Wombat you are the one picking fights and over invested.
You said 'free pasta' would stop people losing weight, and unlimited eating was why people get fat in the first place.
I dispute that. When you have as much vegetable as pasta, you can eat as much as you like. You can eat quite a lot. BUT It's still got less calories in than the family size bag of crisps and a mars bar that people may have substituted for a meal previously. It's got less calories in that the pasta in a packet carbonara chased down with a slice of cake. Less calories than many other 'meals' people will have been eating before joining.
You can eat an awful lot of foods that are not calorie dense, feel full and less inclined to polish off a mars bar mid evening.
The idea is to feel 'allowed' to eat as much as you like of a whole range of foods, so you don't feel deprived and hungry. Guess who raids the biscuit barrel more often? People who feel deprived and hungry.
When you are full of nutritious, high protein, high fibre foods, you are less inclined to get into sugar spikes and crashes, and hanker for calorie dense high fat food like cheese.
I mean come on, crisps, nuts, chocolate, biscuits, pastry, cheese, bread, butter, cake.... all restricted. When you aren't eating any of that, you can afford to eat a hell of a lot of plain pasta before getting into trouble.
Turning around the initial bad habits helps you lose a good chuck of weight. At that point, yes, weight loss slows and you need to reassess your eating. That's when you need to question whether you need less, now you are 3 stone smaller. That's when you need to up your activity levels. If you have got to that point then you've done damn well, even if you never lose another pound.
I've lost 5.5stone. In an ideal world I'd lose another 2. However at the moment I can eat pretty much what I want, on plan, with goodies whenever they are offered. The old habits that got me into trouble are pretty much reorganised away.
I have not only gone to group most weeks for 2 years, I have also changed my habits and diet, I've stopped putting on weight, I've started losing weight, and am now maintaining weight. I'm choosing between a treat now or a treat later, instead of having both. I'm leaving some foods uneaten, because they aren't as nice as something else I'm going to have later.
I've done that with the help of SW.
That's pretty radical, and it's very rude of you to dismiss it as 'eating as much pasta as you like'.
It's not a fast fix. No one says that. For it to work takes support from people around you. Some weeks go better than others. You need to be mindful about what you are doing and why, you don't lose weight by turning up- how could you?
When you rubbish it you aren't helping anyone. Different things work for different people. Could sarah do better on Noom or MyFitnessPal? Maybe.
I did pretty much everything over the years. Obsessive calorie counting didn't help me. Intermittent fasting didn't. Low carb did the first time, but I couldn't sustain it due to special occasions.
I don't rubbish those systems. Calorie counting got me into disordered eating.
Disordered eating isn't the fault of the diet, it's in those of us who suffer it, regardless of the system.