Asking adult dc to move out or change behaviour

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I’ve had enough. My house is treated like a hotel. I’m treated like staff. Every rule is broken . I can’t enforce any consequences as have run out of those I can enforce (eg no access to WiFi, not providing food so they have to buy their own etc etc )

Things have reached a head and nothing so far has worked. How do I go about removing them from the family home ? Do I even have to give notice ?
The other alternative is finding a way for them to change behaviour (but not NT so this is extremely difficult)
I’ve totally had enough.

Interestingly I could of wrote this ,
we have a social worker with the moving on to adulthood team ,who is arranging a PA person to take him places and get him out of the house .
but it’s taking a long time to organise
he’s currently ignoring me ,because I asked him again to leave the dogs alone and not keep locking them outside the house .
sadly for us ,my relationship is deteriorating to the point I’m starting to hate him.
lve given 100% to him his whole life ,my life stopped when he was born ,and he is the most selfish rude nasty person I’ve ever met ..
the PA thing is social services trying to get out of providing housing for him ,
I could list everything he does ,but what’s the point .
he’s had me pinned up against the sink with my arm twisted up my back ,while he screams in my face …and when things like that happen ,love switches off.
sadly it’s no so easy as kicking out a partner ,when it’s your own child who you want out of the house

Because they have a ban on me ever discussing them on anything like fb etc and this is probably similar so I’m just trying not to give any more detail than I need to 😞 I always up till now respect their privacy but I needed to talk