maybe show some understanding towards those of us who are bemused by the thinking of those who want to view a coffin .
@Butitsnotfunnyisititsserious You've quoted the above from my post but your remarks are ,I presume just random and not directed at me . However ,to be clear
I made the above remark because so many posters were saying stuff along the lines of "why don't you get it ,isn't it obvious "etc etc and I felt that understanding (and even acceptance ) of other views should be possible .
You don't need to understand someone's reasonings behind it,
As I've said I do have some understanding of why people have gone.
nor do you need to tell someone that you can't understand why they want to do it I've certainly not told anyone that I can't understand why they're queuing People have their own reasons, that you may not understand, but really, you don't need to know the reasons beyond me why you've made this remark ,how have you got the idea that I need to know their reasons ? I might be interested in hearing them ,but that is different .
There's really no need to turn my post into an argument .