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Scared of motorway - what shall I do?

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Isitfine · 23/10/2022 19:13

Going on holiday and my partner doesn’t drive so I’m the driver. I’ve only been driving a year and because I was pregnant didn’t drive much and haven’t gone on the motorway yet.

Going away for two nights and leaving baby with grandparents who live in Greater London.
we could get the train but would mean lugging all her stuff and there’s quite a few changes, or I could drive to grandparents which would take half the time near enough but the only thing is I need to go on motorway for 40 miles which I’ve never done and I’m petrified.
But it would be a lot easier.

No chance to practice, I’ve left it too late. Do I just do it or get the train? Any advice to make me less scared?

OP posts:
ParisTrip · 24/10/2022 17:59

Next time you can go all the way to the airport if you want to. Or not if you don’t. Really, really well done.

surreygirl1987 · 24/10/2022 18:50

Yay!! Well done!!

PrescriptionOnlyMedicine · 24/10/2022 18:55

Isitfine · 24/10/2022 17:15

Just to update - I did it! And it was okay! Feeling proud of myself for doing it

Well done OP

I’ve been driving for over 30 years and I still hate motorways but it’s always ok

ClearButtons · 24/10/2022 19:50

Ah well done!! Def keep it going and get back out again soon - beat the fear and go explore all those places you've wanted to go! Enjoy your break

BCBird · 24/10/2022 20:10

Good for you 🙂

Seasider2017 · 24/10/2022 20:29

Oh wow bloody well done
enjoy your break

HappyAsASandboy · 24/10/2022 20:34

Caroffee · 23/10/2022 19:25

Have a motorway driving lessons. Driving instructors offer these on a one-off basis to qualified drivers.

There's nothing to motorway driving. It's the easiest type of driving because you just drive in a straight line.

This.

Book one or two lessons with someone qualified, or ask a confident friend to come with you for a practise. Having someone with you (who can drive!), to double check your decisions, give a real boost to your confidence. Talk to them about what you're seeing and deciding; say "I want to pull out and overtake. I've checked my speed, checked whether there is anything in any lanes to my right that might be in or enter the lane I'm moving to, and now I think it's safe". They'll confirm or point out something you've missed. Doing that sort of thing a few times will give you confidence in your decision making.

AnnapurnaSanctuary · 24/10/2022 20:37

Yes! Well done OP.

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