Things I haven’t said out loud this week

[YorkieTheRabbit]

1 - No, we haven’t asked you to come over for a meal in ages, no, I don’t care how many hints you drop, it’s falling on deaf ears.
I don’t expect you to help prepare or cook when you’re here BUT I do expect you to supervise your kids, not plonk down on the sofa and completely ignore them. Accidents may happen but if you actually looked after them instead of scrolling through your phones, we wouldn’t have had a house plant tipped over the carpet, used toilet roll and wee on the toilet floor, orange juice poured in the dogs bowl plus numerous others. Oh and by the way, we’ve never been invited over to your house in the eight years you’ve lived there!

2 - Im sorry your daughter would rather spend time with her gran but for god’s sake be honest, you spent the first ten years of her life bouncing from one disastrous relationship to another because you were desperate for a bloke. You put them in front of her needs. Her gran might not be perfect but at least she was there for her.

Fucking surveyor dickhead

That's it, I'm done. It really isn't my job to facilitate your having a relationship with your GS if you don't actually want one. Oh and while we're at it, perhaps tell your DD how rude and entitled she is and then reflect on why this might be.

I dont really see a purpose to life anymore.

Ah, so now I see what goes on behind the scenes.

Random man of social media, I hope you realise the only reason I keep you on my friends list while you post umpteen times a day with pictures of you and your 20- years- younger girlfriend drinking heavily is so that I can watch the inevitable fallout with popcorn.

What did we do to you that you moved us to a different dept? You didn't move anyone else, despite saying you would?
Are we just the easy option?

I don't know why I play along. False as fuck.

You know when you take two minutes to say something nice to someone you don't even know? You can make them so much happier. Thank you.

It's still bad. I'm still being treated awfully but I'll keep your words in my mind.

I wish you nothing but good things.

@bottleofbeer I didn’t know why you are better than him, I just “knew” you were. But now I do know why.

You have nice manners and you care about that. Thank you for your reply. No matter how bad things get, he will never have the nice manners you have.

Hang in there.

@bottleofbeer one other thing, you know that new thanks button at the bottom there? I think it’s only the writer who sees the people who activate it.

Three other people agree with what I said.

Your shoe shelf is in the way (communal hall)

Why is it me putting the bins out every time?

I know you think I am exaggerating but having a kid with multiple SEND is hard, the practical stuff and the unhelpful systems. I know you work in a school. Try not to be defensive when I tell you things don't always work well for us/DS at school. It's not your school, you don't have to defend them.

I have lost patience with you. I know its an abusive relationship but I cannot help you.

I have lost patience with you. You are cruel and nasty, don't expect people to like working with you and forget what you have done for years. We are all now just protecting ourselves from your toxic ways.

Have cried myself to sleep every night this week

@bottleofbeer Four other people now.

I'm not your secretary. Grow up & organise yourself.

Stop sending me photos of your holiday. I dont give a fuck.

You are an ableist litte bitch. You are now saying you can't remember the "incident" but yet keep spreading lies about it.

Sadly, we will be seeing you in court.

Lives don't need a big purpose. Sometimes getting from one day to the next is enough. You have your own value, I hope you have had a better day today x

I'm sorry. I hope that whatever is upsetting you has an end in time x

The thing is, if you or your assistant come across as rather hostile, then I won't buy from your business again. It might benefit you to know that.

Some people are fucking stupid.

Report their fraud.

I can’t decide if you are actually really malevolent and manipulative as well as narcissistic or just incredibly stupid and lacking in self awareness . Why would I want to spend any time at all with you when every single encounter involves you putting me down , patronising me or criticising me. No Im not ‘misunderstanding’ or ‘twisting things’. Just listen to yourself .

I have this conversation in my head daily - someone I work with is just like this.

Sadly management, though they have had numerous complaints and incidents, fail to do anything about her. Whenever there's a big drama they just do a peace and reconciliation/mediation meeting where she acts as the affronted party!

Why do people overreact so much over the smallest thing (or absolutely nothing) or just life happening, when they're supposed to be relaxing/enjoying themselves?
It's like hospitality has turned into a game of how much can you find or make up, that's wrong so you can have a go at someone that you know can't respond with anything other than an apology, no matter how ridiculous or fictitious the complaints are, some people seem to actively go out of their way to catch you out for the power over someone else and expect them be grateful for it.
I keep hearing how shit customer service is, but in all honesty customer behaviour is appalling, it's like we are there to be societies whipping boy, if you're wondering why there's a lack of people wanting to work in hospitality, I'd say that is a pretty big reason tbh.

Every time I think we've reached the limits of your incompetence, you surprise me again. You really are utterly fucking useless.