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Do you remember floating down the stairs as a child?

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PornographicPriestess · 11/10/2022 12:35

Last night my eldest DC (17) asked if I had any memories of floating down the stairs as a child. I do. Very vivid memories that I've never mentioned to anyone else. I don't know how old I was at the time, but we left that particular property (the memory is still clear in my mind's eye) when I was seven, so presumably it was prior to that.

DC also has their own memories of them floating down the stairs when they were young.

A quick Google suggests it's a common phenomenon, but it isn't something I'd come across before.

Obviously I can't possibly have floated down the stairs and it was probably a dream, but why on Earth do people remember that particular dream? It makes me doubt the reliability of my memory.

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AmberGer · 13/10/2022 19:57

I casually dropped it into conversation with my ds (10) today and asked if it had ever happened to him. He said no.
To be fair, none of our staircases are straight. They are L shaped. I wonder if that makes a difference?
I will ask eldest ds when I see him.

Arnaquer · 13/10/2022 20:13

I don't recall 'floating' but I remember aged 3 or 4 jumping from the top of the stairs several times because I thought I could fly. I survived it my Mum still talks about finding me tucked under the sideboard at the bottom where I'd landed

iloveroastpotatoes · 13/10/2022 22:25

No but I had many vivid dreams of being able to breathe underwater.

Baaaaaa · 13/10/2022 22:49

I feel extremely left out. I want floating stair dreams.

Winceybincey · 13/10/2022 23:24

As an adult do you all just close your eyes, blank your minds of thoughts and just fall asleep? I ask this as I have my own little theory; Most nights since being an adult I’ve often had thousands of thoughts going round in my head when I hit the pillow. Thoughts of things going on in my life at the time, making plans or reminding myself of what I need to do the following day, thinking of the past, thinking of the future, even making up stories in my head. There’s a lot of clatter there until I eventually drift off.

However, on some occasions I don’t think of anything, I sort of trance out and it’s during these nights I have experiences like that. I believe it’s during that in-between state where you’re not fully awake but not yet asleep where hallucinations or vivid dreams happen and the fact you’re still sort of awake makes it seem real. I believe young children are in the state every night, I can’t imagine they have minds full of chatter when their heads hit the pillow and that’s why they have such vivid flying ‘dreams’.

the theory of astral projection apparently also happens in this state, with many saying they leave their bodies and fly. I commented on the previous thread of an experience I had of floating down the stairs and seeing my mum in the kitchen reading a magazine when she was supposed to be at work. When I woke up and went down the stairs, she was indeed in the kitchen reading a magazine…

either I astral projected, or I heard her come home when I was in that ‘in-between’ state and dreaming. And that I dreamed she was reading the magazine because I’d already seen it on the table when I went for the nap.

The mind and dreaming is really quite fascinating as no one really knows what’s going on or how it all works. It’s all just theories but I believe there’s so so much that isn’t known about.

Walkingtheplank · 13/10/2022 23:26

Oh not this again.
Never before have I thought that Mumsnet collectively was on glue...

Piapea · 13/10/2022 23:37

I used to have this a lot as a child, it had always felt more like a memory rather than a dream. My legs were always bent up at the knees and I floated up and down the stairs. It happened once again when I was pretty drunk in a pub while at university. I had to ask a friend if I'd fallen down the stairs as I had such a strong memory of floating down just like I did as a child. I obviously knew it didn't happen but it felt so real!

MsGrahamCheese · 13/10/2022 23:48

No, I've never heard of this before!

I did used to walk around holding a mirror under my nose so I could pretend I was walking on the ceiling though...

Arnaquer · 14/10/2022 08:32

MsGrahamCheese · 13/10/2022 23:48

No, I've never heard of this before!

I did used to walk around holding a mirror under my nose so I could pretend I was walking on the ceiling though...

That is funny.

Youreeavinalaff · 14/10/2022 09:12

sendwineandastraw · 11/10/2022 15:04

I remember this too and exactly like you describe OP, the moment before and a gentle launch up and then floating down to the bottom, I’d love to know what it means if so many people had the same dream/memory.

Another thing I would get (which I don’t now but can still vividly remember) is the big and little sensation just as I was falling asleep…

The best way to describe it was like too completely contrasting feelings at the same time…

Big, every around me felt huge and inflated I could even feel pressure of the vastness but also something so enclosed and small that it would that my lips would tighten and fingers pinch…

Very strange but definitely a vivid feeling.

