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Help me change my name please

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ByebyeKaren · 23/11/2022 14:34

For a long time, I've wanted to change my first name for various family reasons.

My name is Karen but I can't think of anything I like that is linked even in a small way. It can't be Kate as have two in the family already.

Oh and it's not because of the current connotation within the name!

All suggestions considered 😀

OP posts:
ByebyeKaren · 23/11/2022 19:41

Wren is lovely too

OP posts:
KnickerlessParsons · 23/11/2022 19:43

Mirren/Mirran?
Sharon

Cara is much nicer than Kara.

LookItsMeAgain · 23/11/2022 19:45

If you like Cara or Kara, but you still think it's too close to Lara, how about Carla?

Fivebeanchilli · 23/11/2022 19:50

I love Cara/ Kara.
One of my favourite names is the Cornish name Carenza and I believe it is sometimes spelt Karenza or Kerensa.
I don't know if that's a bit similar to Karen though!

Autumnmoonshines · 23/11/2022 19:51

Not sure if it’s been suggested

Karina?

Clawdy · 23/11/2022 19:52

Kerensa. Lovely Cornish name, meaning love.

Minimalme · 23/11/2022 19:58

I changed my first and last name and I spent about a year considering different names.

I wanted to drop my name because of childhood abuse, but I consulted very close friends and my dh - and even had a thread on here.

In the end I started using my married name (after 16 yrs!), kept my middle name and dropped two middle letters from my original name - think Maria to Mia.

I have felt a bit embarrassed at times but my friends have been brilliant. I am only in contact with one member of my birth family and they really struggle but they are very supportive.

xJ0y · 23/11/2022 20:03

ByebyeKaren · 23/11/2022 18:05

Thanks everyone! I'm liking Cara. What do you think about it spelt with a K?

To answer a few questions, I feel a bit trapped by my name - hard to explain. Parent issues!

Unfortunately no great middle name to be used.

I love Wren too but would ideally like to stick with a K initial but accept that may not be possible.

Open to more ideas!

I love Kara! It's a different sound, with a fresher feel but I think having the same initial would seem less of a leap. Not that you have to justify this decision to anybody.

I also like just Kay which I don't htink you would need to change legally, you could really just use Kay.

Alopeciabop · 23/11/2022 20:03

Rae or Kezia

Minimalme · 23/11/2022 20:04

My advice would be to just go with the name which you really like.

Kara is lovely and if it feels right, just go for it!

PhotoDad · 23/11/2022 20:08

How about "Kay"?

GrubzUp · 23/11/2022 20:10

Kali
Karla
Kezia
Kari / Karrie
Karmen

MyGreenTutu · 23/11/2022 20:11

www.thinkbabynames.com/start/0/Kar

This website is full of suggestions ^

UglyBeauty · 23/11/2022 20:12

Ren is lovely

It could be short for Renée which might be appropriate given the meaning.

From wiki ‘ Renée is the female form of René, with the extra –e making it feminine according to French grammar.The name Renée is the French form of the late Roman name Renatus and the meaning is reborn or born again.’

Kiki
Kristen
Kathryn
Karyn

The name Karen in French is a variant of Catherine so what about other names with the same meaning ‘clear’ or ‘pure’.

Clara
Clare

Words · 23/11/2022 20:12

Cerian. But spell it with a C not a K.

ifeelbeautifulbutunnoticed · 23/11/2022 20:12

ByebyeKaren · 23/11/2022 14:34

For a long time, I've wanted to change my first name for various family reasons.

My name is Karen but I can't think of anything I like that is linked even in a small way. It can't be Kate as have two in the family already.

Oh and it's not because of the current connotation within the name!

All suggestions considered 😀

Elouise

ifeelbeautifulbutunnoticed · 23/11/2022 20:14

ByebyeKaren · 23/11/2022 18:05

Thanks everyone! I'm liking Cara. What do you think about it spelt with a K?

To answer a few questions, I feel a bit trapped by my name - hard to explain. Parent issues!

Unfortunately no great middle name to be used.

I love Wren too but would ideally like to stick with a K initial but accept that may not be possible.

Open to more ideas!

Don't do a Wren or anything sounding similar to Karen because people will continue to call you the old version they're used to. I would suggest going for a name that spells and sounds completely different.

Iliveinanoodie · 23/11/2022 20:22

Kat.
Or use a variant as Karen means pure/clear so maybe Clara?

WhenWho · 23/11/2022 20:23

Katrina, Katharine, Klara, Katerina, Kathryn, Kristina, Kirsty.

Or just go for a nickname like Carrie.

xyzzyx · 23/11/2022 20:31

Klara
Katya
Karoline
Karolina
Klarissa
Kirsten
Kirsty
Kristie
Kacie
Kameron
Kassie
Kristina
Kara
Kadence

ILIWYS · 23/11/2022 21:08

Keira? Carys?

MammaWeasel · 23/11/2022 21:11

Karina

MsJuniper · 23/11/2022 21:16

I know a Keren which I think is pretty. Or Kerensa?

Also knew a Callie short for Caroline which I thought was very glamorous. Kallie could work?

Unicorn2022 · 23/11/2022 21:18

PP just beat me to Keren, which is really nice and won't be too difficult to get used to

Bumzoo · 23/11/2022 21:21

I think Kara could be a nn for Karen.