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Films you see differently as an adult...

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LoveShitJokes · 19/11/2022 18:45

I presume this has been done before but fuck it, it's Saturday night and I'm bored. So I'll start...

Mrs Doubtfire. As a child I saw Miranda as a boring, stuck up cow. As an adult I see her as a successful, independent woman exasperated with her man child husband who gives me The Ultimate Ick. And then some. I'm gobsmacked she ever married him. Stuart was a capable, equal partner not the villain I once thought him to be. Anyone else?

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Sparklingbrook · 19/11/2022 21:11

lindaha · 19/11/2022 21:09

Yes and why he didn't get removed from the place when he hijacked the end of the season show remains a mystery

they were both adults, he wasn't her teacher. You are thinking wayyy to much into this.

I think you are the one on here giving it way more thought than anyone else. Grin

lindaha · 19/11/2022 21:11

So she's an innocent teen girl and he's much older and sexually experienced then

they are both legal consenting adults. He was 24/25, hardly 50. I don't think that's a bad age gap in fairness.

Sluj · 19/11/2022 21:14

badbaduncle · 19/11/2022 19:30

Yeah, read about the amazing and tragic woman who wrote it. Heartbreaking. She knew EXACTLY what she was writing and she lived on the hell hole estate it is set on.
So so sad: en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Andrea_Dunbar

Just followed that link, what a very sad life she had.
I always thought it was actually quite a realistic film though not necessarily with Bob being perceived as such a catch.

Snipples · 19/11/2022 21:17

I always think of the sound of music. I thought the baroness was a real villain when I watched it when I was younger. Now I think she was hard done by. She's all set to marry and some dippy little nun gets the sewing machine out and that's the end of her. She handled herself with such grace too.

SanchezAndSmith · 19/11/2022 21:18

Babochan88 · 19/11/2022 21:03

Parent trap!!!!!

  • they separate twins
  • each parent goes no contact with one twin
  • that don’t tell the twins about each other
  • the twins then bullied Meredith

I actually feel sorry for poor Meredith. She’s engaged to a man who’s still in love with his ex. He reconnects with the ex a few days before the wedding, and surprises her with another child (the twin)…and then they bully her. He then gets back with the ex…and he has to be 20 years older than her. Poor girl

Meredith wasn’t the villain

Interesting. I haven't seen this since I was about 10. I hated Meredith. Tbf the actress has one of the most smug annoying faces I've ever seen.

I hated the parents as well though. How could you just cut one of your children out of your life forever?

AnImaginaryCat · 19/11/2022 21:19

Ferris Bueller's Day Off.

No idea how I didn't see that the character was anything but a bully and hideous person.

forlornlorna1 · 19/11/2022 21:21

nophonesonbed · 19/11/2022 19:21

Rita sue and Bob too. A fun film about people enjoying themselves. Or teens being sexually abused???

Omg this this this

BippityBopper · 19/11/2022 21:21

Scary Movie - thought it was so funny when I was younger. I saw abit of it on TV the other day and the Doofy character is just mocking people with special needs. I certainly don't find it funny now. Not just the Doofy character, it just seemed shit overall.

marvellousmaple · 19/11/2022 21:22

AnImaginaryCat · 19/11/2022 21:19

Ferris Bueller's Day Off.

No idea how I didn't see that the character was anything but a bully and hideous person.

Nooooooooo! You are wrong. No discussion. Best movie ever. 😁

BuryingAcorns · 19/11/2022 21:23

AnnaMagnani · 19/11/2022 20:29

Brief Encounter. Cried buckets as a teen, thought Trevor Howard was the most romantic person ever.

Now happily married I honestly think he's a seedy little shit. Celia's Johnson's husband is lovely and caring rather than dull and boring and definitely a lot better bet than manipulative Trevor.

I thought that when I saw it. The husband is witty and kind and Trevor is a sleazy tosser.

BippityBopper · 19/11/2022 21:25

Also Friends as Rachel almost always is in a tight fitting top with erect nipples. I really don't care about those real life occurrences, but it just makes me think of lecherous directors/producers sexualising the female characters.

