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The death penalty is unpopular on here but ...TW child abuse

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Tamarindtree · 19/01/2023 13:31

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-11652805/Couple-face-jail-torturing-children-starving-pushing-boiling-showers.html

Lengthy sentences don’t cut it for me. Whilst in prison they can eat, laugh, sing, feel warm and have medical and dental care etc as well as relive and relish in their minds their evilness towards the children.

The children have a lifetime of healing.

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lunar1 · 19/01/2023 14:47

I think anyone who is willing to carry out the death penalty probably shouldn't be allowed to, because there is likely something wrong with their moral compass as well.

In theory I agree with the death penalty for certain crimes, but the thought of it actually happening makes me feel physically sick.

Having said that, if someone harmed my children, they'd want to hope for a lengthy jail sentence so I couldn't get to them first.

RustBuck · 19/01/2023 14:48

I'm pretty ambivalent about the death penalty. But I find it an easy way out for people like this.
In all honesty, I'd prefer them to be tortured. I'd prefer them to live a long life in absolute abject misery and pain.
So, yes, imprisoned. But without basic standards of care and comfort.

Giggorata · 19/01/2023 14:48

Greensleeves · 19/01/2023 14:21

Your anger and disgust is justified, but it's a common myth among death penalty supporters that those who oppose it do so out of soft-heartedness, or sympathy for the offender.

Most of us oppose the death penalty for rather more substantial reasons; the fact that no judiciary is ever foolproof enough to be worth the risk to innocent people, the corrosive effect that state-sanctioned killing has on the collective psyche, the fundamental conviction that killing is wrong, and that revenge should not be the guiding principle of justice. The death penalty harms everyone, not just the offender. It's a step backwards that no society should take.

I can't add anything to this, other than to say: exactly.

MadeOfSteel · 19/01/2023 14:49

The death penalty is sinking to the level of the criminal; taking a human life.

It isn't a deterrent (look at America) and it's not justice; it's plain old revenge.

Two wrongs don't make a right.

EileenAdler · 19/01/2023 14:55

Giggorata · 19/01/2023 14:48

I can't add anything to this, other than to say: exactly.

Colin Pitchfork is free to walk out the front gates and resume his life. Just take a minute and imagine what those two girls went through. Yes, he did it twice !. And he walks free, probably with an official change of name and a secret location. How is that a forward step for society?

MayThe4th · 19/01/2023 15:01

I haven’t read the article because it’s a dm link however, for those who are in favour of the death penalty, could you do it?

Could you tell your children that you kill people for a living?
The rate of mental breakdown among those who carry out the death penalty is extremely high,

Also in countries where the death penalty is legal the conviction rate is often lower because jurors are less likely to convict if it means that they are essentially going to be responsible for another human’s death.

Greensleeves · 19/01/2023 15:01

EileenAdler · 19/01/2023 14:55

Colin Pitchfork is free to walk out the front gates and resume his life. Just take a minute and imagine what those two girls went through. Yes, he did it twice !. And he walks free, probably with an official change of name and a secret location. How is that a forward step for society?

It's a valid point you're making, but I would still argue that the death penalty isn't the answer.

I think we need a radical overhaul of our approach to criminal justice, personally. Imprisonment should only be used to protect society from those who pose a significant risk of harm; not as a catch-all for all crime. Those who have committed serious violent crimes, especially multiple, premeditated violent crimes, should be accommodated away from society on a permanent basis. They should still be treated humanely and have their basic human rights respected, but they should not be offered the opportunity to reoffend. Fewer and smaller prisons, with longer sentences for those who really need to be in them. Alternative, community-based responses to white-collar and non-violent crime.

We can protect the innocent from recidivist murderers without resorting to state-sanctioned killing, and that, as a civilised society, is what we should be doing.

Brefugee · 19/01/2023 15:02

How about convicted murders who on release went on to murder again, 22 recorded cases of that. And there are criminals who murdered three times !. All those people would’ve still be alive if the original murders had faced a rope.
Personally I feel if you take another life , for no reason, then you forfeit your own.

If you didn't read what people wrote, nobody can help you.

I volunteer you to be the first miscarriage of justice and have the death penalty. It might make you agitate the brain cells a bit.

We are talking about the death penalty here. Not the justice system.

innocenceproject.org/exonerations-data/

of 241 people exonerated by the US justice system - 10% of them had been sentenced to death. There's 24 people who would have been executed because the justice system doesn't always work.

IDontCareMatthew · 19/01/2023 15:07

catmademedoit · 19/01/2023 14:37

I'm a prison nurse and can assure you it is no holiday camp

Yes you will always see them having 3 meals a day , roof over their head and access to healthcare etc , some have access to education and the gym - that's 40 minute of an otherwise locked up 23 hr day

What you don't see much of is the low quality food , the cell conditions , the regime , the bullying , harassment , assaults , regular deliberate self harm , mental health deterioration

I am in favour of the death penalty for certain crimes but the process would be impossible to manage so will never happen

I work in a men's prison and agree with the above.,you have no idea what prison life is like until you are in one.....ours is bloody grim! It's no picnic I assure you

But you want us to have a "death row"?

