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Hit neighbours car and drove off

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Lavenderleopard · 15/05/2023 21:29

Yes I know I'm a idiot, I just need someone who isn't my husband to talk this through with.
So this evening as I reversed out my drive the back of my car made contact with my neighbours car which had been parked across the street. I knew that the cars had touched but really thought it was nothing, no noise when it happened, didn't feel anything in my car, only knew because I saw how close the other car was when I looked in the rearview mirror. As I thought (stupidly) nothing had happened I drove off.
Another neighbour saw what happened and told the neighbour who's car I hit. This neighbour then went round to my house when I was out and spoke to my husband about it. I have had the lecture on how immature I was and "what if it had been a child" from my husband and feel suitably awful. I am planning on going round to apologise in the morning.
How am I best to approach this? I feel like being honest and saying I didn't think I'd done any damage won't go down well. My husband says they weren't angry and don't want any money (their car wasn't damaged) it was a more of a "we're disappointed" sort of thing. My husband has told me I've embarrassed our family in front of the neighbours now and I should be ashamed to show my face for a while. Going to be up all night worrying about this.

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warriorofhopelessness · 28/10/2023 18:06

Why did the neighbours go and talk to your husband if there was no damage?

TheBerry · 16/03/2024 10:08

Oh, just say you didn’t know you’d hit it and you’re very sorry.

If they’re not there, leave a note.

BunniesRUs · 16/03/2024 10:14

You sound stressed and anxious. Lots of us are disorganised or have added, we don't need to beat ourselves up about it, it's not a moral failing! Relax lady, and get some confidence and self esteem - you seem very easily would up by other people. Consider they're the problem not you. Don't waste your time worrying about a non issue.

medianewbie · 16/03/2024 13:28

Isn't this a Zombie thread?
This happened to me too only my neighbour called the Police. They were there speakto my H as I arrived home on foot with kids from school. (now exH)smirked & said: 'I'll leave you to it'. Police were fab & said neighbour 'was known to them'. I never forgot whose side my H automatically took though.

Deathbyfluffy · 16/03/2024 13:29

AppleKatie · 15/05/2023 21:31

Eh? There was no damage? So nothing happened did it?

a neighbour ‘saw’ saw what if there was no damage?

good grief don’t be up all night worrying about people who insist on treating you like a naughty child.

It did happen - they still hit another vehicle and left the scene.
Regardless of damage you go around, own up and inspect the car with them.

I can’t believe people actually think driving off is okay - what a stupid world we live in!

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