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Anyone else feel Kate was born to be a royal?

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Brightstar12 · 15/09/2022 11:22

Watching the Queen's coverage all week & Kate looks like she was born for the role. (Also please don't turn this into a Meghan bashing thread, Meghan is equally beautiful & elegant but has chosen to be a non working royal which is why this thread is about Kate).
Even looking back at old school photos she looked so poised & elegant. She had an idyllic childhood, supportive parents & is doing a wonderful job in her new role.

OP posts:
gnilliwdog · 15/09/2022 17:37

@LondonWolf The skinny comments were probably expressing concern about her health, though, rather than attacking her husband, family and children.

ajandjjmum · 15/09/2022 17:44

Arbesque · 15/09/2022 15:13

No one prevented Princess Margaret from marrying the man she loved.
She just wasn't able to do so and hold her place in the line of succession.
She chose the latter over the former.

It's quite shocking how these fairytales take hold, and people believe them.

Charles was not prevented from marrying Camilla, but he was sent off on his ship whilst in the Navy, and Camilla married Andrew Parker Bowles - who was the man she loved most at the time.

And Margaret grew up in the two years she and Townsend were apart, and decided that ultimately he wasn't worth sacrificing her position in the Royal Family for.

Choices they made.

Mother87 · 15/09/2022 17:50

YourLipsMyLipsApocalypse · 15/09/2022 12:14

We're lucky to have her? In what way exactly?

It just shows that misogynistic standards about what makes a good woman haven't changed since her mother in law's day. Basically, be a clothes horse, produce heirs, and shut the fuck up.

This.
She's as much of an actress as Meghan is, whilst also looking tense and not particularly happy at all. Whilst Meghan glows from within and has the good fortune to be able to escape soon

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Brightstar12 · 15/09/2022 17:53

HCPiss · 15/09/2022 16:52

Her parents socially engineered her into William’s circle, which is kind of weird. As a result her sister hasn't done too badly. Money attracts money. Her accent is very unnatural too and I do wonder if she is actually happy with her life.

But how? That circle is notoriously impossible to break into if you're not aristocratic... New money is sneered at..

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Mother87 · 15/09/2022 17:53

And the "clearly very happy" trope - I thought that the narrative had changed COMPLETELY... obviously it depends what we believe or have read - but it seems that all is definitely not well in the marriage

ajandjjmum · 15/09/2022 17:59

AsterixInEngland · 15/09/2022 17:37

You have to ask if there is any love (left) if he us cheating on her….

Vile gossip - which has been acknowledged as such.

Is that the best you have to offer?

LondonWolf · 15/09/2022 17:59

gnilliwdog · 15/09/2022 17:37

@LondonWolf The skinny comments were probably expressing concern about her health, though, rather than attacking her husband, family and children.

I didn't suggest they were though Confused.

LondonWolf · 15/09/2022 18:00

But how? That circle is notoriously impossible to break into if you're not aristocratic... New money is sneered at..

Good point.

ajandjjmum · 15/09/2022 18:01

Mother87 · 15/09/2022 17:50

This.
She's as much of an actress as Meghan is, whilst also looking tense and not particularly happy at all. Whilst Meghan glows from within and has the good fortune to be able to escape soon

Bitchy comment I know, but I don't think Meghan is a great actress, because it's always so obvious she's acting.

deedledeedledum · 15/09/2022 18:02

How is this possibly bile. I am just pointing out that the OP's imaginary story of Kate's family background is false. I have said that it is because of Carole predominantly that the family are now very well off. I have also said there is nothing wrong with being working class and that being self made is something to be congratulated for. I have absolutely no idea how you can think any of this is bile

ajandjjmum · 15/09/2022 18:05

I admire the drive and dedication that enabled the Middletons to earn their wealth - being from a working class background is nothing to be ashamed of. They are lucky that they (apparently) had support from a family Trust for the children's education, but they should be credited for raising three seemingly delightful, happy and successful offspring.

SleepingStandingUp · 15/09/2022 18:15

I'm curious how a parent engineers their kid into any social circle when they're away at Uni, let alone one that's understandably tight and wary.

LondonWolf · 15/09/2022 18:21

SleepingStandingUp · 15/09/2022 18:15

I'm curious how a parent engineers their kid into any social circle when they're away at Uni, let alone one that's understandably tight and wary.

Well they can't. It's quite simple. It's just something to bash those Middletons with for getting ideas above their station.

YourLipsMyLipsApocalypse · 15/09/2022 18:27

LondonWolf · 15/09/2022 18:00

But how? That circle is notoriously impossible to break into if you're not aristocratic... New money is sneered at..

Good point.

Didn't K and W share a flat at St Andrews? She can't have been sneered at that much.

SleepingStandingUp · 15/09/2022 18:28

Making her change her course and university, making her wait around, they engineered the entire situation and made her the one that the RF wanted for him.
Even if Kate changed Uni and course in the hope of meeting Wills, the idea that her parents somehow knew above all others what William and his family would want, that they could force their daughter, far from home, to keep up this pretence of being the perfect future Queen long enough to wed and bed him, is ridiculous.

