Things I haven’t said out loud this week

[YorkieTheRabbit]

1 - No, we haven’t asked you to come over for a meal in ages, no, I don’t care how many hints you drop, it’s falling on deaf ears.
I don’t expect you to help prepare or cook when you’re here BUT I do expect you to supervise your kids, not plonk down on the sofa and completely ignore them. Accidents may happen but if you actually looked after them instead of scrolling through your phones, we wouldn’t have had a house plant tipped over the carpet, used toilet roll and wee on the toilet floor, orange juice poured in the dogs bowl plus numerous others. Oh and by the way, we’ve never been invited over to your house in the eight years you’ve lived there!

2 - Im sorry your daughter would rather spend time with her gran but for god’s sake be honest, you spent the first ten years of her life bouncing from one disastrous relationship to another because you were desperate for a bloke. You put them in front of her needs. Her gran might not be perfect but at least she was there for her.

I don’t want to be their mum, I don’t want this situation, you’re all lazy and disrespectful, I can’t live in filth

I wanted to get married

I think she’s lying, the boy who cried wolf….

we should have worked through it, we’d be very happy now

you’ve put on so much weight, and never clean yourself, your laziness gives me the ick

I'm really scared that I am heading for a breakdown, I need your help and I can see that you have no idea how to do that, I wish you could just show me you cared, fight for me

Stop pleading poverty whilst sat there in a pair of Jimmy Choo trainers and a YSL bag.

Since you moved the neighbourhood has been so quiet and peaceful, our new neighbours are lovely.
Since you moved we all use the shared part of the road as it’s supposed to be used , to turn in the road at the head of the cul de sac. You and your many relatives seemed to think it was yours to use as a personal forecourt.

I’m liking this thread… here we go:

No I do not want to have dinner with you. I’m sick of your games and you have been so horrible about me, why are we pretending otherwise?

I don’t want to do this job anymore. It makes me literally sick. I’m fed up with being so ill. You think I don’t notice the notes put onto the system about me and how unempathic people are being? Why should I feel bad when I’m actually the one suffering the most? Why am I even feeling at all guilty for not being able to do the most difficult job ever; no one has a clue. Fuck this.

You think I don’t notice the hot and cold behaviour? I’m only pretending to fall for it so you don’t ramp up the manipulation. You think that I’m stupid. Fuck you.

I hate my hair. It feels and looks like shit. I’m cutting it off and starting over. Why are hairdressers so useless now? But why does the way I look have to matter? I’d rather read a book than worry about it. Life is so boring and shallow.

No I don’t have a social life right now. Am I happy? No not really; what a stupid fucking condescending question. Why do you think it’s your place to evaluate my life? Have you ever tried exercising some empathy or do you only seek to understand so that you can talk about me? Why can’t you be a normal human being. Fuck off!

STOP with the snide comments on how I'm raising my toddler. You haven't a clue- you never tried with her when she was born - she used to scream when you held her - you can't get past the fact that I had a healthy baby girl and you didn't. I'm sorry you've had such a hard life but STOP taking it out on me and my daughter.. sort your self out for everyone's sake.

Stop fucking thinking your girlfriend loves you
shes shagging your husband you thick cow
i know it,his family know it,the whole of work know it-but your that dim,you don’t know it
He didn’t have you arrested-they both did
all your girlfriend has to do,is walk out of his house to be with you-but she chooses to stay
I’m sick of hearing you bellyache on,I gave you advice-which you ignored-so do what the rest of us do and get some work done
you could run the world if you put your moaning energy into actually doing your job

put your kids first-they didn’t ask for mum and dad to break up and for you to start shagging her
and while I’m at it-he’s the kids dad-not a ‘useless,fucking arsehole’
your kids where really upset at you,but you don’t care

girlfriend-stop stringing her along
Stop lying to suit your sex life-choose who you want to be with and just break it off with the other
and do some fucking work,you moaning bitch

dad-grow up
your the biggest fool I’ve ever met
stop shagging your wives girlfriend just to prove a point
pay for your kids instead of being proud of the fact your pissing their money away

all 3 of you-your not going to keep your jobs if you keep screaming at the boss to go home early,bringing every tiny problem for them to sort out ,quit with the moaning-we are all sick of hearing your voices and stop relying on the rest of us to pick up the work you don’t want to do-everyone is getting sick of it

stop with this sick 3way your having,walk away from each other and start thinking about those kids-do some parenting
they are the foulest,rudest,nastiest kids I’ve ever met-and your the ones who have created them

i hope ss step in and take them away-they don’t deserve this mess you’ve dragged them into

