerdy looking?

Yes, I agree with young al Pacino.
Also, I find voices very appealing, such as I find Tom Hanks voice kinda homely and sexy but also Alan Rickman's voice always did it for me.....oh so cool and sexy.

Height, definitely like a tall man
Red hair is another fondness
Broad shoulders
Strong nose

Henry Cavill in The Witcher is absolutely a 10/10 🤤🤤 Goddammit, he is FINE !

A beautiful voice. It could be deep. It could be just calm, measured tones. Thinking Alan Rickman, Captain Jean Luc Picard.

Henry Cavill is a 🤤. Tall, broad & so pretty!