I think you're giving them too much credit as evil geniuses and quite rude about what shit parents they are

MarieIVanArkleStinks · 15/09/2022 19:06

ajandjjmum · 15/09/2022 18:05

I admire the drive and dedication that enabled the Middletons to earn their wealth - being from a working class background is nothing to be ashamed of. They are lucky that they (apparently) had support from a family Trust for the children's education, but they should be credited for raising three seemingly delightful, happy and successful offspring.

I'm with you - right until the last sentence.

The idea that anyone's getting ideas above their station for dating the anointed Windsors, or sneering at someone for having a modest background they can't help, tends to emit from a royalist position about social superiors and betters. It's anathema to Republicans like me who can't understand the genuflecting and fawning deference given to people who choose to style themselves 'Highness'. There's been some hideous snobbery directed at her mother in the past.

The Middleton parents, as well as Sophie, Meghan, Autumn Kelly, and Zara Philips, deserve all credit for the fact that they are, or were, independent, functional adults who can get on just fine in the normal, professional world. In this respect, the three Middleton children are a lot less admirable than their parents.

ScrollingLeaves · 15/09/2022 19:20

Pinkpeony2 · Today 11:44
She wasn’t born to be a royal no. Of course not.
She was born into a very wealthy family who’s wealth is old money and stretches back.
Her family are upper middle class and that also stretches back through previous generations.

Her mother went to a state school, and was an air hostess, then a secretary. One of her mothers great grandfathers waa a coal miner, the other a labourer.

Kate has been wonderful. Perhaps northern grit and northern down to earth qualities of her antecedents have helped make her the great person she is.

VladmirsPoutine · 15/09/2022 19:44

According to reports she's been pursing this life since she was a tween. Of course she was made for it - it was all she ever wanted in life.

SleepingStandingUp · 15/09/2022 20:26

How does a Tween pursue the life of marrying Prince William other than prancing around pretending to be a Princess?

Wouldloveanother · 15/09/2022 20:30

ScrollingLeaves · 15/09/2022 19:20

Pinkpeony2 · Today 11:44
She wasn’t born to be a royal no. Of course not.
She was born into a very wealthy family who’s wealth is old money and stretches back.
Her family are upper middle class and that also stretches back through previous generations.

Her mother went to a state school, and was an air hostess, then a secretary. One of her mothers great grandfathers waa a coal miner, the other a labourer.

Kate has been wonderful. Perhaps northern grit and northern down to earth qualities of her antecedents have helped make her the great person she is.

Kate is Southern.

Anon778833 · 15/09/2022 20:33

Even if Kate changed Uni and course in the hope of meeting Wills, the idea that her parents somehow knew above all others what William and his family would want, that they could force their daughter, far from home, to keep up this pretence of being the perfect future Queen long enough to wed and bed him, is ridiculous.

There are probably a load of women just like her with families who had similar aspirations. But, of course he didn’t end up with them. St Andrew’s experienced quite a jump in their applications.

VladmirsPoutine · 15/09/2022 20:36

There are probably a load of women just like her with families who had similar aspirations. But, of course he didn’t end up with them. St Andrew’s experienced quite a jump in their applications.

I'm not surprised. Had I had sharper elbows I'd have been scaling the walls of St Andrews Grin

Honeyroar · 15/09/2022 20:48

oakleaffy · 15/09/2022 12:31

Catherine is just a ''Very nice gel'' as our Headmistress used to say.
{Gel with soft 'G'}
Catherine was brought up in that very Home Counties way, nothing to frighten the horses, seems a good egg.

Definitely not born to be 'Royal', but well suited to the role, as she doesn't seek the spotlight or ruffle feathers.

I expect the RF breathes a sigh of relief at William's choice of wife.

It's a great shame that Charles wasn't allowed to have married Camilla from the get ~go, Camilla was clearly well suited to him, and it would have spared much stress to Diana, who may well have still been alive had she not married into the RF. {''Fleeing paparazzi''}.

I pretty much agree with this.

I like her because she can stand back and be discreet when she needs to, can chat to people when she needs to, and she looks like she genuinely enjoys her role and loves her husband and children. They look like they relax and young too.

PipinwasAuntieMabelsdog · 15/09/2022 20:49

She understands the job and has a good all-round education, carries herself elegantly, is friendly and polite, well groomed. Ect. I am neither a monarchist nor a republican but I don't believe anybody is born to be anything. Circumstance and opportunities plus talent are what decide where we end up.

ImJustMadAboutSaffron · 15/09/2022 21:01

PipinwasAuntieMabelsdog · 15/09/2022 20:49

She understands the job and has a good all-round education, carries herself elegantly, is friendly and polite, well groomed. Ect. I am neither a monarchist nor a republican but I don't believe anybody is born to be anything. Circumstance and opportunities plus talent are what decide where we end up.

That's my take. She's handled everything very well.