Mirabai · 19/11/2022 21:25

Sparklingbrook · 19/11/2022 19:46

Dirty Dancing.
Loved it as a teen. As a parent all I can think is ‘we took you on a nice family holiday and you sneak off to sleep with the sleazy been around the block older dance teacher’. Eww. And we’re going home right now, via the STD clinic.

Nooo Johnny has principles and anyway: ”I’m scared of walking out of here tonight and never feeling my whole life the way I feel when I’m with you”.

Gagung.

Mirabai · 19/11/2022 21:26

Pretty Woman however - I thought it was skeezy at the time it doesn’t look less skeezy now.

GlitteryGreen · 19/11/2022 21:27

God, loads!

The one that springs to mind is The Santa Clause....one of my favourite Christmas films but now when I watch I think how nice Neil the stepdad is and how pathetic Scott the dad is constantly trying to make Charlie dislike Neil.

containsnuts · 19/11/2022 21:29

Mermaids. 15 year old girl with emotional problems wears her mother's dress and loses virginity to 26 year old man, meanwhile, the 9 year old sister is left unsupervised, gets drunk, falls in a pond and nearly drowns. 15 year old gets the blame. Watched this at 15. Thought it was hilarious!

Backstreetsbackalrightdadada · 19/11/2022 21:30

So Friends… Joey is fine, he isn’t mean or lecherous to women or mean (is he?!), he’s sort of your neighbourhood friendly man-ho. Doesn’t pretend to be anything else or promise anything. But Ross… omg. Just mean and controlling, jealous and unkind to his exes.

Ghostbusters - watched for the first time this year. Why is bill Murray’s character SO mean to basically all women?! Why?? Like really hates them? So weird and unfunny.

When Harry Met Sally - similarly, Harry is a twat really. Him saying something nice (once) doesn’t change that. God the bar must’ve been so low in the 80s with romcoms.

badbaduncle · 19/11/2022 21:31

AnImaginaryCat · 19/11/2022 21:19

Ferris Bueller's Day Off.

No idea how I didn't see that the character was anything but a bully and hideous person.

the main thing about enjoying FB is understanding Cameron is the main character

badbaduncle · 19/11/2022 21:32

Sorry, that sounded like a twatty reddit-style comment. I meant watch it from his perspective and it is great!

astronewt · 19/11/2022 21:33

EineReiseDurchDieZeit · 19/11/2022 19:51

The bit that gets me now is her Dad having to give Penny an abortion. He literally broke the law for them and could have lost his medical licence.

He didn't; he cared for her and patched her up after she was given a backstreet-coathanger abortion by some other bastard. He wouldn't have been risking his license.

AnneShirley18 · 19/11/2022 21:34

Not a movie but the My So Called Life series. I loved Angela and thought her mum was a nosy, uptight snob. Now as an adult I'm Team Patti all the way!

Mirabai · 19/11/2022 21:37

AnneShirley18 · 19/11/2022 21:34

Not a movie but the My So Called Life series. I loved Angela and thought her mum was a nosy, uptight snob. Now as an adult I'm Team Patti all the way!

Exactly my experience. I also notice how well-written it was because it’s still good now.

nophonesonbed · 19/11/2022 21:38

@Mirabai yep you are so right!!

Neodymium · 19/11/2022 21:38

Omg yes mermaids. I remember watching it and thinking how lucky she was with that guy as he was so hot, and seemed like such a nice guy helping out at the convent. But now he seems like a predator. Plus he must have bragged about it after - charlottes mum said at the hospital ‘oh we all know what you were doing. The whole town knows what you were doing’. How would anyone else know what happened in the bell tower when they were alone? From the nuns? And after everything they kept in contact - she said at the end they still write to each other.

EineReiseDurchDieZeit · 19/11/2022 21:38

Ah, I misremembered it then, it's been quite a while. Thanks

nophonesonbed · 19/11/2022 21:40

containsnuts · 19/11/2022 21:29

Mermaids. 15 year old girl with emotional problems wears her mother's dress and loses virginity to 26 year old man, meanwhile, the 9 year old sister is left unsupervised, gets drunk, falls in a pond and nearly drowns. 15 year old gets the blame. Watched this at 15. Thought it was hilarious!

Loved it as a teen. The fact that a teen girl is popular with the boys once's she lost her virginity ewww

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