Can you imagine how difficult and expensive that would be? What about the staff expected to manage those people? How would you fit a death row into current scenario?

barneshome · 19/01/2023 15:08

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pelargoniums · 19/01/2023 15:13

Frumpymumma · 19/01/2023 14:21

Im all for it!
Half the time a lengthy sentence is maybe 10 years, so 10 years and they could be out free to harm other children! No fucking way.

In fact id love them to have everything done to them that those poor children went through, eating soap, boiling baths and showers, starved etc.

Who do you suggest enacts those punishments? What do you think their mental health would look like after each day at work – what kind of people would they become?

Your post also suggests it’s OK to do those things if you think the person deserves it: the same mentality this couple had against the children.

IDontCareMatthew · 19/01/2023 15:16

RustBuck · 19/01/2023 14:48

I'm pretty ambivalent about the death penalty. But I find it an easy way out for people like this.
In all honesty, I'd prefer them to be tortured. I'd prefer them to live a long life in absolute abject misery and pain.
So, yes, imprisoned. But without basic standards of care and comfort.

So I'm expected to spend a 10 hour shift dealing with this person then am I?

You are going to work in the conditions you want to impose on the prisoner I assume?

NotAnotherBathBomb · 19/01/2023 15:20

Ok but were they those kids biological parents? How did they get access to them? Neighbours thought there weren't any children at the house

RustBuck · 19/01/2023 15:24

No, that's my point. Don't 'deal with them'. Don't waste time and resources on them.
Shove them in a room with a hole in the floor for their toilet.
Feed them twice a day on plain rice and tinned vegetables.
A bucket of warm water and a bar of soap three times a week for their washing.
No 'outside time'.
No TV.
No spending time with other prisoners.
No common rooms.

These people deserve nothing. They should get nothing.

EileenAdler · 19/01/2023 15:26

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catmademedoit · 19/01/2023 15:29

@IDontCareMatthew What Cat are you ?
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BloodAndFire · 19/01/2023 15:33

NotAnotherBathBomb · 19/01/2023 14:37

Not the point of the post, but what what the couple's relationship to the children? The article doesn't say.

It deliberately doesn't say, to avoid identifying the children. For the same reason it would be wrong to speculate about it here.

pointythings · 19/01/2023 15:33

The Stefan Kiszko case was even worse than @Alicetheowl posted because the police knew he couldn't have been guilty. He had learning disabilities and they coerced a confession out of him knowing they were letting the real criminal go free.

And given what we're currently hearing about the Met, the last thing we should be doing is bringing back the death penalty.

IDontCareMatthew · 19/01/2023 15:35

RustBuck · 19/01/2023 15:24

No, that's my point. Don't 'deal with them'. Don't waste time and resources on them.
Shove them in a room with a hole in the floor for their toilet.
Feed them twice a day on plain rice and tinned vegetables.
A bucket of warm water and a bar of soap three times a week for their washing.
No 'outside time'.
No TV.
No spending time with other prisoners.
No common rooms.

These people deserve nothing. They should get nothing.

But we have a code of conduct, prison law. All the legalities

We cannot do what you suggest, that's just a knee jerk, emotional reaction.

Someone with nothing to lose is likely to become a staff assaulter... we have enough of that as it is!
What about everyone else in this prisoners life? Parents, legal team as well as staff.

No matter what someone has done, I for one cannot sit back and watch another human being treated as you suggest.....and neither could you ...

IDontCareMatthew · 19/01/2023 15:36

catmademedoit · 19/01/2023 15:29

@IDontCareMatthew What Cat are you ?
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Hi, 👋 I'm at a Cat B !!

Thedaysthatremain · 19/01/2023 15:37

GetYourOwnTeaTiger · 19/01/2023 13:36

Humans killing humans. No matter what anyone has done I can't support that.

Same.

LappyClaps · 19/01/2023 15:38

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Touched a nerve?

CrabDuckDuckCrab · 19/01/2023 15:38

RustBuck · 19/01/2023 14:48

I'm pretty ambivalent about the death penalty. But I find it an easy way out for people like this.
In all honesty, I'd prefer them to be tortured. I'd prefer them to live a long life in absolute abject misery and pain.
So, yes, imprisoned. But without basic standards of care and comfort.

And you'd be happy living next door to your local prison torturer, would you?

Ember90 · 19/01/2023 15:39

Death is a very way out.

Brefugee · 19/01/2023 15:40

I don’t need any bodies help or my brain cells agitating, certainly not by a patronising self righteous smatchet like you.

Fair enough.

You haven't addressed miscarriages of justice here. To be fair not many others have.

So, a question to the "they should be tortured" or "they should be in a cell with a hole for a toilet and slop twice a day"

What do you do about miscarriages of justice? What happens when the truth comes out and someone you have tortured (and that cell is a torture instrument) or worse, executed, what then?

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