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Just visited Newport, couldn’t wait to leave, what’s your get me outta here place?

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TheChristmasElf · 06/01/2023 16:05

Just have just visited Newport for an appointment, we weren’t there long, toilet stop and cuppa in Asda, half hour appointment in city centre and then got lost on the way out but felt very uneasy the whole time were there. It had quite a menacing feel to it and even on the bare aesthetics of the city seemed quite run down with a lots of old closed pubs, shops etc…

I would actually go as far to say it made me feel quite unwell but I guess that would just be coincidence!!

We actually live rural Devon so not even like I’m not used to the odd lay line of two but I was quite relieved to get back on the road…

Has anyone else felt that about a place before?

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Upwiththelark76 · 06/01/2023 18:24

Scarborough. So rough on a night out .

notameangirlhun · 06/01/2023 18:25

Fallulah · 06/01/2023 17:01

Stoke on Trent - I lasted two months. The traffic, the fact there didn’t seem to be any ‘nice’ areas (I got burgled more than once living in off campus halls) and the fact it doesn’t have any kind of heart/middle - it’s five different ‘towns’. And just the grey-ness!

I am not really a city person, but to be fair I lived in Birmingham for a few years after that and absolutely adored it!

Feel exactly the same about Stoke-on-trent

Zorrita · 06/01/2023 18:25

Wolverhapton and Stoke-on-Trent. Met lovely people in both places but the places themselves..... Grin

And next on the list is Stockton-on-Tees which i've heard is just... lovely 😵

Crayfishforyou · 06/01/2023 18:25

Crawley. Total shit hole.

Backstreets · 06/01/2023 18:27

Monaco was too posh for me!

LemonLymanDotCom · 06/01/2023 18:28

For me it has to be Merthyr Tydfil or Weston Super Mare. Both truly depressing places and huge sympathies to anyone who loves there

Cherrysoup · 06/01/2023 18:28

MadameSzyszkoBohusz · 06/01/2023 17:07

Fucking Watford. Driving round there is like the seventh circle of hell.

Is that because you went round the ring road 4 times by accident whilst trying to get to your friend’s house (which is way before the ring road??)

RedCarsGoFaster · 06/01/2023 18:28

YolayCaprese · 06/01/2023 16:18

Plymouth town centre, about 20 years ago. It was just a nothing place.

Agreed, it was horrific. It's improved now, but is by no means a nice place to go (it's my nearest city / big town). Lots of new plans for Union Street and the centre - I hope they all happen!

For me it was Crewe. I was there for a week with work. Dark, dirty and unwelcoming except for two amazing restaurants we went into. Even the Premier Inn was soul destroying.

Jayneisagirlsname · 06/01/2023 18:29

Simplelobsterhat · 06/01/2023 17:55

I felt really unsettled driving through Cambridgeshire a few years ago. I've always lived in South Wales, apart from a year in Bristol, so I'm used to always being near hills, and reasonably near the coast. I found the flatness and the distance I could see quite freaky somehow. I wonder if a few of these are linked to being in very different landscapes from 'home'.

Newport I can absolutely understand feeling like that, but I worked there for years and got to quite like it - but you have to get to know it I think.

That's a good point about the different landscapes and going away from what you're used to. I now live in Cambridgeshire and it took me a good few years to get used to the flatness.

Nowadays I love the big sky, openness and seeing for miles. We visited friends in the Lakes recently and I couldn't wait to leave, it felt so closed in and oppressive with the shadows of the hills & mountains.

Trinity65 · 06/01/2023 18:29

Oh Yes
Saw somebody mention Canvey Island. Dear God what a Dive.
It probably didn't help that the Man I went on a date with there was a total Dick though, to be fair.

Crikeyalmighty · 06/01/2023 18:30

I'm suprised several people mentioned Nottingham- I'm a right old snob about places but a Notts girl originally and I always enjoyed Nottingham- particularly Lace market area, and The Park (great gothic houses) - there are way worse places although can be rough at night

NotEnoughTime · 06/01/2023 18:30

I can't believe two posters have mentioned Durham. I think it is a beautiful place-the city and the surrounding countryside.

