Every gay man I know has been groped (that's a lot) and few have given a st. Some just see it as a nice sign that they're attractive and smile, laugh or simply feel good about it.
We are men before we are gay men. I actually don't get on with snowflakes though I would defend their right to go into meltdown whenever they choose!
FFS. There are loads of women on MN with awful opinions but for some reason the terrible men seem to feel the need to announce their sex while spouting drivel.
Stop it- it gives the rest of us a bad name.