Literally anything ever typed on the myriad of anti trans threads on Mumsnet - pure hate and fear. Makes me sad.
The D's before everything
"you sound mad/insane/like a dreadful person" etc to someone that is clearly having a bit of a crisis and needs some kindness.
when people start banging on about someone not returning quickly enough to a thread, start accusing them of making it all up etc coz they're taking too long - like people don't have work and lives to manage.
When people use incredibly annoying, carefully considered PA comments disguised as being helpful, eg: "are you not able to simply just manage this by ....."
When people give really patronising advice to posters about their ability to work more hours/earn more money when the poster has clearly said they cannot "are you not able to go off and get an evening job? Can your DH not do a seated job despite the fact he has no legs?" etc.
Any thread that starts on about council housing and people having it easy because their rent appears to be low and people think they get an easy ride re repairs and so on. These comments usually posted by mumsnetters who clearly have zero experience of social housing.
People questioning why others are on ESA and PIP, esp if the poster puts how much they get in benefits, as if the assessments and hoops people have to go through are somehow a piece of piss and they have managed to cheat the system - mumsnetters obvs the experts on this very complicated system and will persist on coming up with solutions that suggest someone that has been assessed as not having to work should just go out and get a job.
Any thread where a poster dares to omit personal info that others have demanded because they think it's their right to know all of the OP's personal info so that they can assassinate them "you have been asked several times, OP, why you haven't XXX - why haven't you answered?" Because they don't want to share that information with you, Mumsnetter.
Any thread where a poster posts carers allowance and high levels of benefits for looking after a very disabled child, and people start making "I don't know why I bother working! Gracious!" type comments.
I literally hate mumsnet. Used to be on here when my kids were tiny, they're older teens now. And I drifted back, I can't remember why, and now I'm here as some sort of exercise in self harm, it seems. I actually can't believe the nastiness and hatefulness on threads, a lot of the time.
And yeah, I should leave. I probably will at some point.