Yes!! "Big small" feeling - my husband is only other person I've known who felt it too. It's almost a physical sensation of massive weight/largeness constantly swapping to a feeling of smallness. I feel it through my head and teeth. My husband visualises it as blocks. It's a sense of mass and scale, hard to describe. More common at night, only get it once or twice a year, lasts a few seconds to a minute or so.

xogossipgirlxo · 14/10/2022 10:14

I used to have this dream very often as a child.

Also, I used to fall down the stairs often and was bruised like a peach 🙄

piglet81 · 14/10/2022 11:31

Youreeavinalaff · 14/10/2022 09:12

Yes!! "Big small" feeling - my husband is only other person I've known who felt it too. It's almost a physical sensation of massive weight/largeness constantly swapping to a feeling of smallness. I feel it through my head and teeth. My husband visualises it as blocks. It's a sense of mass and scale, hard to describe. More common at night, only get it once or twice a year, lasts a few seconds to a minute or so.

I get something like this in dreams sometimes. I read about ‘Alice in wonderland syndrome’ on MN once and it’s similar.

en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alice_in_Wonderland_syndrome

Youreeavinalaff · 14/10/2022 12:44

That's really interesting, seems likely that our experience is similar, it's something neurological, although the micro/macro sensations happen together or in quick alternation for us, which is unusual according to the description of Alice in Wonderland syndrome. I get occasional migraines, although husband doesn't. We definitely got it more as a children.

Gotmyprincecharming · 14/10/2022 13:08

There was a big discussion on this only a few weeks ago.

www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/4630114-could-you-float-down-the-stairs-as-a-child

napody · 15/10/2022 21:59

Youreeavinalaff · 14/10/2022 09:12

Yes!! "Big small" feeling - my husband is only other person I've known who felt it too. It's almost a physical sensation of massive weight/largeness constantly swapping to a feeling of smallness. I feel it through my head and teeth. My husband visualises it as blocks. It's a sense of mass and scale, hard to describe. More common at night, only get it once or twice a year, lasts a few seconds to a minute or so.

Oh! I get your husband's 'blocks version' if I have a fever. So hard to describe but utterly distinctive.

PornographicPriestess · 16/10/2022 12:02

Walkingtheplank · 13/10/2022 23:26

Oh not this again.
Never before have I thought that Mumsnet collectively was on glue...

What?

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Lunificent · 16/10/2022 12:03

I didn’t realise this was a phenomenon. I remember at the age of 3 or 4 desperately wanting to be able to fly down the stairs. I probably jumped a few in order to make myself believe I floated down the stairs.

Walkingtheplank · 16/10/2022 14:32

PornographicPriestess · 16/10/2022 12:02

What?

I'm not sure what the 'What' is aimed at.

'on glue' is common Mumsnet parlance for being mad, doing strange things - as if you have sniffed glue.

And given that we for a second time have a large number of presumably grown women believing they could float as a child (not that anyone ever witnessed it), and with very few people questioning this, I have to wonder whether this is a joke, or a large number of Mumsnetters have been sniffing glue.

PornographicPriestess · 16/10/2022 14:40

I'm aware of what the phrase means. I don't see anyone saying that they actually think they have floated down the stairs, just that they have all had a similar dream and are pondering the reason for it sticking in their memory.

I have already said that I hadn't seen the first thread.

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SummerCarnival · 16/10/2022 14:42

MrsSkylerWhite · 11/10/2022 13:02

Yes! Or rather flying, with my arms out wide like in Peter Pan. The door would open as I reached it and I’d go up into the stars.

I have this exact memory too. Arms out like Peter Pan flying down the stairs (never up.) sooooo weird!

forevercooking · 16/10/2022 14:50

I absolutely do! I can even remember the feeling in my tummy!

forevercooking · 16/10/2022 14:55

Northernsoullover · 11/10/2022 15:05

I still float! Not as often as I did as a child but it still happens.

I hope I don't start this again now! I live in a bungalow 😂
I do wonder though if my sons will have this memory when they're older considering we have no stairs. Although they do now have stairs at their dads

forevercooking · 16/10/2022 14:57

debbs77 · 11/10/2022 20:01

I actually gasped when I read the title.

Yes I definitely recall doing this and would swear blind it was real!!!!

Same!!

missmamiecuddleduck · 16/10/2022 15:05

Sadly no floating down the stairs. Didn't live on a house with stairs until I was school age.

I do remember using pieces of boxes to slide down a grand staircase at a friend's house.

FernsAndFlowers · 16/10/2022 15:08

I dream about this regularly - had got to the point where I almost believed I could do it. Am disappointed it’s definitely a dream 😥