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Do you change your clothes when you get home after being on the tube or other public transport?

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Teaandcaaaaake · 01/04/2023 21:39

I never used to need to change clothes to sit on my sofa or whatever until I moved to London years ago. The tube is filthy! Now, it has become automatic habit to me to change into 'house' clothes when I get home - I don't live in London anymore but another large city where I'm on equally grotty public transport to get around. I really don't think this would have become habit if I was going from my home to my own car on a daily basis, instead of public transport.

Am I normal or a weirdo?

OP posts:
MuddlerInLaw · 02/04/2023 18:03

Why on earth wouldn't you get changed.

Quite.

Tinybrother · 02/04/2023 18:15

I would obviously get changed if I sat in something wet

do You have toddlers and babies and are you getting them fully changed/washed as soon as you all get in as well as yourself, regardless of hunger etc? I’m genuinely curious about how this works. I get it if you’re only having to sort yourself out.

JustAnotherManicNameChange · 02/04/2023 18:23

Tinybrother · 02/04/2023 13:02

I don’t think it’s especially weird, and it makes no difference to me what people wear in their homes, but I do wonder at the logistics when I think of my own coming-home-from-work situation. I’ve either collected children from childcare or they want to see me when I get in, bundling everyone upstairs for me to shower and change while they are hungry and/or wanting to tell me about their day, wanting me to see their pictures or read their books, I need to get food for them and/or me, it seems impossible. Is it only people without toddlers or do you somehow factor all this in with your showering and changing the instant you get in?

I don't shower, I just get changed. It literally takes less than 5 minutes . If DD couldn't entertain herself for that long she just chattered at me in the same room while I did it. When she got older she'd get changed too at the same time from school uniform. Sometimes still chattering at me.Grin

Then just get on with things like everyone does. I shower at night or in the morning before getting dressed for work. It's not exactly rocket science.

Tinybrother · 02/04/2023 18:41

JustAnotherManicNameChange · 02/04/2023 18:23

I don't shower, I just get changed. It literally takes less than 5 minutes . If DD couldn't entertain herself for that long she just chattered at me in the same room while I did it. When she got older she'd get changed too at the same time from school uniform. Sometimes still chattering at me.Grin

Then just get on with things like everyone does. I shower at night or in the morning before getting dressed for work. It's not exactly rocket science.

Right, so not showering, yes I get that so there’s no need for sarky “rocket science” remarks. I was asking about showering. When she was a toddler did you get her changed immediately too?

Peboh · 02/04/2023 19:02

I get changed usually within the first 10 minutes of getting home. It's nothing to do with being dirty though, I just want to be comfy. And I don't find jeans (my usual outside attire) comfortable for housework, or lounging about.

PinkLemonadee · 02/04/2023 21:16

Hbh17 · 02/04/2023 08:59

Oh FFS, why has the world become so germphobic? A bit of dirt never hurt anyone. Apart from the damage to the environment and awful waste of resources, all this constant changing of clothes etc is clearly for people who don't have enough to do. Time to join the real world!

What is putting different clothes on wasting? 99% of the time the stuff I take off is clean and is hung to wear again. PJs get worn for three or four days, which is as long as I'd wear them anyway. And it literally takes me five minutes or less to change.

TokyoStories · 03/04/2023 12:26

Whoever said ‘a bit of dirt never hurt anyone’ would really benefit from reading up on the mechanisms of infectious diseases.

SisterAgatha · 03/04/2023 13:07

Yea I don’t shower either, I just change in to something that isn’t a work wear ie a suit or tailored dress. Do people really come home from work and spend all evening sitting in a suit. I find that strange and formal for your own house 🤣

SisterAgatha · 03/04/2023 13:11

Motheranddaughtertotwo · 02/04/2023 15:35

As a born and bread Londoner who still lives here I think I am in a position to judge. When I do use it, just blowing my nose I see the dirt I’ve inhaled. Don’t even get my started on the amount of filth that I can’t see.

Also born and bred Londoner. I find it’s cleaned up a bit lately but I do go on the tube less these days. Definitely fewer cars. But I still get changed because it’s not about the dirt for me, its the comfort.

it’s asbestos on the tube by the way so changing clothes is a good idea anyway tbh. I’ll get called a liar as I do everytime I mention this but TFL have a FOI on their asbestos levels.

