My mum died two years ago and this year it's the second anniversary of her sudden death on mothers' day itself. 😬
It's still sometimes hard to believe she's not here but as we were so close I know she wouldn't want us to be sad, so I have tried to reframe mothers' day as a 'celebration' of her life, just in the same way I would have done if she was still here.
If she was here, we'd probably all get together for a big roast, have a few glasses of Prosecco and so we're going to do the same and continue to mark the day as a special occasion. I will probably stay off social media though as I find the many 'my mum is the best mum in the world' posts still a little too close to the bone.
If you had a good relationship with your mum and she's no longer here, what will you be doing?
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Mothers' day if your mum has died
silverycurtains · 16/03/2023 08:01
OriginalUsername2 · 16/03/2023 08:05
MIL died quite horrifically of cancer in our living room on the same day last year. I honestly don’t know what we’ll do. She loved a roast to the extent that my DP might feel guilty having one when she can’t. I don’t know. I think it will be a hard day.
Hoppinggreen · 16/03/2023 09:08
My Mum died 3 weeks ago.
I have told DH I don’t want to go out on Sunday so he said that he and the DC will cook instead.
He is taking his Mum out tomorrow night and did initially get a bit arsey when I said I wasn’t coming. Luckily for all concerned he realised pretty quickly he was being a Dick and apologised profusely
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