@MistyGreenAndBlue @doadeer
I agree that people can have “off” expectations of what a person of a certain age will look like.
I wonder if this has something to do with previous generations looking old before their time though through hard lives, lack of nutrition and high quality public health information
E.g I’m thirties, my mum is 60s and when we look at pictures of my grandmother (mum’s mum) when she was same age as my mum is now, there is no comparison!
My grandmother had a white cauliflower perm, false teeth, oversized varifocals, and very lined skin (moderate smoker for decades) plus clothing that was not well fitting.
Whereas my mum is now that age and has (died) blond hair, thought out clothes and accessories, nails done, makeup, much less wrinkly, own teeth, contact lenses etc.