I don't particularly like Slough but as a pp mentioned lots of high streets aren't very nice anymore :(

MooseAndSquirrelLoveFlannel · 06/01/2023 18:31

Brighton, felt very unwelcome and it just had an air of judgement about it.

CurlyClairey · 06/01/2023 18:31

People saying Cardiff, Manchester, Sheffield, Liverpool, Durham, Bath, Bristol… 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 there certainly are some run down places in the UK but come onnnn. Hilarious!

creamcoffee · 06/01/2023 18:32

spell checked Brighton North Laines, as i mentioned it earlier.
it is touted as bohemiam
now that is very annoying - the vintage clothing stores are ridiculously over priced and grabby! poor youngsters who fall for this crap

not many mentions of London interestingly

i agree all small towns are depressing, particularly in the winter.
but Hastings isnt appealing at any time.

creamcoffee · 06/01/2023 18:33

MooseAndSquirrelLoveFlannel · 06/01/2023 18:31

Brighton, felt very unwelcome and it just had an air of judgement about it.

absolutely!

Talaforniababe · 06/01/2023 18:33

In the UK, Eastleigh, Stevenage and Northampton are very depressing. Newry is a tip as well, although the shopping centre is OK.
In Ireland, Dublin has gone downhill. It has good points but too many junkies and drunk old men wandering around. I say that as a Dubliner. The graveyard in Askeaton, Co. Limerick gave me the absolute creeps.
More internationally, I found Texas boring and unfriendly. Barcelona is just a den of thieves. I got robbed blind there.

NotEnoughTime · 06/01/2023 18:34

There is some stunning countryside in the South Wales Valleys.

I have also been to beautiful beaches in Pembrokeshire and Anglesey.

I love Cardiff :)

Curledupwithagoodbook · 06/01/2023 18:34

In terms of feeling unsettled, I'd say the Isle of Wight. I will never go there again, it just makes me uneasy. Fleetwood, the Cumbrian coast and Cockermouth are the other places I'd add to the list.

The places which are run down and deprived, sadly there are so many, but I don't really see the point of listing them, they're all easily found on indices of deprivation maps.

dodobookends · 06/01/2023 18:34

Tewkesbury and Evesham are perfectly nice towns, but both induce in me a sense of impending doom. I suspect it is their low-lying proximity to the Avon and the inherent and not infrequent flood risk.

Glen Coe gives me the heebie-jeebies.

Can I nominate a road? The A41 from Aylesbury to Bicester.

Shufflebumnessie · 06/01/2023 18:35

St Austell (but it was 25 years ago)
Burnham-on-Sea
Bristol
Sonning ( and various surrounding areas).

Trinity65 · 06/01/2023 18:35

Curledupwithagoodbook · 06/01/2023 18:34

In terms of feeling unsettled, I'd say the Isle of Wight. I will never go there again, it just makes me uneasy. Fleetwood, the Cumbrian coast and Cockermouth are the other places I'd add to the list.

The places which are run down and deprived, sadly there are so many, but I don't really see the point of listing them, they're all easily found on indices of deprivation maps.

I have never been to the Isle of Wight but I read a book once, called Prey, a novel it was, but it scared me so much I never wanted to go.

incywincyspidery · 06/01/2023 18:36

The one place that always gave me the creeps is Earls Court in London and I have no idea why. We'd drive through frequently when I was a child and it always frightened me, especially when it was dark. It had nothing to do with feeling unsafe as we'd always be in the car. But it always made me feel desolate and sad and I'd have quite dark thoughts, which isn't remotely in my nature usually.

AffIt · 06/01/2023 18:36

Bristol.

I've got mates who live there and love it, but I just thought it was unbelievably depressingly grey and dull (and I grew up in Glasgow in the 1980s/90s, so I'm not without my grey / dull points of reference).

Shufflebumnessie · 06/01/2023 18:37

Forgot to add Deal to my previous post.

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