Things I haven’t said out loud this week

[YorkieTheRabbit]

1 - No, we haven’t asked you to come over for a meal in ages, no, I don’t care how many hints you drop, it’s falling on deaf ears.
I don’t expect you to help prepare or cook when you’re here BUT I do expect you to supervise your kids, not plonk down on the sofa and completely ignore them. Accidents may happen but if you actually looked after them instead of scrolling through your phones, we wouldn’t have had a house plant tipped over the carpet, used toilet roll and wee on the toilet floor, orange juice poured in the dogs bowl plus numerous others. Oh and by the way, we’ve never been invited over to your house in the eight years you’ve lived there!

2 - Im sorry your daughter would rather spend time with her gran but for god’s sake be honest, you spent the first ten years of her life bouncing from one disastrous relationship to another because you were desperate for a bloke. You put them in front of her needs. Her gran might not be perfect but at least she was there for her.

For fuck sake just start being a grown adult

I'm sick to death of being your ducking financial fall back because your lack of self control let's you down in every way possible

Your shitty mood because yet again you've been irresponsible and fucking selfish gives me the fucking Ick alongside your absolute tight nature when it comes to paying towards anything other than stuff for yourself.

I can't believe you ever turned out like it and I'm fucking disappointed that yet again I'm left being the only fucking responsible person round here

Enough already

Fuck, I'm so in love with you that when I'm not with you I feel homesick.

Fuck off you bollock!

Ahh better 😌

Fuck off, fuck you, fuck off twice.
Fuck off endlessly then fall down a hole and die you fucking idiotic cunt.
Stop fucking staring at me or I'll fucking end you, you prick.
Touch me again and I'll rip your fucking face off.
I’m generally intolerant of the general public but I've been severely tried this week on top of having a stinking cold.
I may have underlying issues

I didn't call a colleague a Weaselly Fucker and instead just thanked him for his interest and asked him if there was any further information or clarification he required before committing to any of the proposals

I think the therapy you have sought has confirmed your bias that you claim he has narcissistic personality disorder.

. I do not recognise the childhood you claim to have had and you have demonised this person in your own mind with help from the therapist.

Yes he has narcissistic tendencies but he sacrificed his retirement to fund your training/career and moved heaven and earth to put you on track to fulfill your potential and live a very privileged life.

Your claims of mental abuse’ just wow!

I believe your life isn’t turning out as you hoped and you are looking to blame someone other than yourself and life throwing you a bad hand of cards.

Stop being so bloomin introspective and get on with your life like the rest of us - your upbringing could of been so much worse- come on mumsnet and read some very real accounts about childhoods at the hands of narcissistic parents. Your childhood does not even come close- it wasn’t perfect but it wasn’t as you describe
’recollections May differ’

Apart from feeling homesick it must be great to be so in love and I wish you all the happiness in the world.

You are not busy. This is a perfectly normal caseload. You've had a few queries come in - things have not "kicked off massively", get a bloody grip.

@lollipoprainbow
Hopefully you and your daughter find some peace, even if you can't get to acceptance.

The only thing stopping me from punching you is that I'm horrified at the thought of my skin touching yours.

And

Stop fucking walking straight past your team without so much as a nod or smile, it is so fucking rude.

Get up off your arse and do some actual parenting you lazy piece of shit.

By the way I’m making notes of all this because I’m building a case for my sister to be her legal guardian when I die.

She deserves better than your half-arsed efforts.

(The title of this thread reminds me of those WTF notebooks! )

I would like to have told my MIL to stop tittle tattling and quoting from the fucking Daily Mail!

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Feel better?

You've talked for ages about what you would do if it was up to you and I've given you the promotion but you're still just whining about what other people should do. Take some responsibility for yourself, step up and do some fucking work.

Get the hint and stop coming to my house. I know you're my mother but I hate you and don't want you in my space. I only tolerate you because of the children, your grandchildren and if it weren't for them I would have stopped talking to you years ago. One day I hope they see you for who you are.

I wish I could stop thinking about you. It will never happen, you're not available. But, fuck, I wish you were.

Different person.......I'm entitled to feel hurt, stop dismissing my feelings just because you don't understand them. You don't get to decide if my feelings are justified. And......fucking try and understand my point of view..........

Friends who get me for me........
I love and appreciate you all. It takes a lot for me to fully be myself so thank yoi

We’re fine thank you, new team leader who barely talks to us. But people are pissed off that you give your boyfriend preferential treatment. Is that wise given that you’re higher up in the firm than him?

You weren’t here this week, it was so easy without you, no vitriol, no arguments, no pushing of boundaries. Please stay away. Oh and by the way, get your haircut too. You’re 64 and your greasy grey locks do not make you interesting or attractive.

Fuck off out of my shopping space with your trolley! Also get the fuck away from all the yellow ticketed bargains so that someone else actually stands a chance of getting some!

Oh yes this with bells on. My exact thoughts

No, I won't be reinstalling my WhatsApp any time soon, because if I do you will start sending endless photos to me again.
I'm not one bit interested in what films you have watched today/ who has died/what you have had for every meal/any new skin blemish you have noticed
I've asked you countless times to stop messaging me so frequently, and you just won't.

I now have a dual SIM phone. WhatsApp is installed on the other number so I can still interact with family and friends plus anyone else who doesn't drain the life out of me.

Here is an idea.......go get a job. The last time you worked was in the 1980s
The amount you fraudulently claim in benefits makes me sick.

I wish somebody would give me a break and actually help me out. Saying I look tired and stressed isn’t helpful at all.

what I want to say out loud but can’t, is I love you.

I am fed up with the bitching between you all. Block each other on social media.
I am not dealing with issues that come into school. I am not interested. Keep out of the others fucking way. Stop creating fucking drama. Stop getting involved in everyone else's shit.

You were all literally told to stop coming to me for every single questions/query/mistake and to take ownership of your own areas! It lasted all of 2 hours!

None of your so called problems come even close to anything I have experienced in my life. I am genuinely worried for when something major does happen. You will never cope.

The role you have created for yourself is a complete nonsense, non-job. You come across as completely dense.

I'm honestly wondering if I can get that first sentence put on a mug or a t-shirt.