Stop telling your mum’s colleagues everything about her. Those are your perspectives.

This is one of the most depressing things I’ve ever read.

I can't believe we paid $430 for an hour just for the psychiatrist to tell you (nicely) to grow up, start addressing your problems with the help provided and essentially sort your shit out.
I mean he's right- you have been given all of the tools and support so....,

Unfortunately I did say things out loud to my boss and slagged off my useless, lazy line manager. The words lazy, bastard and fucking twat were used.

Will you please just shut the fuck up, and take a breath. We have heard the same anecdotes (complete with voices) at least 10 times now. Could you at least ask someone else how they are doing and show an interest in other people, instead of the constant chat about yourself.

I'd quite like a divorce please.

You fucking workshy, lazy git.

Stop trying to get eye contact with me. You are quite clearly coupled.

when someone says ‘how are you?’ I smile and say ‘good, how are you?’
but actually
I don’t feel anything anymore, not happiness not sadness just a type of nothingness.
I wake in the morning thinking okay another day and mark of points of the day to get to until it’s bedtime again.

I have only done about 6 hour's worth of week this week so lets call it £60 for my wages this week.

I get it. You love your car, it cost a shot tonne of money and it goes very fast. Stop revving it for bloody ages every morning. It really is a penis extension isn't it?

I'm sick of walking on eggshells every day at work, not knowing what mood you're gonna be in.
You're aggressive in every way. We all think so.
Yes you are the problem.
Do us a favour and leave, make everyone happy including yourself.

I’m so so lonely 😣

I’m so fucking angry that both my children have decided that they’re moving to Australia. I’m very pleased for you yada yada but DH and I are now going to have to spend our longed-for retirement saving for an annual trip to Oz if we want to see our children and grandchildren instead of holidaying in all the other places we have always wanted to visit. If anything happens to us or them then it’s 24 hours on a plane - not just a few hours which is far more manageable. And no, I don’t particularly want to live there in my old age (although I I can see we might have to) and no, FaceTime is not the same.

@Haventsaidthisoutloud hugs and 💐. Is there anyone you could say it to IRL?

Tell me if I'm being kept on or not . Hurry up and arrange a bloody meeting so I know where I stand!

Been watching the documentary about missing Nicola Bulley. The partner and Friends had said such lovely things about her.

If I went missing I don't think one person would say anything kind at all. How sad is that. Friend probably wouldn't even notice I've gone and partner would be pissed off he had to step up.

Yes, yes! Stop stringing me along while I'm being useful to you, dangling a carrot in front of my face and give me some bloody respect.

Friend, I'm not your PA. I'm not keeping you updated with the DC school stuff. Read the newsletter. I'm not 'collaborating' on picking a school, because you just want me to do the work. And if you need to know something, google it. I don't know the answer.

DB & extended family, please stop telling me & DM how to manage DF's care. When you want to offer to help, great, otherwise piss off.

DM, yes, you are selfish and mean wanting to leave extremely ill DF alone for hours once home, or visiting him twice a week for 30 min in hospital because you don't want to miss even one of your daily social events. But why change now? You've never worked & never spent five minutes looking after or caring for anyone else in your life. Including me.

Very very grateful to have had the open heart surgery to remove the tumor in there on Thursday, but please don't send me home tomorrow (Tuesday) just because I can walk from my bed to the toilet in my room very slowly, and my stats are good now, I haven't walked anywhere else or seen a physio yet and do not feel ready, I'm also still in a fair amount of pain wich was expected I know.