I think my husband has blocked me?!

[MyBloodyBrother]

He’s not been responding to WhatsApp messages today but has definitely been reading them. I messaged him again about 30 mins ago and it’s staying on one grey tick and his profile pic has disappeared.

He could be on the train so it could be that he has no signal but that doesn’t explain why his profile pic has gone.

You are worth so much more op, sending a hug

It sounds like you are a very strong woman. I hope you can manage to chill out and get some time to do what you want tonight, even better do nothing at all! And then get some support from your mum tomorrow. He sounds like an absolute arse.

@MyBloodyBrother in the long run you'll end up happy and with more energy. You're wasting so much on this loser.

Awful situation for you op. Could you contact his parents to see what’s going on? At least then you won’t be wondering what’s happened to him and at the same time they’ll realise what a dick he’s being

I could do but I’m not sure what I’d gain from it. If he’s there he’ll have told them he’s staying there because I keep harassing him and not letting him get on with his life or something. If he’s not there then they’ll phone him and he will tell them that too. I get on well with PIL but it’s on a very superficial level and their son can do no wrong as far as they’re concerned.

What an absolute arsehole!! Feel awful for you having to cope with that and not being able to talk to your mum. I bet He will be back in touch in the week with a million sorries! But i really hope your strong enough to tell the dick head where to go! X

Thank you so much. I’m so angry with myself as I was pretty much at that point this time last year but then I fell for it again. I’m feeling pretty numb and humiliated rather than utterly heartbroken like I was the first time though.

Well we found the husband

Oh, go away

What on earth is the point of that post ? No one is perfect, and I haven't seen the OP claim to be. But there is NO excuse for the husbands selfish and cruel behaviour

A few posts back you said you were putting your dc through this - but he is the one putting them through this, and you, and he has left you in a position of having to keep everything ticking on at home. So he's a double sh*thead.

Its good to see you have some anger to help you through it all

Jesus, this place is the pits sometimes.

I have never claimed to be perfect, I’m certainly far from it. I’m not interested in trying convince anyone that what I’ve written is true. If you think I’ve made this thread up for whatever reason just report it. Not sure what you’re trying to achieve with that comment.

Thanks @U1sce. I’m completely furious. More with myself for being such a mug but I’m trying to redirect towards ‘d’h

This marriage hasn’t worked. That’s the point.

And what proof have you got for your conviction? Would that be "absolutely bugger all"? I thought so.

So what you're actually doing is kicking someone when they're down. That's really big of you and typical of the spineless people who hang around sniping on internet forums. Just bugger off and pull the wings of butterflies or whatever you do in your spare time.

Something seems off to me too and it's called your attitude.

@Orchidjoy if you don't believe it, report it. Otherwise bog off

He wasn't on the train.

Just sod off. You have no proof at all. You're calling the OP a liar for no reason other than your supposed fucking spidey senses are tingling.

Maybe have some compassion rather than trying to appear all wordly wise. Have a good look in the mirror while you're looking for that compassion.

Don't be a twat.