Does your man like pamper nights?

[Peckhaminn]

My lovely DP just walked in from golf and asked if we can do a pamper night tonight. Face masks, teeth whitening, pedicure and waxing his beard. I think it's really sweet and makes my heart melt. Anyone else's man like this behind closed doors?

Pamper nights not beard waxing though

Obviously I'm aware that there's a middle ground between the two. My point was that everyone is being so needlessly cunty. Why do you need to be a cunt to say "yeah no this isn't for me"?

It's not my cup of tea either but I just don't see the sense in being such a bitch about it.

Some people are like the Borg on Mumsnet. God forbid you are not the same as them and the cunting starts .

I guess he'd be in to pamper night the odd time in the massages, prosecco and hot tub sense. Pedicures and beard waxing? Definitely not.

My DH loves a pedicure, facial, massage, etc. He's great at pampering me too.

Not at all. He'll have a massage if we're at a spa retreat or something but not at home.

I do spa nights with the DDs, pan pipes music and all, they love it. DH take himself off before DD covers him in a face mask and nail polish.

My husband likes hot tubs, massages, steam rooms etc.

He asked for relaxing bubble bath etc for his birthday.

I doubt he'd do a face mask but I don't do face masks either! I also hate people touching my feet!

@LemonInaMug I prefer a man who doesn't disappear every Sunday for the whole day and a half day on a Saturday.

I also prefer a man who doesn't spend a lot of time on his appearance. A daily shower is all I expect.

I don't think that's very picky. I suppose some women like that type of man though, thankfully.

@nurseynursery I've never met a golfer I liked and I've met hundreds. I work in a male dominated sector so I know the usual type.

Agreed. Just for me.

No. I’m not attracted to men who fanny about excessively with their appearance. But each to their own.

• Why do you need to be a cunt to say "yeah no this isn't for me"?

It's not my cup of tea either but I just don't see the sense in being such a bitch about it.* @BreviloquentBastard

If you could point out where I've been either a cunt or a bitch.