Tinybrother · 03/04/2023 13:41

SisterAgatha · 03/04/2023 13:07

Yea I don’t shower either, I just change in to something that isn’t a work wear ie a suit or tailored dress. Do people really come home from work and spend all evening sitting in a suit. I find that strange and formal for your own house 🤣

It’s rare that I wear a suit to work but I do change out of formal stuff so it doesn’t get crumpled. It’s still comfortable though, and if supper is ready when I get through the door I might not get changed until later

Arapawa · 05/04/2023 08:48

BlackBarbies · 02/04/2023 00:20

I’m black so yes I do. All my friends and family do it too

What difference does your colour mean to this question?

BlackBarbies · 05/04/2023 08:52

Arapawa · 05/04/2023 08:48

What difference does your colour mean to this question?

All I have to say is I’m black and the immediate answer to this question is yes. The majority of black people have house clothes so if you know then you know

thegrain · 05/04/2023 09:08

BlackBarbies · 05/04/2023 08:52

All I have to say is I’m black and the immediate answer to this question is yes. The majority of black people have house clothes so if you know then you know

Do they?

BlackBarbies · 05/04/2023 09:10

thegrain · 05/04/2023 09:08

Do they?

Yes!

A lot of people within the Asian community do so too. It’s just a culture thing. You don’t sit on your bed wearing outside clothes. Once you get inside you change into house clothes etc

Anycolouryoulike · 05/04/2023 09:17

No and I use public transport to and from work every day.

thegrain · 05/04/2023 09:20

BlackBarbies · 05/04/2023 09:10

Yes!

A lot of people within the Asian community do so too. It’s just a culture thing. You don’t sit on your bed wearing outside clothes. Once you get inside you change into house clothes etc

I do the same and I'm white. I didn't know race came into it.

thegrain · 05/04/2023 09:21

thegrain · 05/04/2023 09:20

I do the same and I'm white. I didn't know race came into it.

Not saying it doesn't. Just didn't know it was a thing.

BlackBarbies · 05/04/2023 09:22

thegrain · 05/04/2023 09:20

I do the same and I'm white. I didn't know race came into it.

I never said white people don’t do anything of the sort. Someone asked what my colour has to do with it and I said I’m black so it’s an automatic yes that I change my clothes once I’m home.

Some white people do the same, some white people don’t. Majority of black people do hence my comment🤷‍♀️ it’s not really that deep

Anycolouryoulike · 05/04/2023 09:23

Do you make your kids change if you have taken them on public transport? All queueing for the shower when you get home?

Tinybrother · 05/04/2023 09:24

Anycolouryoulike · 05/04/2023 09:23

Do you make your kids change if you have taken them on public transport? All queueing for the shower when you get home?

I asked this, but no one answered

Anycolouryoulike · 05/04/2023 09:25

SisterAgatha · 03/04/2023 13:07

Yea I don’t shower either, I just change in to something that isn’t a work wear ie a suit or tailored dress. Do people really come home from work and spend all evening sitting in a suit. I find that strange and formal for your own house 🤣

Not everyone wears formal clothes for work.

thegrain · 05/04/2023 09:25

BlackBarbies · 05/04/2023 09:22

I never said white people don’t do anything of the sort. Someone asked what my colour has to do with it and I said I’m black so it’s an automatic yes that I change my clothes once I’m home.

Some white people do the same, some white people don’t. Majority of black people do hence my comment🤷‍♀️ it’s not really that deep

I know you didn't. I didn't realise that there was a race element. That's all I'm saying.

Tinybrother · 05/04/2023 09:27

Anycolouryoulike · 05/04/2023 09:25

Not everyone wears formal clothes for work.

Even if they do, the fact that you might not change immediately you get in doesn’t mean you then spend the entire evening in your formal stuff. You might just get changed a bit later because you’re not worried about getting work germs on your kitchen chair.

Anycolouryoulike · 05/04/2023 09:31

I sometimes even leave my shoes on for a while. 🤯

Notanothernewname · 05/04/2023 09:36

I change when I get home to get out of my work clothes regardless of public transport or not (unless I'm in jeans). It's also more comfortable sat on the sofa in jeans than a skirt and tights, which the cat would wreck the moment he sat on me.